clippityclop
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"They're trying to work through things"
Why? Why? It doesn't matter that he was on drugs, get the fuck out of there !!! Props to her way of thinking and the fact that she obviously cares about this idiot and wants to understand or at least respect him, but I'd be trying to push her out. I guess I don't know what their relationship is like but cheating is cheating.
Why? Why? It doesn't matter that he was on drugs, get the fuck out of there !!! Props to her way of thinking and the fact that she obviously cares about this idiot and wants to understand or at least respect him, but I'd be trying to push her out. I guess I don't know what their relationship is like but cheating is cheating.
Hmm noppeeee
I could not. I would be soooo done. Poor girl..
I could not. I would be soooo done. Poor girl..
Posted by PorcerpeYeah I know 😢 she said he was just on a completely different planet. She said that she told him that she's not comfortable with him drinking or anything with her not around anymore. But like it was in the house while she was only upstairs.
"They're trying to work through things"
Why? Why? It doesn't matter that he was on drugs, get the fuck out of there !!! Props to her way of thinking and the fact that she obviously cares about this idiot and wants to understand or at least respect him, but I'd be trying to push her out. I guess I don't know what their relationship is like but cheating is cheating.
Posted by NotSoInstantHaha people can just get so off their faces. 😢
That's horrible. Reminds me of the time I happened to walk in on my ex making out with his GUY best friend. Lol
I feel bad for her.
Is she a mutuable with fixed bits
Posted by VageenkaYeah that's what I was thinking. Like if the love of your life was right beside you, wouldn't you want to touch them and not someone else? Unless maybe they were just on the same level or something and had some heart to heart and things got carried away. Iunno. Not an excuse but yeah.
Wow she is a lot more tolerant then I would be in this position.
And I hope she doesn't know this was more then just a "lols we got high" thing. MDMA brings out the inner, most inhibited part of yourself. It is like you with no insecurities or censorship. He clearly has a thing for the friend he was making out with.
Posted by DivaCanLeoYeah. I'm getting like a feminine vibe from her. She's very very sweet. My guess is maybe an earth or water sign. Pisces probably
What's their sign?
She should leave him
Posted by NotSoInstantVid or it didn't happen.
That's horrible. Reminds me of the time I happened to walk in on my ex making out with his GUY best friend. Lol
I feel bad for her.
Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by clippityclopFind out.Posted by DivaCanLeoYeah. I'm getting like a feminine vibe from her. She's very very sweet. My guess is maybe an earth or water sign. Pisces probably
What's their sign?
She should leave him
But a good friend doesn't stay silent
That bytch cheated on her and blamed it on drugs
Unless he was doing heroin and was out cold and getting raped
Dude knew exactly what he was doingclick to expand
Yeah I will. I haven't worked with her very often so don't know her well. I was surprised she was so open about him cheating on her with me. But I did tell her that I couldn't do it. I think it really upset her so I just stopped talking
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Posted by leowwwYeah I know. I don't even know how I would feel about that situation going on in front of my eyes
She had to tell them to stop?
That is quite fucked up.
Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
Posted by SeraphlightYeah. I think she should too. Who knows though. I haven't met the guy so I'm not sure what type of relationship they have
Him doing drugs would be enough to make me walk on it's own.
Who he is made him behave this way. If she still loves him. She has to realize this is a part of him.
It doesn't matter what it was drugs drink or whatever. This is who he is.
She needs to know this is what she is getting herself into. She should walk.
He's whole world of dishonor. It's not a world to visit.
Posted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazyclick to expand
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?
Posted by i_amshe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?click to expand
Posted by dolluxeHaha yeah I think I'd just scream. It would freak them out enough to keep their hands off eachother. I also wouldn't have left the room
He deserves a swift kick up the jacksies.
Seriously though, if I was in her situation my Taurus Moon's anger would've reared it's ugly head. I'd see nothing but red.
Whatever this girl's decision is, I hope everything works out for the best.
Posted by Seraphlight
I think he seems to have a lot of influence here. It's disturbing.
