Is he interested or am I insecure?

I met this guy on a dating website. We live in different countries so we've never met in person. Initially he seemed really interested. He wouldn't ask me if I was still using the site, but he regularly checked my last online status, I think. We have a lot in common but sometimes we struggle to carry on conversation.

I kind of got bored of the dating site, and I think he could tell I wasn't active on it anymore. So he was more.. tender during our last skype meeting. He told me about some of his sexual likes which I was cool with. And he also said we should watch this movie together and downloaded it for me.

But maybe starting from 2 days after this, he seems like he's maybe found someone else, because he would be active on fb messenger but take a while to message me or whatever. However, I'm confused because when he knew I might be busy, he said 'it's okay if we can't meet. I'll still be here '

Is he losing interest and should I cut my losses or is he testing me? I would post this on the relationships forum too, but I just wanted to be sure.

I just.. I'm just tired of getting hurt.

Posted by CharmGame5
You should just tell him how you feel about him instead of playing chess.

But I'm pretty sure he already knows because I hinted at it?

Posted by stopbeingdelusional
If you are doing online dating, be aware that everyone is meeting new people every day.

If it's meant to be, no one can take him away from you. If not, then there's nothing you can do to keep him from meeting other people since you are not together yet.

Exactly, how much time do I give this in-between state?