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Hello all!
Seeking guidance on guy friend’s actions toward me. I’m feeling like we are compatible based on our personalities and friendship. We have been through a lot in our friendship and it means a lot to me when I have a man in my life who can take care of me and who I can trust.
My sun sign: Leo
His sun sign: Aries
We both have somewhat recently gotten out of very serious relationships. Mine was ended officially about 6 months ago and he had the Rachel/Ross drama going on for a little over a year and he finally cut it off within the past month or so.
To be clear: I am not expecting a relationship to come of this...at least not as of yet...however, I am trying to decipher his feelings and determine if he is interested at all as being good friends, he’s just being nice, or he is using me to some regard (intentionally or not). I need to watch out for myself and I know the timing is not right for anything right now.
A few facts or behaviors:
1. He has always been there for me in a very selfless way and “defended my honor” so to speak- even in difficult times.
2. His most recent ex (of 4 years) despised me. I never even had feelings for him or crossed the line during our friendship, but one of her last phrases to him was to have fun being with me.
3. Whenever I call him, we generally talk for hours about nothing. We will Skype each other often now and video chat (nothing inappropriate) and hang out more
4. He finds ways to make physical contact.
5. He has (especially recently) made comments when we talk about dating about how I should date a guy like him. He then would get defensive and justify himself when I would explain what problems I have with that.
There are other examples, but I am curious to see what people think- is this just someone wanting attention? Is he interested, but slowly trying to show me? I have had a history of being too loyal to the wrong guys and wanting to rescue or help the guy in a bad spot and usually end up hurt or as a rebound.
Help!