Jealous or nahhh

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by CrabNextDoor on Monday, August 7, 2017 and has 4 replies.

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@CrabNextDoor
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I've confused myself! There's a guy that I like but he has a girlfriend, and I didn't know and I've been swooning after him. Now the problem is I thought we both liked each other and I keep telling myself that I'm not jealous but there's still a part of me that is wishing bad on them??‍♀️, but I'm not jealous or am...? I don't know I feel jealous but I'm so calm and kosher about it that I don't know what I'm really feeling what do y'all think?

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@AriesJo
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Had something similar recently myself. You're not jealous, obviously everyone is a little gutted when they find out someone they thought had potential is already taken. You're calm because you are thinking there nothing you can do about it? I think you're feeling a minor sense of losing something? But it hopefully isn't serious and these things happen in life. There's probably someone better for you waiting around the corner.