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Any of you fine your mate while in a relationship with someone else?
I can't speak from my own personal experience,
But I will comment on someone else's experience.
A Virgo woman and a Cancer man fell head over heels with each other.
He was married to his wife (another Virgo) for 16 years.
He committed infidelity throughout the the entire duration of their marriage.
He 'even 'fathered' two children by his long term mistress of five years (zodiac sign unknown).
He met the Virgo woman.
He had an affair with her for 6 months before she demanded he leave his wife.
Filed for divorce from his wife and proposed to her right after.
They're currently married.
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I can't speak from my own personal experience,But I will comment on someone else's experience.
A Virgo woman and a Cancer man fell head over heels with each other.
He was married to his wife (another Virgo) for 16 years.
He committed infidelity throughout the the entire duration of their marriage.
He 'even 'fathered' two children by his long term mistress of five years (zodiac sign unknown).
He met the Virgo woman.
He had an affair with her for 6 months before she demanded he leave his wife.
Filed for divorce from his wife and proposed to her right after.
They're currently married.
Interesting, I would love to hear a story like this where infidelityou didn't play a role.
I find it heartbreaking to do this to someone...but I guess one has to do what makes theme happy as well.
Posted by Toti
I'm experiencing some strange behavior of my male married friends lately. They are all accumulating single females in their social media and obsessively liking their bikini photos. It's juvenile and sad. But there must be a reason why men age 37 to 43 do that. I think once we start looking for distraction from our relationships that we are done.
It's called the Uranus opposition or more commonly known as the "midlife crisis"
Yes very sad
Posted by Toti
I think if someone can sweep you off your feet while you are in a relationship, that says it all. If you are really into a man you are with,and if you really love him, George Clooney wouldn't be able to wow you.
I agree 100% , that's why this is such a crazy concept to me. That's why I'm interested in hearing people stories and their side of it I always like hearing everyone's perspective
Posted by Toti
I'm experiencing some strange behavior of my male married friends lately. They are all accumulating single females in their social media and obsessively liking their bikini photos. It's juvenile and sad. But there must be a reason why men age 37 to 43 do that. I think once we start looking for distraction from our relationships that we are done.It's called the Uranus opposition or more commonly known as the "midlife crisis"
Yes very sad
Oh well, as long as it has a justification we are good to go. I'm not so sure if it is only midlife crisis though.
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No justification
It's a process some men go through
Luckily, not all of them.....some do decide to grow up
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I'm not saying cheating. I work at a nursing home and I hear so many stories of people being engaged ed to one person aND then suddenly someone else comes a sweeps them off their feet....has this happen to anyone? How did you handle it? Are you happy with your choice? Discuss