Am I doing to right thing?

I need some opinions for the past year and a few months I've been talking with this guy. We went out a couple of times I did notice a lot of red flags but decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. He would turn hot & cold this almost started right away I asked him if he had a girlfriend or was seeing other females. He didn't answer if he had a girlfriend or seing others all he did was ask me if I was I told him "I'm looking for a serious relationship I don't like to play games or waste my time" he said that's what he wanted. Long story short this continued all of this time I finally put all the pieces together and through a podcast that he went on I found my answer he has a girlfriend. Since we were still talking mainly through texts I may add I was suppose to go to his job this past Saturday to see him he works at a gym. but I found that out Friday he texted me Saturday "thought I was going to see you" I didn't text back he texted again, he didn't text Sunday but he texted today saying "back to ignoring me" then "whatever". My question is I feel like I don't owe him any answer considering that I asked if he had a GF since the beginning and obviously he took me as a dumb girl. Should I let it go without telling him I've finally found out or just not even bother to answer him like I have?

Thanks makes me feel better about my decision of not texting him back. I can't believe that he has a GF and wouldn't admit it to me I just don't now why would a guy deny his GF I take more respect for those guys that do.

Actuality believe it happened to me with another Aries, he told me he was single and a few months I noticed he only talks to me at work and I asked him out for a game of pool or whatever never called me but always at work we talked about everything. Then i sorted kept asking let's hang out. But still nothing. Finally after 8 months of attraction, words, and no action nothing but lies.. he told me he was married and live in separate bedrooms and getting a divorce. Wtf.

Omg noooooo always listen to the red flags!!! When a person shows you who they are believe them! Continue to ignore him! He's no good! And it's always a sign when someone ignores a question. He's trying to cheat so bad but you're definitely not going to be his sidechick! Don't look back my dear. Block him if you need to!

Posted by Cg2016
Omg noooooo always listen to the red flags!!! When a person shows you who they are believe them! Continue to ignore him! He's no good! And it's always a sign when someone ignores a question. He's trying to cheat so bad but you're definitely not going to be his sidechick! Don't look back my dear. Block him if you need to!

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Posted by jessbtwin
Thanks makes me feel better about my decision of not texting him back. I can't believe that he has a GF and wouldn't admit it to me I just don't now why would a guy deny his GF I take more respect for those guys that do.

Mhm. He sounds like a greedy Mofo. You're doing good! Stay strong OP.

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I will! €

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Actuality believe it happened to me with another Aries, he told me he was single and a few months I noticed he only talks to me at work and I asked him out for a game of pool or whatever never called me but always at work we talked about everything. Then i sorted kept asking let's hang out. But still nothing. Finally after 8 months of attraction, words, and no action nothing but lies.. he told me he was married and live in separate bedrooms and getting a divorce. Wtf.

I feel you this one would only text me and the only times he called me were because I had mention it to him. The biggest red flag was him having an iPhone & me as well but he would text me through a so called app (by sms) only. when a few days before I found out about the girl I saw him iMessaging someone most likely her I asked him he said that he would turn on/off iMessage smh. You are right wtf

Posted by Cg2016
Omg noooooo always listen to the red flags!!! When a person shows you who they are believe them! Continue to ignore him! He's no good! And it's always a sign when someone ignores a question. He's trying to cheat so bad but you're definitely not going to be his sidechick! Don't look back my dear. Block him if you need to!

I'm going to do just that I'll block if I have to I'm not a side chick and definitely not a second option. Thanks for your answer I have learn that red flags are a BIG Sign

Posted by jessbtwin

Posted by Cg2016
Omg noooooo always listen to the red flags!!! When a person shows you who they are believe them! Continue to ignore him! He's no good! And it's always a sign when someone ignores a question. He's trying to cheat so bad but you're definitely not going to be his sidechick! Don't look back my dear. Block him if you need to!

I'm going to do just that I'll block if I have to I'm not a side chick and definitely not a second option. Thanks for your answer I have learn that red flags are a BIG Sign

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You're welcome dear! Let us know if you need advice with anything that may seem fishy!

You dont owe him jack shit.

Posted by jessbtwin
Thanks makes me feel better about my decision of not texting him back. I can't believe that he has a GF and wouldn't admit it to me I just don't now why would a guy deny his GF I take more respect for those guys that do.

Hes not admitting shit if he can get ass out of it

Dont block him. Let him see you. And cry.

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Posted by jessbtwin
Thanks makes me feel better about my decision of not texting him back. I can't believe that he has a GF and wouldn't admit it to me I just don't now why would a guy deny his GF I take more respect for those guys that do.

Hes not admitting shit if he can get ass out of it

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Yeah that's what I'm thinking well he needs to go look somewhere else cause I'm definitely not that girl. Thanks for the response