How would you feel about this... (quick question)

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If you were dating someone on-and-off , and finally just wanted shit to be clearly defined. So, you said "We're either doing this, or we arent. I'm not hooking up with you causally anymore.".... You end up getting into a little argument over it because of differing viewpoints, and the person says "I give in.... whatever you want, I'll do."

Would you be turned off by that response?

Just curious. haha
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷

Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive



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Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷

Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive



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Yeah, ultimatums usually never work but when you've had enough of the bs...it's the go to but I think at that point you don't even really care the outcome either way...imo

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Posted by heliumfiasco

If you were dating someone on-and-off , and finally just wanted shit to be clearly defined. So, you said "We're either doing this, or we arent. I'm not hooking up with you causally anymore.".... You end up getting into a little argument over it because of differing viewpoints, and the person says "I give in.... whatever you want, I'll do."

Would you be turned off by that response?

Just curious. haha


I probably wouldn't be offended, but ofcours I'd say: I want this to happen (assuming I do), but I don't want you to do it, just because I say so. If you want it, let's go, if not, then that's how you feel.
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Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷

Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive



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Yeah, ultimatums usually never work but when you've had enough of the bs...it's the go to but I think at that point you don't even really care the outcome either way...imo

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Very true if the relationship has ran its course either outcome will work to get stronger or break. Sometimes people just meet at the wrong time n life.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Not turned off but annoyed. If I didn't hear it from his mouth that he wanted in and is just agreeing...I would think he's agreeing just to stop arguing and doesn't truly mean it. 🤷

Libra in me would agree until the arguments over and your replacement will be filled very swiftly. Nice convo about it is ok for open discussion on give and take partnership,but forced ultimatums shows weakness that's not attractive



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Yeah, ultimatums usually never work but when you've had enough of the bs...it's the go to but I think at that point you don't even really care the outcome either way...imo

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Very true if the relationship has ran its course either outcome will work to get stronger or break. Sometimes people just meet at the wrong time n life.
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Damn story of my life 😂



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Posted by heliumfiasco

If you were dating someone on-and-off , and finally just wanted shit to be clearly defined. So, you said "We're either doing this, or we arent. I'm not hooking up with you causally anymore.".... You end up getting into a little argument over it because of differing viewpoints, and the person says "I give in.... whatever you want, I'll do."

Would you be turned off by that response?

Just curious. haha


Ew.

I’d walk. That’s baloney.