Is it Chasing if you're in a long-term relationship?

What do you think?



Doesn't matter whether you are living together or have been in a relationship for say 3yrs etc if you are calling your partner more than they call you, is it Chasing?

Or is it just that you've been together a while and one of you is less busy than the other so you call just to say Hi and have a chat because you love each other?

Discuss..😊

Pooface are you back together with the Pisces??

Or is this the reason behind the question?

Posted by sweethearts

Pooface are you back together with the Pisces??

Or is this the reason behind the question?

Lol..x

Yes I am back with him. Sort of.

Its been interesting.

But that's not the reason for the question.

Its more of a general question because in my marriage I put loads of emotional effort in while he gave nothing.

I had to because he wouldn't/couldn't.

Anyway..its a general question to see what, people in long-term relationships think..

yes

you obviously feel that way

there's more power in chasing anyway

Not a good start, Maevis. I thought you had learned your lesson the first time.

Hope you can prove me wrong, gurl.

Posted by virgoOPPP

yes

you obviously feel that way

there's more power in chasing anyway

How is there more power in chasing?

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Not a good start, Maevis. I thought you had learned your lesson the first time.

Hope you can prove me wrong, gurl.

Lol..

Explain..

Posted by pooface222

Posted by virgoOPPP

yes

you obviously feel that way

there's more power in chasing anyway

How is there more power in chasing?

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you might reach a point when it can get mentally and emotionally-draining

but it's basically insurance the way i see it

Posted by PhoenixStorm

I feel like the majority of relationships that I see are imbalanced. It seems like there is always one person that is more in love with the other person, even if they don’t say it verbally you can tell just by observing the actions and dynamics of the relationship. Very rarely have I seen a perfectly balanced relationship although that is ideal.

what d'you think about this situation?

one day you got busy and stopped chasing

then the guy suddenly mentioned he'd seen you reply to a comment your ex made in your profile pic

(btw it was not 51m as he thought but 51w= nov 25, 2019 before you even met each other)

what's your reading on this guy?

It fluctuates. Never gonna be 50/50 even Steven’s especially when your talking years into it.

As long as there is effort on both sides...