Yeah who knows though I guess!
Posted by clippityclopFrom experience, and this took A LONG TIME to realize, I was the only person responsible for my own stupidity.Posted by i_amShe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?click to expand
I think, it doesn't help when we choose to be subjective because we think of the fragile nature of the relationship and/or we identify with person A more than person B.
Also, tolerance is not always a good thing since it can induce suffering.
Punch her with honesty. It will help her in the long run.
Being sweet/kind isn't beneficial if the self is neglected.
Posted by SeraphlightThe person is no longer wrong for his/her actions because it has been validated by the passive enabler.Posted by i_amI agree. I would give her my honest opinion. He invites bad things around him and her. He is a bad thing.Posted by clippityclopFrom experience, and this took A LONG TIME to realize, I was the only person responsible for my own stupidity.Posted by i_amShe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?
I think, it doesn't help when we choose to be subjective because we think of the fragile nature of the relationship and/or we identify with person A more than person B.
Also, tolerance is not always a good thing since it can induce suffering.
Punch her with honesty. It will help her in the long run.
Being sweet/kind isn't beneficial if the self is neglected.
He would not even be acceptable as a friend.
She should not be with this man. He prob will not listen but i would tell her.click to expand
She will be just as bad* .. it's a cycle.
Posted by SeraphlightIf he's an addict he needs more help than she does, which means she's more capable to think clearly.Posted by i_amWhat you mean is ...THOSE TWO individuals ..see it as that way...but in reality ...that's not the way it is ...he is the one at fault...but persuades her that the two of them are in it...so she may even see it that way.Posted by SeraphlightThe person is no longer wrong for his/her actions because it has been validated by the passive enabler.Posted by i_amI agree. I would give her my honest opinion. He invites bad things around him and her. He is a bad thing.Posted by clippityclopFrom experience, and this took A LONG TIME to realize, I was the only person responsible for my own stupidity.Posted by i_amShe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?
I think, it doesn't help when we choose to be subjective because we think of the fragile nature of the relationship and/or we identify with person A more than person B.
Also, tolerance is not always a good thing since it can induce suffering.
Punch her with honesty. It will help her in the long run.
Being sweet/kind isn't beneficial if the self is neglected.
He would not even be acceptable as a friend.
She should not be with this man. He prob will not listen but i would tell her.
She will be just as bad* .. it's a cycle.
It's the way addicts manipulate. It's wrong though. And it's not reality. She is the victim. She needs to see it this way. Or else she will learn the hard way.click to expand
He's just 1 out of 1000x people out there. He's not the last addict* she'll come across. Identifying her own flaws/weakness will help her in the long run rather than projecting blame and becoming* victim.
People become more fragile the more they're sheltered from facts. There is strength in identifying one's flaws.
Posted by i_amI don't know if he's an addict.. I think its just something that he does once in a while. But I guess it could definitely turn into a problem in the long term. It's tricky to know in those early stages if it's just a phase or not. Hopefully it is!Posted by SeraphlightIf he's an addict he needs more help than she does, which means she's more capable to think clearly.Posted by i_amWhat you mean is ...THOSE TWO individuals ..see it as that way...but in reality ...that's not the way it is ...he is the one at fault...but persuades her that the two of them are in it...so she may even see it that way.Posted by SeraphlightThe person is no longer wrong for his/her actions because it has been validated by the passive enabler.Posted by i_amI agree. I would give her my honest opinion. He invites bad things around him and her. He is a bad thing.Posted by clippityclopFrom experience, and this took A LONG TIME to realize, I was the only person responsible for my own stupidity.Posted by i_amShe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?
I think, it doesn't help when we choose to be subjective because we think of the fragile nature of the relationship and/or we identify with person A more than person B.
Also, tolerance is not always a good thing since it can induce suffering.
Punch her with honesty. It will help her in the long run.
Being sweet/kind isn't beneficial if the self is neglected.
He would not even be acceptable as a friend.
She should not be with this man. He prob will not listen but i would tell her.
She will be just as bad* .. it's a cycle.
