Attraction

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by _Dazed on Sunday, April 28, 2019 and has 10 replies.

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I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.

Is this the same for anyone else?

I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?

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Posted by LethalFantasia

Hmm, I feel like a lot of people can be like this nowadays. Not sure what transits you're experiencing but this could be like an "enlightening moment" for you to open up a bit. The women you find "conventionally" attractive may still click with you in the bedroom. And who knows, they could be a great genuine match.

I've been like this for a long time. Don't think it's a transit thing.

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Posted by tiziani

Women with rectangle eyes. The rest is conversation.

Stop.. you're gonna have me binge watching topaz pornos again.

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Posted by Phantom_Limbo

I need more info. Is there a particular type you always like? By conventionally attractive are you talking about too pretty or too vanilla or what?

As in.. a woman/man that 8/10 people would say are very attractive.

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Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

Posted by _Dazed

I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.

Is this the same for anyone else?

I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?

You are a scorpio. We are never ones for conventional. It are the quirks that attract us. Just follow your gut and first impression. It never lies.

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But not Leo quirks πŸ˜›

Hope all is well, Dee

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Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

Posted by _Dazed

I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.

Is this the same for anyone else?

I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?

You are a scorpio. We are never ones for conventional. It are the quirks that attract us. Just follow your gut and first impression. It never lies.

But not Leo quirks πŸ˜›

Hope all is well, Dee

Insane is not quite what I meant by quirky.

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He certainly was a piece of work!

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Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

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Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

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Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

Posted by _Dazed

I'm scrolling through some dating sites, swiping right.. swiping left.. and I notice myself not swiping right on a couple "conventionally" attractive women. I've had a mindset for years, that if I can't see myself sleeping with a woman (or man), then I don't approach or on dating sites, swipe right.

Is this the same for anyone else?

I feel like maybe I'm attaching a negative personality to them without actually conversing with them. Or is it just a very specific taste that I'm after?

You are a scorpio. We are never ones for conventional. It are the quirks that attract us. Just follow your gut and first impression. It never lies.

But not Leo quirks πŸ˜›

Hope all is well, Dee

Insane is not quite what I meant by quirky.

He certainly was a piece of work!

Hopefully he is gone but that morning phone call makes me think otherwise

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Didn't you block him, Dee?

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Posted by tiziani

Women with rectangle eyes. The rest is conversation.

My eyes are shaped like eyes sir, hold the Leeb judgements please...thank u, come again...πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‰

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Posted by tiziani

Posted by CuddleBug88

Posted by tiziani

Women with rectangle eyes. The rest is conversation.

My eyes are shaped like eyes sir, hold the Leeb judgements please...thank u, come again...πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‰

don't make me call you CuddleThot!

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Um. Well. This Sag does what she wants, when she wants, with who she wants, calm yo titties...unless strawberry milk can come out, then maybe I'll reconsider...lol

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Posted by ScorpioDeeDee

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@ScorpioDeeDee I was just being a smartass..πŸ™ƒ lol

I know. It's all good.

I posted something that didn't make sense when I reread it.

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lol, my life - "other ppl": wtf?..."me"' um, idk just go w/it ha ha ha