How would you react if...

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by _Dazed on Thursday, June 13, 2019 and has 50 replies.

How to React When Someone Is Persistently Stalking You

If someone is repeatedly appearing and engaging with you unexpectedly, trust your instincts and prioritize your safety. Consider blocking and reporting them on social media and avoid personal interactions. If you feel threatened, contact local authorities and seek support from trusted friends or family. Your safety is the most important priority in such situations.

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@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts

..This happened to you?

You pass a guy on the street. He looks to be 10 or so years older than you. You give him a friendly smile as you pass, but he stares at you in passing with a resting, murder face of sorts. He holds the stare for longer than is comfortable, but you simply ignore it and keep moving.

Some time later, you see the same guy in a club you frequent. You say to your friend sitting next to you, "Omg it's that guy I told you about. The one I thought looked like murderer, staring at me while I walked home the other day". The two of you laugh to yourselves, but otherwise ignore him. A few moments pass and you check IG on your phone.

You have a follow request from murder face. You don't accept.

Later, you get ANOTHER follow request from this guy. Not wanting to unintentionally anger him into a murderous rage (obviously he already found out who you are), you accept. The next day, you pass him once again. You give him a short glance just to make sure it's him, and you keep walking.

Over the course of a week or so, this guy "randomly" appears in the same places you frequent.

You start noticing that he "likes" several of your IG posts before ultimately asking if you want to "meet up".

What are your thoughts?

How do you respond?

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@TurnOn
7 Years

Posted by _Dazed

..This happened to you?

You pass a guy on the street. He looks to be 10 or so years older than you. You give him a friendly smile as you pass, but he stares at you in passing with a resting, murder face of sorts. He holds the stare for longer than is comfortable, but you simply ignore it and keep moving.

Some time later, you see the same guy in a club you frequent. You say to your friend sitting next to you, "Omg it's that guy I told you about. The one I thought looked like murderer, staring at me while I walked home the other day". The two of you laugh to yourselves, but otherwise ignore him. A few moments pass and you check IG on your phone.

You have a follow request from murder face. You don't accept.

Later, you get ANOTHER follow request from this guy. Not wanting to unintentionally anger him into a murderous rage (obviously he already found out who you are), you accept. The next day, you pass him once again. You give him a short glance just to make sure it's him, and you keep walking.

Over the course of a week or so, this guy "randomly" appears in the same places you frequent.

You start noticing that he "likes" several of your IG posts before ultimately asking if you want to "meet up".

What are your thoughts?

How do you respond?

Kick that mother fuckers ass.. confront him head on. Street fight.

Hope you go to gym.

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@Sjess
7 Years500+ Posts

Ew I would have yelled at him eons ago in the middle of the street and NEVER added him to anything.

If this is real, I’m waiting to find out what comes next

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@tctaap
7 Years1,000+ Posts

I'd have to go up to him (in public) and speak to him and check him out. Ask him why it appears that he's following me. And let him know I wasn't interested because I found that to be creepy af. Ask him not to continue. I'm not there for him.

and carry a handgun

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@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Neno2

Posted by _Dazed

..This happened to you?

You pass a guy on the street. He looks to be 10 or so years older than you. You give him a friendly smile as you pass, but he stares at you in passing with a resting, murder face of sorts. He holds the stare for longer than is comfortable, but you simply ignore it and keep moving.

Some time later, you see the same guy in a club you frequent. You say to your friend sitting next to you, "Omg it's that guy I told you about. The one I thought looked like murderer, staring at me while I walked home the other day". The two of you laugh to yourselves, but otherwise ignore him. A few moments pass and you check IG on your phone.

You have a follow request from murder face. You don't accept.

Later, you get ANOTHER follow request from this guy. Not wanting to unintentionally anger him into a murderous rage (obviously he already found out who you are), you accept. The next day, you pass him once again. You give him a short glance just to make sure it's him, and you keep walking.

Over the course of a week or so, this guy "randomly" appears in the same places you frequent.

You start noticing that he "likes" several of your IG posts before ultimately asking if you want to "meet up".

