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Clean Sheet-ology: Sexing Scorpio Up
by Nola Summers
(11/05/03)

Scorpio: Sex is empowering: good sex, all powerful to the Scorpion. It's a way of life. There is no such thing as "I don't feel like it." Only variations of "I don't feel like it right now, with you."

Scorpio, often misunderstood, has shouldered much bad press. The biggest misconception here is that the Scorpion is promiscuous -- flitting about from post to portal. Not so. Being in touch with your own needs and not being afraid of them is a plus -- and good for you for helping lusty Scorpio on their road to fulfillment. There's just one thing; if you think you were the initiator -- think again -- more likely the initiated, the chosen, the decided upon -- however you want to dress it up, you were still the one undressed. You may have floated through Scorpio's line of vision 10 minutes or 10 days ago, but be assured that you have been thoroughly fucked already. Remember that over-heated feeling you experienced when you found yourself caught in their "see right through you stare"? Got you, now they're going to have you.

The public face of a Scorpio relationship rarely reflects the private goings on. That seemingly subservient Scorpio female might just be packing the perfect little strap-on under that sexy dress. She will either fascinate or frighten the people she comes across as she metes out her looks of destruction or desire. Often dominating, emotionally demanding, and possessive, once possessed, her chosen partners want nothing more than to be owned -- completely.

The Scorpio male is totally masculine, even while being ridden. If you are applying strokes to his pliant ass, stop to wonder if it's submission on his part or a subversive nurturing of your dominance fueled by the simmering danger that lies just below his surface. He will, in a carefully planned way, bring out the most sensual in any partner.

Scorpio's erogenous zone is the genitals. Scorpio's underpants could be described as always at a slow burn (if they've even got them on) but the breath that ignites that flame resides squarely up top in that quietly dark deep mind.

Want to catch or keep this mysterious being? Don't fake it -- they'll know. Don't pretend to listen -- they'll know. Life is sex...repeat after me...sex is life, life is sex.

Scorpio-Aries

There is a hot immediate attraction here. Aries' willingness to experiment fits nicely with Scorpio's "whatever works is good" attitude. Scorpio will even buy Aries his own high-heels and lacy underpants so hers don't get stretched out. Aries can come first, and sometimes be the only one coming, but making a habit of that will soon leave Aries coming alone.

Scorpio-Taurus

Strong like a bull -- let's go again. Now what? Okay, let's go again. Taurus has the stamina to keep up, but who owns who here? Okay, let's go again. Taurus, pay complete attention...or you're not going again.

Scorpio-Gemini

Gemini, that old split-personality, is enthused by the Scorpion's obvious insatiability, but driven to distraction with the thought that someone else might be in the driver's seat when he's not there. Scorpio is confused by this as Gemini appears totally committed one day and oblivious the next. There's no denying the outright lust, but seatbelts and crash helmets may be needed to stay the course. Nothing breaks up a long journey like a good hard fuck on the side of the road though -- especially when you know there's a comfy warm bed waiting for you both when you do eventually get there.

Scorpio-Cancer

A little possessiveness goes a long way -- a bit like a leash and collar you can wear to the grocery store. Scorpio happily interprets Cancer's jealousy as love, and welcomes the accompanying passivity as a cozy fit to that undeniable need to control.

Scorpio-Leo

The physical attraction here is huge

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