@Stensco21
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My bf kicked me out on Christmas
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And told me to get the f $ ck out and don't come back and when I went to leave he was hanging off my car
Guess I'm going to be homeless hehe
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Sorry to hear that!
It's okay. It was better to leave then to
Stay abused
I don't know if your telling the truth or it's just a lie lol
No I'm serious kind of in shock but kind of glad it happened
Is this true ?
Posted by Stinger408scorp
I don't know if your telling the truth or it's just a lie lol
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Guess I'm going to be homeless hehe
Do you have family you can stay with?
I'm sorry.
It's maybe a blessing in disguise though.
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Not really I'm not going to tell them I'm going to a shelter
Posted by ChoXtsy
Posted by Stensco21
Guess I'm going to be homeless hehe
I was going to make a homeless joke, but didn't want to be an ass.
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It's ironic but I've been homeless before and that's why I wrote half the stuff lol I'm happy though few free the reason I was on here so much is because he trapped me in a house and I don't have friends anymore
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
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That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Posted by Seraphlight
Let HIM be homeless!
It's his house which he reminded me of every day lol
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
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Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
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Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Seraphlight
Let HIM be homeless!
It's his house which he reminded me of every day lol
You lived there. I don't care. What a dick!
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I know. Relieved it's over. It was coming sooner or later
Posted by awkwardPMsfromstrangers
same thing happened to fatcamilla
Who is fatcamilla? Lol
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
DO you have family?
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Not really
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
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I'm still in shock
Posted by ChoXtsy
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by ChoXtsy
Posted by Stensco21
Guess I'm going to be homeless hehe
I was going to make a homeless joke, but didn't want to be an ass.
It's ironic but I've been homeless before and that's why I wrote half the stuff lol I'm happy though few free the reason I was on here so much is because he trapped me in a house and I don't have friends anymore
Aww, well I hope you will be happier and that your able to sort things out.
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I'll be fine. Just got to get through tonight
Get the police so you can get back your things.
Is he another Scorpio?
Just sitting in a parking lot trying to calm down.
To embarrassed to tell anyone
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
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I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I can understand why. Will you be ok?
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Yea gotta get through tonight and then deal w everything in the morning
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
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Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.
Posted by Seraphlight
It was YOUR home too!Oh well...so sorry op.
That's what I tried to tell him. He begged me to
Move in and then every issue we had he would say this is MY house... well okay then
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
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That's sounds kind of bizarre!
We're you contributing to rent or anything?
And how long was 'the girl' there for him?
Something doesn't add up here sorry
Posted by VenusStar
Get the police so you can get back your things.
I was wondering what to do about that legally. I'm worried about my animals too
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.
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Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?
If you know what I mean if it's true him kicking you out might be a blessing in the sky.
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.
Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?
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He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for months
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by VenusStar
Get the police so you can get back your things.
I was wondering what to do about that legally. I'm worried about my animals too
Tell people. Find someone to stay with ...and get your things as soon as you can. Have someone get them for you. And if he is violent or even aggressive get the police maybe they can get your stuff. Make a report.
I think also make your mind strong. It's not uncommon for guys to try and entice you back. He thinks ..oh she won't like sleeping in her car ..she'll come crawling back etc.
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He thinks because he's isolated me I don't have anyone anymore
Posted by Impulsv
Go back give 30 days notice lol to pack ur stuff n animalHave u been paying rent too?
Yes I have but I don't feel safe there
I know you don't seem to like me, but i deal with this type of stuff. yes you have legal rights, yes he has to give you your stuff and animals. Request for the police to go with you so he doesn;t attempt to harm you. do you have anything that relfects this as your address? did you pay even 1 dollar? he cant just kick you out 😢
but it sounds like it's for the best to not be with him.
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
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So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.
Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?
I KNEW he was trying to get you to come back..the whole kicking you out thing is a manipulation. He is using control of the home to try and control you and keep you.
Don't go back please.
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I know it's sick. I knew he was really like this. I chose to ignore the signs
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.
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I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
Lmao!!
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
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Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.
Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?
He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for months
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Ok, that is abuse .. He won't change , I'm sorry hunnie .. How old are u may I ask ?
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by VenusStar
Get the police so you can get back your things.
I was wondering what to do about that legally. I'm worried about my animals too
Tell people. Find someone to stay with ...and get your things as soon as you can. Have someone get them for you. And if he is violent or even aggressive get the police maybe they can get your stuff. Make a report.
I think also make your mind strong. It's not uncommon for guys to try and entice you back. He thinks ..oh she won't like sleeping in her car ..she'll come crawling back etc.
He thinks because he's isolated me I don't have anyone anymore
He is wrong. There are shelters.
You have friends.
The FIRST and FOREMOST thing ..is GET HIM OUT OF YOUR HEAD.
You should not be embarrassed. Please tell people. It's the no 1 mistake women make.
Tell all your friends. Text them.
Family too. Explain..tell them the abuse too. Don't be afraid of his reputation ..he should have thought of that.
Ask the police for no's of women's shelters..it might not come to that ..but just in case.
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Okay I will do all of that. My family and friends were so happy and made them believe it was all a fairy tale. So embarrassed. And the girl he's messaging we've fought about for months. He will delete all her messages and say he doesn't know what happened and I've read some real shitty things between them. Kind of kickes me in my gut and I had just moved in. Didn't have the emotional energy to fight back hard enough
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
You're more important than the cats.
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I know but I love them and he's cruel to animals. They are like my kids
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by SofiaV87
Is this true ?
Yes he threw me out after he got caught. I guess he was to emabarrased to face up to it
That's terrible .. Where will u go?
Idk maybe friends tonight maybe shelter or sleep in my car
Jesus Christ , what kind of person does that ?!
I'm still in shock
I'm sorry this has happened .. How long has it been since he kicked u out ? Has he contacted u?
Two hours. And yes he said to come back, but he's getting more and more violent everyday.
Oh my.. Does he hit u? Throw things at u? Talk nasty to u?
He traps me in my bedroom and pushes me and yells for hours. I'm like five two and he's 6'3. It's gone on for months
Ok, that is abuse .. He won't change , I'm sorry hunnie .. How old are u may I ask ?
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29 old enough to know Better I guess
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.
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I could try but I cringe when he touches me. I can't hide it
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by Stinger408scorp
He prolly did you a favor by kicking you out so you could stay away and think better.
I think so too. Feel relieved actually
So just try to get your shit together and use the downtime to think and move forward.
I am. I think we'll under pressure. Worried about my cats there.
Just be nice to him kiss ass a lil Get your things then move.
Don't. His control has been threatened he will be worse.
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There's no way she can get her things adding fuel to the fire.
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Because I found out he deleted messages between him and a girl.