It's the way addicts manipulate. It's wrong though. And it's not reality. She is the victim. She needs to see it this way. Or else she will learn the hard way.
He's just 1 out of 1000x people out there. He's not the last addict* she'll come across. Identifying her own flaws/weakness will help her in the long run rather than projecting blame and becoming* victim.
People become more fragile the more they're sheltered from facts. There is strength in identifying one's flaws.
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Posted by SeraphlightHaha no I don't think either of them are addicts!! But no I don't think she is
Is it possible she is an addict now too?
Posted by clippityclopI can't believe you don't know your friend and her bf's sign. It's dxp protocol when you share stories like this. har har harPosted by i_amI don't know if he's an addict.. I think its just something that he does once in a while. But I guess it could definitely turn into a problem in the long term. It's tricky to know in those early stages if it's just a phase or not. Hopefully it is!Posted by SeraphlightIf he's an addict he needs more help than she does, which means she's more capable to think clearly.Posted by i_amWhat you mean is ...THOSE TWO individuals ..see it as that way...but in reality ...that's not the way it is ...he is the one at fault...but persuades her that the two of them are in it...so she may even see it that way.Posted by SeraphlightThe person is no longer wrong for his/her actions because it has been validated by the passive enabler.Posted by i_amI agree. I would give her my honest opinion. He invites bad things around him and her. He is a bad thing.Posted by clippityclopFrom experience, and this took A LONG TIME to realize, I was the only person responsible for my own stupidity.Posted by i_amShe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?
I think, it doesn't help when we choose to be subjective because we think of the fragile nature of the relationship and/or we identify with person A more than person B.
Also, tolerance is not always a good thing since it can induce suffering.
Punch her with honesty. It will help her in the long run.
Being sweet/kind isn't beneficial if the self is neglected.
He would not even be acceptable as a friend.
She should not be with this man. He prob will not listen but i would tell her.
She will be just as bad* .. it's a cycle.
It's the way addicts manipulate. It's wrong though. And it's not reality. She is the victim. She needs to see it this way. Or else she will learn the hard way.
He's just 1 out of 1000x people out there. He's not the last addict* she'll come across. Identifying her own flaws/weakness will help her in the long run rather than projecting blame and becoming* victim.
People become more fragile the more they're sheltered from facts. There is strength in identifying one's flaws.
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Best of luck clippits.
Posted by SeraphlightPosted by clippityclopJust idiots then. 😛 Sorry that's mean!Posted by SeraphlightHaha no I don't think either of them are addicts!! But no I don't think she is
Is it possible she is an addict now too?click to expand
Bahaha aw. It's okay. Yeah. What a weird story. I didn't want to go gossipin so I told the world of dxp to get it out of my system lol. I've been thinking about it all day!
Posted by i_amI knoooow. I just work with her. We dont get rostered on together very frequently. And I don't know her well enough to ask her sign. I would like to know though! I'm betting Pisces or Taurus. She has sleepy sweet eyes. If that even makes sense hahaPosted by clippityclopI can't believe you don't know your friend and her bf's sign. It's dxp protocol when you share stories like this. har har harPosted by i_amI don't know if he's an addict.. I think its just something that he does once in a while. But I guess it could definitely turn into a problem in the long term. It's tricky to know in those early stages if it's just a phase or not. Hopefully it is!Posted by SeraphlightIf he's an addict he needs more help than she does, which means she's more capable to think clearly.Posted by i_amWhat you mean is ...THOSE TWO individuals ..see it as that way...but in reality ...that's not the way it is ...he is the one at fault...but persuades her that the two of them are in it...so she may even see it that way.Posted by SeraphlightThe person is no longer wrong for his/her actions because it has been validated by the passive enabler.Posted by i_amI agree. I would give her my honest opinion. He invites bad things around him and her. He is a bad thing.Posted by clippityclopFrom experience, and this took A LONG TIME to realize, I was the only person responsible for my own stupidity.Posted by i_amShe said she doesn't do it often and has only started doing those types of things this year. So me thinks that he has something to do with itPosted by clippityclopShe plays a role in it too. I think we judge by contrast even if it's the same shade.Posted by i_am
When mdma (plus alcohol) is involved, well, to each their own.
