just a question...

what does it mean when a guy kicks you out of his home so that he can masterbate?

what the heck—? you mean kick a girl out?? why doesn he ask her to help him —?

so i guess he doesn't need a woman in his life then, right?

LOL...you need to give him some, so he wont have to.

ummm...i don't have sex on the second date, sorry

but i guess you wouldn't have known that it was only the second date

If it was your 2nd date with this guy, he really showed disrespect by even telling you that you needed to leave so he could jack off. No tact in what he wanted to do...he could have at least told you he wasn't feeling well or was tired or something...total disrespect.

"guess he had to for a good reason, I think possibly you were being a tease and there for he had to take care of himself so he wouldnt go NUTS."

-that's exactly what it was!!!...

the strange thing is that he had layers of shorts on and made it difficult for me to even get to what was down there...and trust me, i tried but it was like he didn't want me to go there. and then he started telling me that he didn't want to have sex with me for a couple of months...huh—

lol

Scratches head, thinking, "now why am put on the doorstep, again? Oh, that's right, I don't put out. Uh . . . dah . . . I don't get it. I know, I'll make myself look even dumber sharing it with my friends."

I don't know moonchild, what do you think? Huh?

I just wonder if men sit back, scratching their heads for being kicked out of the house for not holding their girl when they are crying and then asking the world, "She was only crying and I wouldn't hold her. I don't know why she put me out . . . do you?"

lol, lol, lol, lol, people are so ignoramous sometimes.

I come on this board, just to get a laugh.

Message posted by: moonchild8 on 7/23/2006 9:48:10 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.202
ummm...i don't have sex on the second date, sorry

Message posted by: moonchild8 on 7/24/2006 10:32:13 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.132
"guess he had to for a good reason, I think possibly you were being a tease and there for he had to take care of himself so he wouldnt go NUTS."

-that's exactly what it was!!!...

Just play him, do everything possible to bring him so that he's aching and turning blue . . . but, that's ok cause you can come on here and make it sound like he just put you out on the doorstep unjustifiably. But, that's ok too, because in here, people are just as stupid as you, so they will support this and tell you it's ok and help you put the blame on him. Then, you can feel better and . . . other people will feel better because they will falsely believe that they've aided someone in distress.

This is the reason why real adult women in this world never "tell" when they get raped because they know that people will just believe that she teased him. People would believe that it's her fault for playing him . . . women suffer daily from this kind of behaviour in little immature girls.

p-angel...i don't really understand what you are saying. please explain...

Your ip address changed three times on this thread.

Another identity of this commuities little selfish, Aries girl?

Ladies who responded here, when I said "people", I didn't mean anyone specifically.

I only meant the ones, who would support her in teasing a man like this.

i am sorry if i don't have sex with a guy after the second date...that does not make me a bad person. my address has not changed on this thread...i don't know what you are talking about. and you really have no right to call me stupid for what i did when you don't even know me.

the strange thing is that he had layers of shorts on and made it difficult for me to even get to what was down there...and trust me, i tried but it was like he didn't want me to go there.

You're not a bad person, but if you tried to get what "down there", and yet he turned you away, it seems to me that he had other reasons for you not to stay...maybe you were too forward for him and it turned him off?

Message posted by: moonchild8 on 7/24/2006 11:14:50 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.132

and you really have no right to call me stupid for what i did when you don't even know me.

Awwwww, poor baby, it's hard being the victim . . . I know.

Oh . . but, wait . . . you said, "for what I did". Not, what HE did. So, you know what YOU did?

lol, you just keep getting dumber . . . post again.

no aqua...i felt it a few times...it is not a peanut!
if i could feel it through 3 layers of shorts, it must not be that bad.

I don't know then, it's something...definetly strange behavior. Maybe he just want to take it slowly and have something special.

-i think that is what it is...considering he told me that he did not want to have sex with me for a while and that he wanted to get to know me for who i am.

how long have you known him? besides having gone out with him only twice, have you known him longer than a few days leading up to the first date?

