How do Libra men reach out after breakup? What do they do if you don't respond?

angiep

After 4 months of a long distance relationship (he is 50 Im 39)during a discussion on the phone I initiated to see where we stand because he was telling me things are difficult for him he disappeared. I did nothing. 2 weeks later he texted me Happy month, I didn't reply, 2 weeks after that he texted have a nice week so I replied that these casual texts mean nothing and if he wants to see how Iam or explain what has happened and he vanished he should call and talk.He replied that he texted because he cared and that he doesn't understand why I find these texts meaningless. So I called him to clarify things but he never picked up. So that was it and a month later (3 weeks ago that is) he sent me a Snoopy with a heart on fb messenger. I didn't reply to that.Found it so silly for a 50 year old man..Just waited all this time for sth substantial to reply to or an explanation as to why he disappeared and what happened.

Why is he reaching out this way?Is this the way Libras act? What do they do when you don't respond?Do they continue or they stop?

This is how they reach out.. something simple to break the ice and wait on your response.

I see..even at the age of 50..Should I be expecting another text like this then?since I didn't reply to the sticker?or that was it?that was 3 weeks ago.

Posted by Mutabull
They just want to make sure that you are still around and haven't forgotten about them. My libra ex sends random things about what he's doing, just to get the attention and hoping that it will stir something up (even though they won't admit that). Just keep him at a distance. If you reply, keep it short and light. The more you disappear or don't react, the more they will pop up. It's annoying, but it's what they do.

Thank you. It's annoying indeed.because I always expect sth more meaningful..not necessarily an explanation at first. So you think I was right not replying to the sticker?I couldn't.felt so ridiculous to respond to it.It's just that some people mentioned that it might have been my last chance or I just lost a chance to initiate a conversation and that has got into me..

If he is still trying to reach out even after your lack of response, then you can expect more texts like this, yes. They won't continue to reach out to someone that is ignoring them if you didn't mean anything to them. But you ignoring him is likely hurting his ego so he is only trying every now and again.. likely hoping you will eventually reach out at some point.. or at least reply.

@Blackphase

Thank you. It's annoying indeed.because I always expect sth more meaningful..not necessarily an explanation at first. So you think I was right not replying to the sticker?I couldn't.felt so ridiculous to respond to it.It's just that some people mentioned that it might have been my last chance or I just lost a chance to initiate a conversation and that has got into me..

Posted by tiziani
I think there's no such thing as a lost chance. If you wanted to speak to him you would have. You'll be OK.

I couldnt reply to a sticker..if it was hi angie how you ve been I would have..but if he doesn' try with sth more meaningful again and the sticker is his last contact then I may have lost a chance..that's what Ive been thinking since some people mentioned the sticker as a chance I lost..

Posted by angiep
This is how they reach out.. something simple to break the ice and wait on your response.

I see..even at the age of 50..Should I be expecting another text like this then?since I didn't reply to the sticker?or that was it?that was 3 weeks ago.

He is probably considering sticker was a reply.

So it's your turn and you haven't replied.

He might be still waiting.

Only one way to find out is to reply or send him a sticker.

Posted by tiziani
I think there's no such thing as a lost chance. If you wanted to speak to him you would have. You'll be OK.

She'll be ok?

Are you sure?

How do you know?

Are you just saying it? Why?