How To Handle Mixed Signals

Excellent post!! Thank you!!

How to handle mixed signals is to not go there in the first place. Oh also get clear about the type of interaction you want from each other so you can make smooth

See, all this seems like so much DUH. Why is it that SO many women don't get this?

Is it estrogen? Is it society? Is it other women giving retarded ass advice?

Things like what he pointed out in the first video- lack of committing, the "accidental" fwb, etc. Emotionally involved or not, why do women choose to ignore those signs? Why do they not even see them regardless of involvement? You even see it here at DXP- the dipshit lot that shows up, whines, and whines more when they don't hear what they want to hear.

Is our society that bad toward women that they're just desperate for some sort of attention and affection, no matter how low quality it is?

Earlier today, I heard someone call into a radio show and talk about how she ended up sticking around with her loser, selfish husband who cheated on her when she was pregnant. When asked why she stuck around, her response was something like "eh, didn't want to start over, and the kids"

WHY in this day and age are people still using that horrific logic? Wasn't it determined ages ago that keeping the children in a highly toxic environment with mom and dad does not create an ideal situation for children? Or those who think getting married after an accidental pregnancy is also ideal? (just witnessed this recently and it left me kinda stumped since it's 2014)

There are times I wonder WHO the hell is keeping this going? I know it's likely mixed areas, like upbringing, society, whomever, but still. So much has progressed, yet something is perpetuating such outdated, terrible beliefs.

And women buy into it.

And it's sad.

Therefore, you have no brainer videos like this. :/

Posted by notyourtype
These are great.

And relevant to nearly every single relationship thread on DXP, lol.

Who's that attractive guy in your avatar? 😄

Posted by notyourtype

Posted by rockyroadicecream
See, all this seems like so much DUH. Why is it that SO many women don't get this?

Is it estrogen? Is it society? Is it other women giving retarded ass advice?

Can't be estrogen, since there are men out there who are just as foolish. They just don't post their problems on forums as much. 😛

In one of his videos, he mentions the "human's innate desire to feel wanted/important" or the desire for closeness and companionship. Part of that desire is what blinds people to these realities. They crave it so much that it overwhelms them, causing them to overlook or create excuses to negate those obvious signs. Some people are just better than others at curbing that desire, I guess.

Posted by LunarMaiden
Who's that attractive guy in your avatar? 😄

You're the 50th person to ask. Dennis O'Neil.

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Thank you. He's very attractive.
Perhaps add his name to your profile or avatar?