Guy dumps girlfriend on-air for cheating!

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Okay so maybe you've heard this one. Basically a guy dumps his gf on-air for cheating. A little cruel punishment indeed especialy since she was actually prepared he would propose to her right then and there... But this got me thinking a little. What possesses a person to cheat despite not only being in a relationship but also planning on actually marrying the guy. What's the point? Why would she want to marry him if he's obviousely not enough for her. Was she planning on having side-trips throughout their whole life together or what?

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Wow... the presenters swore.

I guess people think "what they don't know won't kill them" when they decide to, hehe, "do it" with other people.

Ooooooh, they set her up bad, though. Youch. Got her talking about her wants and everything proposal wise. Hyped her up for a proposal, too.

Instead she gets a "You've got until sunday". Youch. And then a "Screw you, Ashley. Answer the stupid question"

The presenters were a bit bad though, making baby noises and laughing while she cried and stuff.

Still, she was all like "I made some mistakes" and trying to push the blame on the Eric guy infering he was the one rekindling sh**. THAT was low of her.

*shakes head*

"Bitch be tripping"



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oh my goodness. this is pretty harsh actually. it's pretty misogynistic, all this "bitch be trippin'" and "you can never trust a girl when she says she's friends with a guy". you can, if the girl is trustworthy. this one wasn't.

but, i have to say, i really wish that all people who cheat got this kind of treatment at the end of it. cheating is such a horrible thing to do, they really all deserve it. she got what was coming to her. she did deserve the public humiliation because it's no less than what her boyfriend had once everyone knew she had cheated on him and he was going to propose. i hope chris goes on to find someone who really deserves him.
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Posted by &2gedanow
The presenters were a bit bad though, making baby noises and laughing while she cried and stuff.



I think the passive-aggressive tone of the presenters indicates that they are having a hard time pleasing their wives at home. And on top of all they've probably got small penises. And they know it. Because their wives have told them so. And every other girl they have been with. But that's just me thinking out loud. 😄

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* I think the passive-aggressive tone of the presenters indicates that they are having a hard time pleasing their wives at home. And on top of all they've probably got small penises. And they know it. Because their wives have told them so. And every other girl they have been with. But that's just me thinking out loud

HA! HA! HA! HA! I was thinking the same thing.

Personally, I think the guy handled it badly, okay REALLY, REALLY, REALLY badly. If he really loved her and wanted to marry her, you think he would have done the hard work of talking about why she was so unhappy in the relationship. Neither one of them respected the relationship and he has humiliated both of them (I mean, who wants to date a jerk who would do something like this?!?!?). This should have been handled differently. It makes me sad that people find other people's pain entertaining. A very sad commentary on the way the world is.

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Posted by little_sparrow
And I am sure if it had been the guy cheating, it would have been all high fives and back slaps. It would be very interesting to get her side of the story as usually women cheat because men don't put out.



Well why was she expecting to say yes to his proposal then? That's dumb! She was saying she was trying to get her shit together, that means she's a ho and have no self-respect. If a dude cheat on me, I would have done worse than this guy did -- MUCH WORSE!
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Posted by little_sparrow
And I am sure if it had been the guy cheating, it would have been all high fives and back slaps. It would be very interesting to get her side of the story as usually women cheat because men don't put out.



are you fucking serious ?
really, are you ?

libra women say the most supid shit sometimes..

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* HIGH FIVE! *
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I am really surprised to hear you are a Libra. Are you cusp born? Admittedly, I don't know much about the male of our species but you don't reason like a libra.

That being said, I am not saying that what she did was great. I am saying that he is part of the problem but is too weak to do the emotional work and bring it to the table. This realtionship was doomed regardless of what she did because he is passing the buck onto her. There is a whole current of shaming female sexuality in our society (I have no doubt those two bozos would never shame and humiliate a MAN for doing the same thing. You would be VERY foolish to think otherwise.)

Notice it is always the woman who is shamed. There is another thread on here, about women leaving married men alone. Hmmmm .... what about the guy? What about the married woman? What about the two of them negotiating better terms for their relationship and communicating honestly before and after it gets to that point?

Everyone takes the easy way out instead doing the emotional work and being vulnerable.

We shouldn't make promises we can't keep. We shouldn't pretend to own other people (control them). And our happiness/unhappiness should not be so tried to what others do or do not do. These are the things that are really going on in this situation.

This guy totally took the easy way out. He became a victim and extracted revenge. Instead of blaming, maybe he should have opened his heart and asked why and actually dealt with the problem.
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Posted by little_sparrow
Yes. I am very serious. If she was cheating, he was part of the problem. That goes for any situation. If someone cheats on you, YOU are part of the cause.




I agree with most of what you said back there, but not this particular paragraph. People can cheat for various different reasons and none of them have to be about the significant other "not putting out" or not being good enough partner. It can be about emotional energies not clicking, it can be that your relationship has evolved into friendship, or that you're looking for excitment you cannot get in a relatinship no matter how perfect everything is. Hell, sometimes even perfection is a reason for cheating. Cheating is wrong but in cases like these you can't point fingers and blame the significant other for being the reason. I don't think people stick to eachother as bf/gf/lovers if the sex is bad.

But yeah, let's just say he sucked in bed 😛
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She got SERVED!!!!! And i am sorry, i thought it was hilarious. If she really loved her man and didnt want her "friend" to bring up those old feelings, she should have slapped him and told her man. She made out with him and didnt even tell him! He had to find out from a friend. I Agree with Mars*n*Aries, at LEAST he found out, BEFORE he married her. Ugh, what dumbass, she got what she deserved! She humilated him, and so he humiliated her back, 10x more. Maybe she will lean her lesson !