What are your thoughts?

How do you respond?

I go chat with young babes😂ciao

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And never meet them.

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@leooox
7 Years500+ Posts

oh so this is from the perspective of the 19 year old, yeah shes probably creeper out and think he wants to kill her. despite the age difference (which can work in some cases) it would be alot better to just talk to her then give her the "murder stare"

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Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Resting murder face must be a Scorpio rising.

I would have never added ppl I don't know personally and nobody can scare me into adding them.

@_Dazed

Have you added him to your media?

GTFO!!!

What ? lol

Who adding strangers to their media?

How do you think ppl have thousands of followers on IG.

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Those are people you don’t know right? But how do you add particular person?

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@AfternoonDelights22
13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nanobot

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Thank you

I've found the next DXP game

"Are you hot enough to get away with stalking?"

Hot enough 2 stare themed mafia

Mafia roles are "The Ugly", "The Jealous" and, "The Miserable"

The neno2's ability is to stare and incapacitate his victim, causing her to fall madly and deeply in love with him

The combination of the townie power of rejecting his Instagram follow requests, ignoring the neno2's charms (like bulletproof vest), and if you have the special townie role of "Capricorn lady" are what it takes to ultimately defeat the neno2

I could really fucking do something with this 🤯🤯💡

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xD do it

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Resting murder face must be a Scorpio rising.

I would have never added ppl I don't know personally and nobody can scare me into adding them.

@_Dazed

Have you added him to your media?

GTFO!!!

What ? lol

Who adding strangers to their media?

How do you think ppl have thousands of followers on IG.

Those are people you don’t know right? But how do you add particular person?

"Later, you get ANOTHER follow request from this guy. Not wanting to unintentionally anger him into a murderous rage (obviously he already found out who you are), you accept."

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Another us following the first one which couldn’t happen if OP had not added him on purpose somehow...right?

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@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by nanobot

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Thank you

I've found the next DXP game

"Are you hot enough to get away with stalking?"

Hot enough 2 stare themed mafia

Mafia roles are "The Ugly", "The Jealous" and, "The Miserable"

The neno2's ability is to stare and incapacitate his victim, causing her to fall madly and deeply in love with him

The combination of the townie power of rejecting his Instagram follow requests, ignoring the neno2's charms (like bulletproof vest), and if you have the special townie role of "Capricorn lady" are what it takes to ultimately defeat the neno2

I could really fucking do something with this 🤯🤯💡

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What do you see when you stare into my eyes??

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vicktoria

Resting murder face must be a Scorpio rising.

I would have never added ppl I don't know personally and nobody can scare me into adding them.

@_Dazed

Have you added him to your media?

GTFO!!!

What ? lol

Who adding strangers to their media?

How do you think ppl have thousands of followers on IG.

Those are people you don’t know right? But how do you add particular person?

"Later, you get ANOTHER follow request from this guy. Not wanting to unintentionally anger him into a murderous rage (obviously he already found out who you are), you accept."

Another us following the first one which couldn’t happen if OP had not added him on purpose somehow...right?

He says it's a small town, and everyone knows everyone. He should wear a Go-Pro so we can see what his day is like.

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Everybody knows each other except OP and a killer man? 🧐

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@MissScruffs
7 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by nanobot

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Thank you

I've found the next DXP game

"Are you hot enough to get away with stalking?"

Hot enough 2 stare themed mafia

Mafia roles are "The Ugly", "The Jealous" and, "The Miserable"

The neno2's ability is to stare and incapacitate his victim, causing her to fall madly and deeply in love with him

The combination of the townie power of rejecting his Instagram follow requests, ignoring the neno2's charms (like bulletproof vest), and if you have the special townie role of "Capricorn lady" are what it takes to ultimately defeat the neno2

I could really fucking do something with this 🤯🤯💡

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I'm in.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

It’s funny I was just watching Pauly D and Vinnys dating show because I love trash TV and I thought my god Vinny just seriously looks like a serial killer

And then you changed your profile pic 😬😬😬

Same exact look

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@Soul
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Naturally I would want to follow him around, lurk on his profile, dig up his awkward secrets, and find out what he is about.