A partner who brings friends at home to get high/drunk is not a keeper (I know, that sounds like common sense). This is coming from my memory bank. Sigh. Those were really stupid days.
Yeah, crazy how she has to worry about him now even in her own house. Crazy
She sounds like a passive (for now anyway) sign.
Does she take mdma too?
I think, it doesn't help when we choose to be subjective because we think of the fragile nature of the relationship and/or we identify with person A more than person B.
Also, tolerance is not always a good thing since it can induce suffering.
Punch her with honesty. It will help her in the long run.
Being sweet/kind isn't beneficial if the self is neglected.
He would not even be acceptable as a friend.
She should not be with this man. He prob will not listen but i would tell her.
She will be just as bad* .. it's a cycle.
It's the way addicts manipulate. It's wrong though. And it's not reality. She is the victim. She needs to see it this way. Or else she will learn the hard way.
He's just 1 out of 1000x people out there. He's not the last addict* she'll come across. Identifying her own flaws/weakness will help her in the long run rather than projecting blame and becoming* victim.
People become more fragile the more they're sheltered from facts. There is strength in identifying one's flaws.
Best of luck clippits.
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Drugs is an excuse. He blatantly disrespected her in their own house.. Like another poster said , unless he's using Heroin , has nodded off & getting raped - no excuse
Posted by SofiaV87
Drugs is an excuse. He blatantly disrespected her in their own house.. Like another poster said , unless he's using Heroin , has nodded off & getting raped - no excuse
Yeah I agree. Its also not a foggy minded substance so it's pretty silly.
At first I thought this was about rape and you witnessed it and did nada.
But now clearly it's hard to tell a friend to leave because drug addiction is horrible and ruins people for life. I hope she gets the strength and courage to leave fast.
But now clearly it's hard to tell a friend to leave because drug addiction is horrible and ruins people for life. I hope she gets the strength and courage to leave fast.
Posted by clippityclopExactly , you're very alertPosted by SofiaV87
Drugs is an excuse. He blatantly disrespected her in their own house.. Like another poster said , unless he's using Heroin , has nodded off & getting raped - no excuse
Yeah I agree. Its also not a foggy minded substance so it's pretty silly.click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yeah. I hope so too. 😢
At first I thought this was about rape and you witnessed it and did nada.
But now clearly it's hard to tell a friend to leave because drug addiction is horrible and ruins people for life. I hope she gets the strength and courage to leave fast.
Posted by tizianiYeah, and they're not that young either. :/
Well good luck to all of them, sincerely. If you know people who are having regular drug parties with MDMA etc involved, they are going to need that luck.
Posted by SeraphlightPosted by clippityclopThen they won't change.Posted by tizianiYeah, and they're not that young either. :/
Well good luck to all of them, sincerely. If you know people who are having regular drug parties with MDMA etc involved, they are going to need that luck.click to expand
Maybe they could. Mid twenties. Hard to say.
Posted by SeraphlightHrmmmmMm. I used to drink a lot, I've toned that down and I'm 26. There's always hope ?Posted by clippityclopNo. Trust me.Posted by SeraphlightPosted by clippityclopThen they won't change.Posted by tizianiYeah, and they're not that young either. :/
Well good luck to all of them, sincerely. If you know people who are having regular drug parties with MDMA etc involved, they are going to need that luck.
Maybe they could. Mid twenties. Hard to say.
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Posted by NotSoInstantEew
That's horrible. Reminds me of the time I happened to walk in on my ex making out with his GUY best friend. Lol
I feel bad for her.
..details...
Posted by Arielle83I guess she apologized to the girl I work with. At first it wasn't a very genuine apology. But then a few days after the fact she wrote a long message. Too late though. Nothing will be viewed the same. Atleast it wouldn't be in my mind!
What did the female frievd do or say after?
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