Meeting New Ppl While in a Relationship...?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by tauruschic on Wednesday, May 3, 2006 and has 42 replies.

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@tauruschic
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What do you guys think of this?

You aren't married, are you closed off completely to meeting other people?

Your thoughts on:

1-Giving out your number

2-Keeping in contact with a potential...

3-Flirting

4-Going out on (one) date

5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...?

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@purrrfect
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My answeres are based on what I would do....

1-Giving out your number- I WILL get jealous if he gives his number out and I happen to sense her intentions aren't pure. Which is always. Only his mom and gramma can call him (or sisters). 🙂 I don't give my # out because I am purrrfect (joke)

2-Keeping in contact with a potential...- The "potential" needs to disappear. If we are saying we "love" each other there is no sense in keeping this person around.

3-Flirting- Depends on what kind. Some people are just naturally flirtatious and it means no harm. I draw the line at exchanging numbers.

4-Going out on (one) date- I wouldn't and if I found out he did I'd probably leave.

5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...? Never.

Yeah, I'm a tad possessive.

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@moonbaby
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Any of them would piss me off. Although, that makes me somewhat of a hypocrite with regards to the flirting. I believe that at times, I come off as too friendly at which point some might mistake that for flirting. But, never with the intention of neing sneaky, etc. Anyway, I'm with you, Purrr, on all the rest!

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@Elliot of the High Scorpios
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1-Giving out your number - I would do it, I don't completely close myself off to other people, that wouldnt be healthy

2-Keeping in contact with a potential... - Since i'm a venus in saggie, i might just be enticed to do that, but i would only ever do it if i had plans to break off the current relationship sometime in the near future.

3-Flirting - It wouldn't be obvious, outright flirting, but if I can ever use any sort of power and leverage i have over the anyone to force something, then i do. (i'd rather not call it manipulation, thanks)

4-Going out on (one) date - I'd go out on a date with a 'potential' AND my current lady at the same time, I'd just tell my gal that the other one was a friend who didn't mean anything to me, and then it's like survival of the fittest between the 2 of them. Any traits that one girly has, that I clearly admire, the other one would, naturally, want to try and replicate somehow.

Lol it sounds evil, but it's only natural. It's that whole Scorpio/Capricorn sort of truth that reigns strongly - competition increases productivity, simple as that. Would I like to have the same thing done to me?? I would hate it, but only because I hated it would I have energy to overcome it. You know, keeping my wit about me and such. Plus, I'm turned ON by situations where other guys want what or WHO I've got lol. (Hahaha but even with that explanation it still looks completely evil.) Plus, IF it ever became increasingly obvious that the potential lady was better for me than my current lady, I wouldn't even have to say anything to my current lady for her to accept the truth. (Because I'd rather not complain, I'd rather just show and that's that.)

5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...? Never! If there was a potential girl following me I would always tell her the truth. I'm not the kind to warn people away just for the sake of it, though. If she was interested, then she could hang around us. Like I said I don't like to complain or roar, I just show. I never used to be able to understand why people would even bother to be in a relationship if they didn't like to admit it - it's just never been my way of going about it.

So that's my novel.

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@cappysweetie
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Well, fromt the replies I'm assuming that you an open relationship. Well, once I'm with a man and with him and only him. I have way too much going on in my life to be going out with more than one guy at a time ... it's too much work 😉

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@softy
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I wouldn't do any of it,,besides maybe LIGHT flirting...But I'm like Cappy Sweety,,,if I'm with someone, they are the only thing I will need and desire..and if it isn't that way, then we wouldn't be together

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@Elliot of the High Scorpios
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Definitely we do. Oh btw all my answers are assuming that I'm in a relationship that I'm not 'serious' about. I've never been anything less than truthful in my passion, and I think I'm type who can take be alone and stay alone. I don't want to come across like I'm going around playing tricks lol.

Do you put yourself out to be found, or do you kind of expect to be uncovered?

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@schoenetanz
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I never answered this one...

You aren't married, are you closed off completely to meeting other people?

Your thoughts on:

I never answered this one...

1-Giving out your number

2-Keeping in contact with a potential...

3-Flirting

4-Going out on (one) date

5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...?

I'm okay with that 🙂

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@Elliot of the High Scorpios
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Hmm note to self, revamp what people may or may not think of me at dxp boards. No, I know that Scorps and Caps together are of classic caliber. I could go one for a long time about it, but won't - it's been a while though, I will soon enough.

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@Elliot of the High Scorpios
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Oh and you took that as my whole view on Capricorns huh? Lol, well a lot of Capricorns are experts at being boring! The Goat is an Earth sign, so it comes easily haha. But once a Cap opens up they're just great to be with. They brood a lot like Scorpios, but rationality tends to be the shield for everything, which is not Scorpio-like.

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@Scorpius
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well, I have to wait a little while but...I'm going to get a job as a landscaper, maybe get some expiriance. After I save up just a little more cash, I think I will open up my own landscaping business. After all that is done I want to start buying houses and renting them out to people. By this time I should be close to rich. Then I will open up a restaurant and there is where the BIG bucks come in. Soon I will start buying out other businesses and in just a few years after I can retire a very happy man and then go buy a sail boat and travel the waters....

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@Elliot of the High Scorpios
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Good deal.

What I saw was hustle, hustle, hustle, hustle, ...very happy man and then go buy a sail boat and travel the waters....

That last part will be very nice for you, so hustle on Scorpius! I saw you talking about it beforehand, it will be good.

I've got to go so I can be doing the same for 2morra. Take care.

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1-Giving out your number - NO

2-Keeping in contact with a potential - NO

3-Flirting - Well I am a scorp, can't help myself...

4-Going out on (one) date - nope

5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...? - unforgivable!

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@JuiCy*
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1-Giving out your number - unless you wan't your male counter part removed, i suggest not.Lol
2-Keeping in contact with a potential - ehhh whatevers..

3-Flirting - considering, it's like a form of breathing to me, wouldn't bother me as long as it was harmless

4-Going out on (one) date - NO!

5-Denying the fact that you are in a relationship...? - never.

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@sweet&sour
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"I start off connecting intellectually before I do emotionally. Once I see someone playing mind games well , I don't think twice, I just turn cold. And let the person know it isn't happening between us eventually."

SB

Funny but that happens to me too.

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@missmorals
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Nah I haven't got a thing against them but daemn..the ones I have met..soooooo two faced so yeah guess i am biased....shame that..cos they are sociable creatures..out to have a larf!..