I'm A Guy And...

as I get older more and more I'm turning into the female version of misogynist. Meaning I hate dudes.

I am straight, but I dont care for a lot of the behavior and thought processes of my fellow men. With this video encapsulating everything that repulses me. -

Thanks Ninjafish. And I find the fact of guys hitting the clubs in LA to meet women hilarious. Unless you look like Ryan Gosling, have the popularity of the Biebs or bartend there, clubs should be a no-fly zone.

I can't believe guys dont try meeting women in grocery stores, bookstores, coffeehouses. There is nothing wrong with doing it, provided you can tell if a girl's actually interested, you dont hover over them like Jason Voorhees and actually approach them.

Yeah, can't stand being around guys for longer periods of time. I just want to punch 'em in the mouth. Every single one of them.

Even you. 🙂

"Wait.... this isn't a tactic to bait the women on DXP, is it? If so..."

@Poisson - I'm looking for love in all the wrong places, what can I say? In all seriousness though, if I was attempting to do so I wouldn't let slip the fact that I still hold women accountable as well in the battle of sexes.

Notice how I said more and more about veering towards not liking my gender. It is not complete contempt yet. A couple of years ago I looked at both genders with equal disdain. It is just starting to go the other direction with men

I think women can be just as emotionally immature as men when it comes to what they want out of dating. Granted there are a quite few guys who fall in love based on good sex. But the rate of attachment based on good sexual chemistry is still higher with women.

I'm not going to dismiss the fact good sex is an attraction builder. But to fall in love with someone solely over that without any mental attraction involved is immature. It is understandable to be that way in your teens.

But when you are going further in the 20's and are all "He made me squirt 4 times, he's my soulmate" that's pathetic. And you dont have any business being in a relationship if that's the case.

Getting back on original topic though, I've been where that dude in the video was at. I wasn't very attractive in high school. In fact the creaters of Napeleon Dynamite owe me some royalties for stealing my look.

But the difference being I was never a model chaser like the video dude either. I only went after the cute nerdy girls. I knew at the time where I stood on the food chain in dating. And it was no where near dating the "hot" girl. I had always thought all "hot" girls were arrogant, status climbing gold diggers at the time anyway.

Anyway, I got rejected by my fair share of the Tina Fey Camp. But did I sit and moan about it? No, I decided to physically make myself over. I got contact lenses, dyed my hair a different color and hair style . I thought doing that would attract more of the Tina Feys. Ironically I started attracting the hot girls which totally perplexed me. And I found out not all hot girls are stuck up gold-diggers.

There was some really nice attractive women. And then when I did date the cute girls (including my semi-ex) I found out they were equally guilty of the bad girl behaviors usually associated with hot girls meaning arrogance, social climbing, unnecessary bullying of other girls, holding out for the jock or the musician type.

So basically I learned that ugliness in people comes in all forms. And never to pass judgement on women who happen to be really, really good looking.

The funny part was that any really attractive woman I dated I felt very secure. Cause I knew they could have any man they wanted and they picked me anyway, so I had instant comfort. Whereas the cute girl I would be paranoid that my time was being wasted and she would either cheat or dump me for the athlete or musician, since she never got to date them. I've seen the nice girls dump or cheat at the slightest bit of interest from a studly guy. So I'm always a bit more leery of them. Maybe there are some legitimate cute nice girls left who aren't always looking to trade up. But in my city I have yet to see that.

@Marrakeseha - I'll just say that I have a Sagittarius Moon as I feel that most aptly describes me. My sun sign doesnt describe me at all and I dont want to be polarized here saying what it is if that is all right. I feel honestly that astrology could only describe up to 50% of a person. It's the way a person was raised and their emotional maturity that ultimately determines a person's character to me.

Well I'm never giving up on my video games 😛