@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts
Attraction
Hmm, I feel like a lot of people can be like this nowadays. Not sure what transits you're experiencing but this could be like an "enlightening moment" for you to open up a bit. The women you find "conventionally" attractive may still click with you in the bedroom. And who knows, they could be a great genuine match.
I've been like this for a long time. Don't think it's a transit thing.
Women with rectangle eyes. The rest is conversation.
Stop.. you're gonna have me binge watching topaz pornos again.
I need more info. Is there a particular type you always like? By conventionally attractive are you talking about too pretty or too vanilla or what?
As in.. a woman/man that 8/10 people would say are very attractive.
I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.
Is this the same for anyone else?
I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?
You are a scorpio. We are never ones for conventional. It are the quirks that attract us. Just follow your gut and first impression. It never lies.
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But not Leo quirks 😛
Hope all is well, Dee
I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.
Is this the same for anyone else?
I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?
You are a scorpio. We are never ones for conventional. It are the quirks that attract us. Just follow your gut and first impression. It never lies.
But not Leo quirks 😛
Hope all is well, Dee
Insane is not quite what I meant by quirky.
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He certainly was a piece of work!
I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.
Is this the same for anyone else?
I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?
You are a scorpio. We are never ones for conventional. It are the quirks that attract us. Just follow your gut and first impression. It never lies.
But not Leo quirks 😛
Hope all is well, Dee
Insane is not quite what I meant by quirky.
He certainly was a piece of work!
Hopefully he is gone but that morning phone call makes me think otherwise
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Didn't you block him, Dee?
Women with rectangle eyes. The rest is conversation.
My eyes are shaped like eyes sir, hold the Leeb judgements please...thank u, come again...😋😂😉
@ScorpioDeeDee I was just being a smartass..🙃 lol
Women with rectangle eyes. The rest is conversation.
My eyes are shaped like eyes sir, hold the Leeb judgements please...thank u, come again...😋😂😉
don't make me call you CuddleThot!
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Um. Well. This Sag does what she wants, when she wants, with who she wants, calm yo titties...unless strawberry milk can come out, then maybe I'll reconsider...lol
@ScorpioDeeDee I was just being a smartass..🙃 lol
I know. It's all good.
I posted something that didn't make sense when I reread it.
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lol, my life - "other ppl": wtf?..."me"' um, idk just go w/it ha ha ha
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I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.
Is this the same for anyone else?
I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?