
DwellingOnMove
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Posted by sweethearts
DOM, us wise ones still need this info too! lol 🙂

Posted by *Tasha
i know better to do all of them except the 4th LOL because me and my friends/sisters all have a really odd sense of humor i texted this Sag guy that wasn't yet accustomed to my sense of humor and he told me he "didn't appreciate my smartass comments" hahaha...but he got over it...so he comes over like 2 weeks later and starts to go down on me and then he stops cuz he wanted to have sex and i said no. so he goes "well i'm not lickin if i'm not stickin" LMAO i was like well i don't know why u would start if u weren't gonna finish 😢 i was all disappointed but i refused to have sex with him. but i said oh well i would be over it in the morning... and he goes "well, better get to sleep then! i'm outta here" HA!?! so i told my friend and she would of slept with him right away she's like "i wouldn't of finished either, i can't just do oral, but what he SHOULD of told u was he 'wasn't even kickin it if he wasn't stickin it" LOL and i was gonna text him that---but i didn't because i have a feeling he wouldn't of thought it was funny. lol
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5 Times You Shouldn't Text Him
After your first few dates.
It may be tempting to contact a guy after an amazing date, but resist the urge. "Reaching out lessens the thrill of the chase for him," says psychologist Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of the upcoming book Love in 90 Days.
When you're drunk.
Since phones don't come with Breathalyzers, it's up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message — especially one that suggests you two meet up ASAP. "Being too available lets a guy know he has all the leverage," Krieger says.
When you're angry.
It's annoying when a guy flakes, but sending a "Why haven't you called me?!" inquiry makes you look massively insecure. Avoid angry texts once you're in a relationship too. "When it's in writing, you can't easily take it back," Kirschner says. It's even smart to ban bitchy humor, which can sound meaner than it is.
When you're trying to be funny.
"When relayed nonverbally, sarcasm and joking can come off as aggressive," according to Kirschner. A dude could read a message like "OMG, you were out of control last night" literally, which makes you sound pissed when you were actually just fondly remembering his funny behavior.
When you've already texted him that day.
Once you're in an ongoing relationship, you may be tempted to rely on texting as a regular form of communication, and there's nothing wrong with staying in touch that way sometimes. But electronic communication discourages phone conversations and one-on-one time. Also, guys like brief updates, not a blow-by-blow of your life.