Asking what they do or where in a relationship

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by CarRiderGirl on Friday, September 26, 2014 and has 5 replies.

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@CarRiderGirl
11 Years

Do you almost always know where your significant other is?

If you don't know, do you ask? Simple text like, hey where are you? What are you doing? or, are you with ....? Just to know what they're up to?
Are they annoyed by it? Think it's normal?

I'm not talking about creeping or stalking them. 10 texts a day asking where they are. No! The healthy kind of texts in an healthy relationship.

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@Montgomery
13 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by CarRiderGirl
Do you almost always know where your significant other is?

If you don't know, do you ask? Simple text like, hey where are you? What are you doing? or, are you with ....? Just to know what they're up to?
Are they annoyed by it? Think it's normal?

I'm not talking about creeping or stalking them. 10 texts a day asking where they are. No! The healthy kind of texts in an healthy relationship.

Yeah, within reason.

Someone get defensive on you?

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

I know we're in the same city, he knows I'm at my work every day. That's about it...
Maybe getting told after the fact? Does that count? Like a run down of the days events and stuff?
I never ask and I've never been asked, by friends or family or partner...

I honestly couldn't care less where my SO is at any given moment,
unless he's getting ice cream without me!
😄

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@Blackvirgo
12 Years

I don't ask. I just listen if it's volunteered .. If i do start asking its because I start feeling something and I don't feel anything unless so etching doesn't add up..

So back to the question I personally don't ask that. Question .. I

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

When you have trust, there's no need to ask. In a relationship you pretty much know each other's routines and just have an idea of where they are. I always know one of three places my guy will be.