How to hurt cancer man

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thatbitch
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He blocked me on social media.. like as if I would harass him. All he needed would be to just say, we're going nowhere, lets end it. The drama he thrives on. *Rolls eyes.**

Anyway, 3 years later, fresh from a break up with his gf, he hunts me down and charms me although Im not completely falling for him cos all those years I got me a nice guy too. But cos we never were in a realtioanship I did have a lil spot of softness for him and wnated to maybe just have a date for a day or a vacation together to get over an unclosed atttraction we had been dancing around in the past. Like a little sweet memory to keep in a corner.

Suddenly, he ignores me and accuses me of trying to have a relationship with him, when all the while I was just mirroring him. I am so mad at his childish ways, in fact i'm bored cos im 3.5 yrs his senior and I like things to be direct, no shame and adult approach. If i had wanted I would have asked him for us to try us. The false accusations and manipulation of everything I said and did makes me detest him so much, I find myself laughing.

So, I blocked him on social media. I hope it hurts him. Does anyone think that'll hurt him? I pray it does. We were never friends on fb but message from there.
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Posted by CocoKat
sounds like a horror story I went thru years ago with a gemini.

Sounds like he wants you to chase him down and act all crazy, some dudes like to play and toy with women and use the "get her to chase you" techniques by persuing and then dropping off the planet.

If you chase him or persue him it will only get worse, trust me.

Blocking him very smart,
He sounds like a venus gemini. Do you have his chart?


Mine was a sun/venus gemini. They really like games, get off on it. They are bored once they know they have your interest, spinning lotsa plates with women who fall for their tricks.

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thatbitch
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His ex gf's always turned out to be horrible as per him, he wanted babies with me, he hates his mom since she kicked him out of the house when he was 16 and theyve never reconciled to the extent they pass each other on the streets like strangers. Blocking him might not hurt him but I'm hoping it will nag him in the long run. At this point I'm not even hurt by him and his antics, I am offended. He, I feel, is trying to portray me as the kockoo one jist liek he did with all his ex gfs. Ovee analyzation of everything, he is so far up his own ass.
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TaurusBull1977
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@ThatBitch,

Fact.
1. You were dumped on a superficial website, from a Fake-Book friend that you were NEVER in a relationship with.
2. You admitted being in a relationship with a wonderful guy, while attempting to go on a date with an ex Fake-Book friend who blocked you on a social website.
3.While still admittedly in an alleged harmonious relationship, you're planning revenge for someone you were never in a relationship with.

He's not far up his ass, but you CLEARLY are!

The Cancer, here, is not the problem, you are.
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beautifulsoul74
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Posted by TaurusBull1977
@ThatBitch,

Fact.
1. You were dumped on a superficial website, from a Fake-Book friend that you were NEVER in a relationship with.
2. You admitted being in a relationship with a wonderful guy, while attempting to go on a date with an ex Fake-Book friend who blocked you on a social website.
3.While still admittedly in an alleged harmonious relationship, you're planning revenge for someone you were never in a relationship with.

He's not far up his ass, but you CLEARLY are!

The Cancer, here, is not the problem, you are.
I actually feel sorry for the nice guy
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thatbitch
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We were friends for 2 years, 3 years he disappeared and showed up saying he thought we were going to get married, to stop by in his country on my way to vist my bf (both in different countries), made fun of my bf and gave him nick names but it was all in jest. He can be charming. I did meet him when he reappeared but never cheated on my bf with him, not even a kiss. And the messages kept coming in thereafter. All charming and captivating-for 8 months. I never said I wanted a relationship. I just asked if he wpuld like to meet up for coffee, the way he did when he reappeared last year. That doesnt give him any reason to treat me like im trolling him or being a harlot. I just find that childish and want hom to eat his own medicine cos Im strating to think thats what he does to his ex gfs too from how he talks about the reason their realtioanship didnt work. You dont know how smooth and manipulative he is.
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TaurusBull1977
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This man isn't smooth or manipulative.
He's not even clever.
The two of you were only friends, and you overly-romanticized about a relationship that never existed based on his flirtatious ways.
You read into something that wasn't there which was why he blocked you.

You entertained him for 8 months while being in a relationship, it is still a sign of emotional cheating.

You're not exempt.

Put yourself in your man's shoes.
What if he was entertaining an ex-girlfriend for 8 months, she blocked him, and all he wanted to do was get even...how would that make you feel?
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Posted by aquarius09
The problem with all these scenarios is that OPs of all these threads are weak and desperate women who ENTERTAIN these cancer sissies. Show me one thread where the OP wasn't entertaining the douche.

A wise man once told me that a douche (male or female) only goes and gets as far as you let them.
Hey what have douches done to you. You can't compare them to these OPs you're talking about. Poor douches.