How to bring out the Sex Goddess

Wow, in just a year the sex has gone very recently, from several times a night to once a day/night to every 2nd day to idk. I'm not counting just consider myself lucky when it's on! Maybe every 3rd day!

The act hasn't lessoned when we are on, but I guess I've been lazy and not initiated and let him do the walking...Problem is I find myself feeling self conscious and uncertain as to whether what I am doing is pleasing. (the silent male in bed) I have no problems with any positions or acts but he isn't a visual person and so parading around in sexy underwear doesn't do much for him. He loves my ass and that turns him on more than anything so flaunting that before bed is a must. Guess I should look at something checky to wear to bed...

But what else people, a few suggestions pls...probably wont go into detail on how it all pans out afterwards but just a few pointers would be great!

Can't believe it has gotten to this already...also, maybe there are some underlying factors as to why. Guys, if you could shed a little light on why you may or may not go off sex...we woman do for varying reasons. He constantly touches me and kisses and caresses when he gets home from work, and not just pecks on the cheeks, still full on passionate kissing. Always wanting to cuddle on the couch or hold hands etc so I don't fear that he is over me already. Just no desire to do anything but cuddle in bed!