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Understanding Romantic Traits of Venus and Sun-Neptune Conjunct Individuals
People with Venus dominance and Sun-Neptune conjunction often have a natural affinity for romance. They tend to create and attract love through beauty, art, and emotional expression, leading to deeply romantic experiences and relationships filled with poetry, music, and tenderness.
I mostly 'leave me alone and don't talk to me' specially in the morning?
Everything mushy makes me angry except cute puppies. Animal kind of course.
However I have totally unknown spot in me that sits there and gets awake every time when some ONE is there with me and I am changing into complete ? idiot with only one wish to lay on a floor at his feet and die. It feels strange.
So I guess it's all depends on circumstances of the moment. And one CAN be romantic - it's just need to be brought up in a person. Ever or never.
I am sure now we all have it. But we don't know until moment has come.
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.
Posted by MyStarsShine
i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days(...) writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me..
none of that is about romance or romantism, it's just superficial
Posted by MyStarsShine
i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days(...) writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me..
none of that is about romance or romantism, it's just superficial
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So what is romance to you .... I guess everyone has their own take
You find poetry and music supficial ?
Interesting because I have found some music and the written word to be life changing
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.
Why? The smell from some flowers is intoxicating and a room bathed is candlelight is extremely romantic and sensual
Posted by MyStarsShine
i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days(...) writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me..
none of that is about romance or romantism, it's just superficial
So what is romance to you .... I guess everyone has their own take
You find poetry and music supficial ?
Interesting because I have found some music and the written word to be life changing
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I can't define it in a short time, but romance is what makes you like a character in a play.
The environment and perfumes don't matter, but if you feel that you have to get out of your comfort zone, and bring out the last strength from the bottom of your being for someone or something. If you don't know what should be the next thing that you should say. If you feel that the story of your life depends on your next actions, then this is romantism
Posted by MyStarsShine
i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days(...) writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me..
none of that is about romance or romantism, it's just superficial
So what is romance to you .... I guess everyone has their own take
You find poetry and music supficial ?
Interesting because I have found some music and the written word to be life changing
I can't define it in a short time, but romance is what makes you like a character in a play.
The environment and perfumes don't matter, but if you feel that you have to get out of your comfort zone, and bring out the last strength from the bottom of your being for someone or something. If you don't know what should be the next thing that you should say. If you feel that the story of your life depends on your next actions, then this is romantism
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Nice to get a male viewpoint on it
Do you write?
Would you like to write me a poem?
😛
Posted by MyStarsShine
i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days(...) writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me..
none of that is about romance or romantism, it's just superficial
So what is romance to you .... I guess everyone has their own take
You find poetry and music supficial ?
Interesting because I have found some music and the written word to be life changing
I can't define it in a short time, but romance is what makes you like a character in a play.
The environment and perfumes don't matter, but if you feel that you have to get out of your comfort zone, and bring out the last strength from the bottom of your being for someone or something. If you don't know what should be the next thing that you should say. If you feel that the story of your life depends on your next actions, then this is romantism
Nice to get a male viewpoint on it
Do you write?
Would you like to write me a poem?
😛
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I don't write that well and no
My father was one of the most romantic man I knew
He would bring my mother flowers every week, sing to her and dance with her, tell her she was beautiful flirt with her ....
Once when she washing his pants, she found a poem in the pocket he had written to her called "Time". I still have it and it is a lovely piece of work
They had been together for over 30 years when he wrote that
🙂
Posted by MyStarsShine
So i am Venus dominant / Sun-Neptune conjunct in the 7th and very romantic 😛My life whether in a relationship or single is romantic...i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days
All the relationships i was in brought me romance, even though the guys, at first, weren't, they ended up writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me.......i think it must have rubbed off on them .....
So, tell me both ladies and gents, how romantic how are you and how much romance have you received in your life so far ?
Don't be shy now 😘
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Beautiful ~
That sounds very beautiful... and tangible!
I'm a Venusian as well...
I think my expression of it is almost a dynamic. It's really weird but sometimes I make people behave in a romantic way around me and then I realize they aren't the romantic types. That has always caught me off guard, and I don't know what it is about me that gets that out of people... because sometimes I don't even say a word.
But when I am expressing it, I love writing and my behavioral expressions to that person also become more Venusian.
I also memorize that person and create an environment to set the mood accordingly.
(But I noticed I also do that with anyone I love... so maybe it's not romanticism and just my way of expressing love ??♀️).
