@annoyed4ever
9 Years
I'm so annoyed
Stay away from Tinder.
How long have you been seeing him?
Thanks for everyone who answered!!!
I'm too lazy to make personalised replies 🙂. And a bit tipsy.
Anyway, I agree that we are not exclusive and he has his freedom, but I want him to keep me on the same page, especially after when I asked if he is seeing other girls!!!
I also agree that I should stay away from Tinder!
Although I think that all of the dating sites are the same!!!
And thanks for the hugs @SweetLily89.
I agree that I am full of insecurity and paranoia! And all the other things.
Anyway.... The shit just got real....
He asked if we are seeing each other or still see how it goes...
Anyway, I told him a bit about my trust issues.
And it seems we are together now...
At least he assured he doesn't want to see other girls & is able to withhold the sex & wants to be with me.
So I guess that all is good... 🙂
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Maybe I jump to conclusions too fast...
But I met this guy on Tinder. We hit it off very well. I was having a hard time and he has helped me out quite a lot. I feel like he is courting me as well, more than the guys I have dated. I mean, I feel like there is nothing I miss when I am with him.
Anyway, I asked if he is seeing other girls. He said no. He said he hasn't even chatted with other girls on Tinder since we met.
But now when I Tinder stalked him, I found out that he is still active on Tinder. His location has changed. So, he probably is still looking around or hooking up with other girls.
I mean we have gone quite far sexually, we have not had sex, but we have done other things.
I don't really want to talk to him anymore.
I definitely will confront him about that. I'm gonna ask him what's up...
I don't know yet, how... But I will.
I may sound like a cray gf (as I stalked his Tinder), but I've dated Tinder guys before, and I know that you always have to keep your eyes open about them.
He is probably just one of those fuck boys. I'm gonna set him straight.
Because deep inside I'm just like my mom (a bitchy aries).