"what does it mean when a guy kicks you out of his home so that he can masterbate?"

Nothing! it means nothing!
I can't believe that you're even asking this question. He wanted sex as any healthy male, you teased him but was determined not to give in on the second date as you admitted...and he sent you away to masturbate/or call some ex for a booty call to relieve him. He didn't send you away because he respects or loves you so much and is thinking of making you the woman of his dream! Gosh, talk about overanalyzing and as P-Angel wrote: not wanting to take responsibility for your actions! I mean, he probably would respect you more if you had just slept with him on a second date instead of playing silly games like that. That's immature...

houston...yes i have known him for a little over a year now. we used to work together and we became friends over that year.

and maybe that is why it is not easy for me to just sleep with him right away b/c we have been good friends for a while and we know each other's past history, etc.

and i am not trying to play games with him...he is the one that told me that HE didn't want to have sex yet. it's not like i was depriving him of what he needed at that moment.

did you come out and tell him you weren't going to have sex with him and then proceeded to grab at him to feel him up? i think you pissed him off, but i doubt i know what i'm talking about...

yes, i did tease him ok. and maybe i am the one at fault for leading him on. and he has had a major crush on me for a year now, so the fact that i am laying half naked in his bed next to him is prob enough to drive him wild. but it's not like i ripped my clothes off and dry humped him. he is the one that initiated everything and then told me that he wants to wait a couple of months to have sex with me.

Did he say he wanted to wait a couple months to have sex with you before or after you grabbed him?

Also, he's known you for a little over a year now and he's had a major crush on you....something doesn't add up that he just threw the "let's wait" speech out there.

Another identity

How many are there? If you pay attention to her me, me, me, ain't I desirable tone she puts on all the posts . . . you can see who it really is. There's no hiding conciet.

houston...why doesn't it make sense. if he wants a relationship with me, so why would he want to have sex so soon—

and he told me that after i grabbed him...

you came on too strong, but then teased him by touching him and saying you weren't going to have sex with him. that pissed him off, confused him...so he told you go home. the chase should be his (in his mind).

well he knows my entire situation that i had with the aqua boy. so i think he is holding out b/c he knows i am still emotional from it. i think he is just being cautious and doesn't want to hurt me knowing that my aqua had hurt me pretty badly.

Message posted by: aguaaqi on 7/24/2006 1:13:30 PM
who? moonchild?

moonchild really is moonchild...i've known her for a while now and have spoken with her privately quite a few times. she has that aqua asshole ex. she's cool.

Word! I'll back off, then.

he really showed disrespect by even telling you that you needed to leave so he could jack off.

LOL had he been an aqua guy he would have asked u to help him 😛... i have this nice aqua friend (just a friend..nothing more) anyways one day i was at his place and we were watchin this flick.. anyways he asked me if i was his friend?? ofcourse i am i said... and he was like ' friends are always there for each ohter..right?? and i was like ' yaaa they are'.. he was like ' can u help me'... i was like sure... go ahead i'll do anything for ya... and he was like 'im hard and horny right now'.... jeeeez i was like 'ummmmmmmmm... i m afraid i cant help u'... i mean i didnt have feelings for this guy and it was a turn off....but he understood and we r still friends 🙂

yup, sounds like an Aqua Man.

If he's had a crush on you for over a year then we're talking a lot of pent up tension and desire. That's a long time to wait for a gal. He may think you didn't take him seriously and need a release.

catfish...that's what i am saying. i didn't tease him necessarily, just the idea of me laying next to him and kissing him gets him all worked up and frustrated...b/c he has wanted me for soooo long.

May be he couldn't hold the erection as long as he wanted to or worried about climaxing too soon. Or, just couldn't get off fast enough with you there. How old is he?

he is 31 years old

You not right Great Bull. You got me LMAO.