from a males perspective

Why is some men just cant let go of their previous mates their have been situations where they break up for w.e. circumstance then the male turns around and trys to sabotage or ruin her rep stalk etc. To try and keep tabs why is that?

Posted by fishinamaize
Ego fulfillment

Expound?

Ok got it

Posted by fishinamaize
Man wants to prove that the woman is still his "bitch". Needs to maintain a semblence of control. Is hurting over losing her; needs to feel as if he's the one in power to nurture his wounded ego. Views the breakup as a game that needs to be won in order to feel secure in himself.

Okay. So, this was the answer that I was looking for with the other post. Thanks.

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by fishinamaize
Man wants to prove that the woman is still his "bitch". Needs to maintain a semblence of control. Is hurting over losing her; needs to feel as if he's the one in power to nurture his wounded ego. Views the breakup as a game that needs to be won in order to feel secure in himself.

Okay. So, this was the answer that I was looking for with the other post. Thanks.

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