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Yes very tangible 🙂
Setting the mood is something I so relate to, especially my Taurus moon. I also get you on the bringing out romance in others....that is something that happens to me too
😘
✨
I'm not romantic at all.
I like candles so my house can smell good, I like perfumes and oils so I can smell good and I like massages for relaxation. I'm not a dreamer though. I'm very practical and logical. I wish i was more romantic but then again I kind of don' like sappiness. It makes me uncomfortable. 😢
I'm very romantic
Posted by Ssuperman
I'm very romantic
In what way S?
Posted by saggurl88
I'm not romantic at all.I like candles so my house can smell good, I like perfumes and oils so I can smell good and I like massages for relaxation. I'm not a dreamer though. I'm very practical and logical. I wish i was more romantic but then again I kind of don' like sappiness. It makes me uncomfortable. 😢
In what way would you like to be more romantic, Sag ?
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.Why? The smell from some flowers is intoxicating and a room bathed is candlelight is extremely romantic and sensual
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I'm not fond with all that.
Neptune is high tho in my chart.
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.
It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
Edit: candlelight is the most flattering of light. Well that and early morning light.
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.Why? The smell from some flowers is intoxicating and a room bathed is candlelight is extremely romantic and sensual
I'm not fond with all that.
Neptune is high tho in my chart.
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What is romance to you ?
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
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How'd you know. Does it make you wet?
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
How'd you know. Does it make you wet?
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Its more like the gesture, him making an effort, gets me wet.
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.Why? The smell from some flowers is intoxicating and a room bathed is candlelight is extremely romantic and sensual
I'm not fond with all that.
Neptune is high tho in my chart.
What is romance to you ?
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I never really thought about it —
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
How'd you know. Does it make you wet?
Its more like the gesture, him making an effort, gets me wet.
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With flowers and candles?
I know you like those things as i seen it in the front page.
What kind of effort? Example please.
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
How'd you know. Does it make you wet?
Its more like the gesture, him making an effort, gets me wet.
With flowers and candles?
I know you like those things as i seen it in the front page.
What kind of effort? Example please.
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Flowers and candles = effort. What are you not getting?
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
How'd you know. Does it make you wet?
Its more like the gesture, him making an effort, gets me wet.
With flowers and candles?
I know you like those things as i seen it in the front page.
What kind of effort? Example please.
Flowers and candles = effort. What are you not getting?
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You wet easily then —?
Posted by LibraMudra
I love romance. I've always wanted romance too.I really have it made in the romance department with my hub. All that Leo in him never ceases to amaze me with his capability to show and express his love for me in ways no one else could or ever has.
Fire sign men seem to be good at this I have noticed......especially Leos . 🙂
Enjoy
Xxx
Looking for more responses from people who are romantic and who have received it and in what ways?
🙂
I think my life has been one big romance novel.
Every dream, fantasy, has come true.
I need new dreams.
I have daydreamed all day about a character in a book. My husband is a compilation of all my favorites... God is good.
I am a trained artist and I sing. I play piano by ear. I drew my husband before I met him.
When I did paint, my theme was sex, love, birth.
When I sculpted, it was body carvings.
Music hypnotizes me.
Never without love. Never want. Love always finds me.
I have romantic thoughts of death.
Posted by MyStarsShine
i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days(...) writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me..
none of that is about romance or romantism, it's just superficial
So what is romance to you .... I guess everyone has their own take
You find poetry and music supficial ?
Interesting because I have found some music and the written word to be life changing
I can't define it in a short time, but romance is what makes you like a character in a play.
The environment and perfumes don't matter, but if you feel that you have to get out of your comfort zone, and bring out the last strength from the bottom of your being for someone or something. If you don't know what should be the next thing that you should say. If you feel that the story of your life depends on your next actions, then this is romantism
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~ ♡~
Posted by AerialView
I never understand the association of romance with flowers and candles.It gets her wet. That's all you really need to know.
How'd you know. Does it make you wet?
Its more like the gesture, him making an effort, gets me wet.
With flowers and candles?
I know you like those things as i seen it in the front page.
What kind of effort? Example please.
Flowers and candles = effort. What are you not getting?
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Effort and thought.......not rocket science
I have beautiful poetry from men who sat down and thought about those words they sent to me....
Very much from the heart
Very much appreciated
Posted by VenusAquarius
I think my life has been one big romance novel.Every dream, fantasy, has come true.
I need new dreams.
