The effect you have on the opposite sex...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by AriesGirl74 on Thursday, August 7, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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@AriesGirl74
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I had a funny incident happen at work today... I was talking to a guy colleague I had a "thing" with years ago but back then it was all a bit awkward because of work so we don't really speak - even if we pass eachother its an effort to smile out of politeness, but today he had to come and ask me something.

As he was talking to me I stared up at him real hard and locked his gaze like right into his eyes, and the guy suddenly stops mid-sentence and then starts spluttering and rubbing his neck while hes trying to talk to me hahaha

Sooooooo entertaining but quite surprising too 😄

Has this happened to anyone else? Guys or girls out there??

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@sassafras
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This happens a lot with me. They pretty much get deer-in-the-headlights and it only gets worse when I choose that moment to tease them about it. That poor bread-boy at Whole Foods 😢

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Happened recently with one of my mom's docs. He's not too much older than me, but he strikes me as being that shy, nerdy kid in school when he was younger. His response didn't surprise me since he kinda does that already (kinda shy, awkward, looks down a lot), but it amused me at the same time because the awkward chuckle was random, haha.

Had something similar happen with a guy I was dating too.

Definitely is surprising and amusing.

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Posted by AriesGirl74
I had a funny incident happen at work today... I was talking to a guy colleague I had a "thing" with years ago but back then it was all a bit awkward because of work so we don't really speak - even if we pass eachother its an effort to smile out of politeness, but today he had to come and ask me something.

As he was talking to me I stared up at him real hard and locked his gaze like right into his eyes, and the guy suddenly stops mid-sentence and then starts spluttering and rubbing his neck while hes trying to talk to me hahaha

Sooooooo entertaining but quite surprising too 😄

Has this happened to anyone else? Guys or girls out there??

This happens with me most around Aries women actually. They are SO bold with their staring, and sometimes they are looking at you like "what the hell are you talking about? Please hurry up and get to the point so I can talk.", and it makes me lose my train of thought.

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Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by AriesGirl74
I had a funny incident happen at work today... I was talking to a guy colleague I had a "thing" with years ago but back then it was all a bit awkward because of work so we don't really speak - even if we pass eachother its an effort to smile out of politeness, but today he had to come and ask me something.

As he was talking to me I stared up at him real hard and locked his gaze like right into his eyes, and the guy suddenly stops mid-sentence and then starts spluttering and rubbing his neck while hes trying to talk to me hahaha

Sooooooo entertaining but quite surprising too 😄

Has this happened to anyone else? Guys or girls out there??

This happens with me most around Aries women actually. They are SO bold with their staring, and sometimes they are looking at you like "what the hell are you talking about? Please hurry up and get to the point so I can talk.", and it makes me lose my train of thought.

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Awe.... It's not really like that although it's a shame it comes across that way 😢
With me, I am in fact listening intently... If we want someone to get to the point, we usually just say "Get to the point!!" lol

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LOL this happens to me. This young (18 year old) man down the street is always staring. So one day I stared back. He ran right into a fence. I hope is manhood is ok, I havent seen him in a few weeks.