help...advice

The crab Man I dated...were good..friendly even thou he chose another girl over me but I understand and I have no hard feelings. I still like the man. Yesterday I commented on a photo he took on vacation and he texted me immediately and said missssss you. He does have a g/f and the girl doesn't know me of course. I texted him miss you too and that I'm happy for him. So in what way he misses me??

Hmm

Bird in the hand; bird in the bush.

@venusaquarius

What does that mean?

??

@strawberrykush

Ok I get it. Yeah Cancer men are something else

@notsosure

You're not so sure? Haha

Anyway no I'm looking for more insight and I have let him go hence were friends!!!!

Posted by notsosure
Same topic in another forum. Looking to get the answer that you seek and not what was giving to you on the cancerforum?😄 Just let this one go and be happy with yourself and maybe somebody else.

Yeah pretty pathetic. 😢

@kissmygrits

I really don't see anything that's pathetic. You're the problem

Posted by britneybabe26
@kissmygrits

I really don't see anything that's pathetic. You're the problem

Babe you always come back and want to analyze the same nothings from some douche nozzle who doesn't want you. Get help dear.

@kissmygritz

He's not a douche just because he chose another girl. He stays in touch so yeah I am trying to figure it out but my world is not stopping for him so get that straight and stop being bitter.

@kissmygritz

I have no hard feelings anymore

Posted by britneybabe26
@notsosure

You're not so sure? Haha

Anyway no I'm looking for more insight and I have let him go hence were friends!!!!

Were you friends before dating?

Posted by britneybabe26
@kissmygritz

He's not a douche just because he chose another girl. He stays in touch so yeah I am trying to figure it out but my world is not stopping for him so get that straight and stop being bitter.

You're waiting in the wings.

You say you're not but it appears to us, as readers,

that you are-- it probably appears that way to him,

as well.

He's kind of stringing you along, and its a shitty thing

to do-- no one likes to see that happen.



Bird in the hand is the one he possesses-- the two

in the bush, he doesn't.



a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush

It is preferable to have a small but certain advantage

than a mere potential of a greater one.

@ladyneptune

No

@montgomery

I'm not.. I like him yes but I'm not waiting for him. She might be the one for him. Missing me is probably harmless to him..if he is stringing me along why does it matter. I might fall in love with someone else anyway

Of course she wants him. If she didn't, she wouldn't care enough to post this question.



I think he misses something about you. But I'm not sure what. It could be hanging out together, having sex, feeling wanted. However, just because he misses you right now, doesn't mean he will miss you tomorrow. Cancer men change their minds a lot.

@pinkbird03

Yes I do want him but I respect he's happy with someone else. Yeah I don't know what he misses about me too but it makes me smile he said that.