Met a guy online and we have talked over 6months before we really met in person. Long story short, we see almost every week the past 4 weeks, even there was one time he cancelled on me on Wed, but he made it up to me straight the way on that Saturday.
However, this week, Monday we were supposed to meet for movie after 2 days party , he cancelled on me, didn't reschedule. Then we again suppose to meet the coming Friday for dinner and usually I suppose to stay at his for the night, but then he just texted me and said something about his workmate happened who's kind of his friend, but he said let's still do the dinner at least, and the next week he's going to be busy with his mon for things.
I was so fxking angry but without acting up while replying him, I just said "it's okay I understand and no need to rush for the dinner, be there for your friend(means his workmate)".
I don't know if blowing off the dinner on Fri was a bad idea while he was actually saying let's still at least do the dinner? But I was just so pissed and felt I'm lowering myself if I still saying yes.
So please, tell me, if I already fxked things up?
Here's the conversation between us:
With the conversation below, I'm thinking he just wanna end things but still only trying to play nice. Or just me?
HIM:cool.. let you know the time for Fri to meet..
ME:Okie
(After 2 hours)
HIM:friend got fired yesterday..
but lets do at least dinner on friday.. ok?
ME:Oh, sorry about that, he/she did something wrong ?Anyway, lets forget the dinner, take your time
HIM:seems like only restructuring after an m&a..
no lets do.. cause the week afterwards i am quite busy with my mum..
except you have already plans..
ME:It's ok
I understand you have your things, no need to rush dinner, be there for your friend
.......No more replies since then for hours already
I just so confused at the moment, like he's being so sweet one moment, taking me out every week doing all those couples things, but the next moment just cold, cancel on me twice in a roll
I have no clue what's going on, that's why I just so pissed and couldn't be bother and blow off the plan by myself.....
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However, this week, Monday we were supposed to meet for movie after 2 days party , he cancelled on me, didn't reschedule. Then we again suppose to meet the coming Friday for dinner and usually I suppose to stay at his for the night, but then he just texted me and said something about his workmate happened who's kind of his friend, but he said let's still do the dinner at least, and the next week he's going to be busy with his mon for things.
I was so fxking angry but without acting up while replying him, I just said "it's okay I understand and no need to rush for the dinner, be there for your friend(means his workmate)".
I don't know if blowing off the dinner on Fri was a bad idea while he was actually saying let's still at least do the dinner? But I was just so pissed and felt I'm lowering myself if I still saying yes.
So please, tell me, if I already fxked things up?
Here's the conversation between us:
With the conversation below, I'm thinking he just wanna end things but still only trying to play nice. Or just me?
HIM:cool.. let you know the time for Fri to meet..
ME:Okie
(After 2 hours)
HIM:friend got fired yesterday..
but lets do at least dinner on friday.. ok?
ME:Oh, sorry about that, he/she did something wrong ?Anyway, lets forget the dinner, take your time
HIM:seems like only restructuring after an m&a..
no lets do.. cause the week afterwards i am quite busy with my mum..
except you have already plans..
ME:It's ok
I understand you have your things, no need to rush dinner, be there for your friend
.......No more replies since then for hours already
I just so confused at the moment, like he's being so sweet one moment, taking me out every week doing all those couples things, but the next moment just cold, cancel on me twice in a roll
I have no clue what's going on, that's why I just so pissed and couldn't be bother and blow off the plan by myself.....