I have daydreamed all day about a character in a book. My husband is a compilation of all my favorites... God is good.
I am a trained artist and I sing. I play piano by ear. I drew my husband before I met him.
When I did paint, my theme was sex, love, birth.
When I sculpted, it was body carvings.
Music hypnotizes me.
Never without love. Never want. Love always finds me.
I have romantic thoughts of death.
"romantic thoughts of death"
You must have strong Neptune in your chart......? If not, what do you put your romantic nature down to astrologically ?
Loved your post
Thanks
🙂
Posted by VenusAquarius
I think my life has been one big romance novel.Every dream, fantasy, has come true.
I need new dreams.
I have daydreamed all day about a character in a book. My husband is a compilation of all my favorites... God is good.
I am a trained artist and I sing. I play piano by ear. I drew my husband before I met him.
When I did paint, my theme was sex, love, birth.
When I sculpted, it was body carvings.
Music hypnotizes me.
Never without love. Never want. Love always finds me.
I have romantic thoughts of death.
"romantic thoughts of death"
You must have strong Neptune in your chart......? If not, what do you put your romantic nature down to astrologically ?
Loved your post
Thanks
🙂
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Yes, ma'am.
My dominants are:
1. Venus
2. Sun
3. Neptune... 2nd house Mercury Conjunct Jupiter Pisces... and Sun in there too. Jupiter in a Grand Air/Water trine.
Alot of Venus trines...
Moon Trine Venus (5th)
Venus Trine Mars (5th)
Venus Trine Saturn(5th)
Venus Trine Uranus (9th)
Venus Conjunct Ceres (1st)
Venus Conjunct Juno (1st)
Grand Trine with Ven: 21Aqua and Mar: 17Gem and Ura: 26Lib
Grand Trine with Ven: 21Aqu and Sat: 28Gem and Ura: 26Lib
Grand Trine with Jup: 4Pis and Sat: 28Gem and Ura: 26Lib
Posted by saggurl88
I'm not romantic at all.I like candles so my house can smell good, I like perfumes and oils so I can smell good and I like massages for relaxation. I'm not a dreamer though. I'm very practical and logical. I wish i was more romantic but then again I kind of don' like sappiness. It makes me uncomfortable. 😢
In what way would you like to be more romantic, Sag ?
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I don't know- I love how pretty romantic things are but I don't want to put in the effort to do it lol
All the flowy fabrics, and beautiful flowers. I would appreciate a romantic guy but I wouldn't know how to be romantic back. I do practical things like fix dinner, make sure your clothes are washed.
I'm awful at thinking up surprises. I plan ahead a lot and need stuff in order. I like flowers in a table setting not in my bath lol. I suck at romance!! It's weird that I'm very sexual but not romantic.
Posted by Ssuperman
I'm very romanticIn what way S?
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Flowers, dates, candles, massages, spa trips, vacations and more
Posted by Ssuperman
I'm very romanticIn what way S?
Flowers, dates, candles, massages, spa trips, vacations and more
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@Ssuperman .... Awww, that is good to hear. My dad had a Sag moon too with an fiery sun. Seems you romantic type guys are a dying breed
Too easy. I LOVE candles, light dimmed lights if my candle is not on, sexy teddy, calling my SO "Babe, Hon, Baby, or Baby cakes", dressing sexy for my man, perfume, flawless make up, make sure my hair smells nice, hand holding, taking a shower together, little notes here and there (and/or text), kissing him on the cheek "just because", and/or running up to him when he gets home asking, "How was your day?" 😘
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
To me a powerful romance is one of understanding—to be able to look at, to be together and feel that everything is alright in your world. It begins and persists by the desire for the other person to live...and the joy it brings to know that it is you who would see to it.
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So i am Venus dominant / Sun-Neptune conjunct in the 7th and very romantic 😛
My life whether in a relationship or single is romantic...i listen to romantic music, surround myself with flowers, wear feminine clothes, use essential oils for perfume and to burn around the house. I have soft fabrics in each room.....velvet, satin, fur (not real) and candles burning most of the time. I listen to beautiful music every day, i dance and sing most days
All the relationships i was in brought me romance, even though the guys, at first, weren't, they ended up writing songs, poetry, bought me flowers, perfume etc and fell deeply into me.......i think it must have rubbed off on them .....
So, tell me both ladies and gents, how romantic how are you and how much romance have you received in your life so far ?
Don't be shy now 😘
*~* ✨ *~*
Beautiful ~