I tend to like weird people, especially if they have a murderous face. Can't we just be friends?

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@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Neno2

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by nanobot

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Thank you

I've found the next DXP game

"Are you hot enough to get away with stalking?"

Hot enough 2 stare themed mafia

Mafia roles are "The Ugly", "The Jealous" and, "The Miserable"

The neno2's ability is to stare and incapacitate his victim, causing her to fall madly and deeply in love with him

The combination of the townie power of rejecting his Instagram follow requests, ignoring the neno2's charms (like bulletproof vest), and if you have the special townie role of "Capricorn lady" are what it takes to ultimately defeat the neno2

I could really fucking do something with this 🤯🤯💡

What do you see when you stare into my eyes??

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He saved my pictures😂😂😂

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Your pictures are on Google ma man. Hope you don't have stalkers.

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@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Neno2

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by Neno2

Posted by _Dazed

Posted by nanobot

Posted by AfternoonDelights22

Thank you

I've found the next DXP game

"Are you hot enough to get away with stalking?"

Hot enough 2 stare themed mafia

Mafia roles are "The Ugly", "The Jealous" and, "The Miserable"

The neno2's ability is to stare and incapacitate his victim, causing her to fall madly and deeply in love with him

The combination of the townie power of rejecting his Instagram follow requests, ignoring the neno2's charms (like bulletproof vest), and if you have the special townie role of "Capricorn lady" are what it takes to ultimately defeat the neno2

I could really fucking do something with this 🤯🤯💡

What do you see when you stare into my eyes??

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He saved my pictures😂😂😂

Your pictures are on Google ma man. Hope you don't have stalkers.

😂👍

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You don't believe me?

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

I'd wait till I saw him in the street when there was a lot of our friends around and shout

"STOP FUCKING STALKING ME WEIRDO.....I AM WATHCHING YOU"

Then I'd do that thing with the two fingers where you point at your 👀 and theirs lol

😀😬😳

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@_Dazed
7 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Neno2

Posted by _Dazed

..This happened to you?

You pass a guy on the street. He looks to be 10 or so years older than you. You give him a friendly smile as you pass, but he stares at you in passing with a resting, murder face of sorts. He holds the stare for longer than is comfortable, but you simply ignore it and keep moving.

Some time later, you see the same guy in a club you frequent. You say to your friend sitting next to you, "Omg it's that guy I told you about. The one I thought looked like murderer, staring at me while I walked home the other day". The two of you laugh to yourselves, but otherwise ignore him. A few moments pass and you check IG on your phone.

You have a follow request from murder face. You don't accept.

Later, you get ANOTHER follow request from this guy. Not wanting to unintentionally anger him into a murderous rage (obviously he already found out who you are), you accept. The next day, you pass him once again. You give him a short glance just to make sure it's him, and you keep walking.

Over the course of a week or so, this guy "randomly" appears in the same places you frequent.

You start noticing that he "likes" several of your IG posts before ultimately asking if you want to "meet up".

What are your thoughts?

How do you respond?

Just saw your profile pic😂😂😂😂what the fuck is that😂😂😂man,with your face ,pale skin and red beard😂😂😂pfff😂😂is no wonder u envy me😂😂😂stay with the cats buddy,the 19 year old aqua likes me😂😂😂meanwhile u have your cats😂😂😂

Man,i am laughing with myself on who i take seriously on dxp,capt paleskin redbeard ugly cat guy😂😂😂

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But bro...

You're a cat guy...

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@DwellingOnMove
17 Years10,000+ Posts

well, this is a real life scenario for some girls who start relationships this way. playing the no card wanting to say yes is nothing new, as well. not wanting but then changing your mind is natural too.

I see no reason to bully any person involved. but life is as such. some don't like the scenario and need to talk about it.

with my Sag Sun and Mars I hate any relationship based on stares. people talk and make things happen. with me. well, most of the time I am the person who takes the initiative.