Men or Women

Who loves more in a relationship? Who gets hurt worse when that relationship ends?

I read this on a different message board yesterday, just curious about every ones opinions on this.

My opinion...... Men. I have known many, many men who seemed to loose the ability to function after a relationship ended, my father was one.
In my personal life, I think I've always loved more at the beginning & it slowly dwindled because my needs were not being met, so that by the time the relationship ended I was already emotionally checked out. I think men love just as much if not more but it takes them longer to get there & when they do they don't express it, at least not in a way that a woman understands.

This is a quote from a male respondent from that message board when answering this question:

"I have dated some downright gorgeous beautiful women this year alone and some very very smart, intelligent sophisticated true women, but, that will never happen that deep again...ever."

"One thing I think women fail to understand or realize with us men.

We only have a limited supply and once it is gone it is done. I don't miss it and I am much happier without it thank you. lol. Women need that emotion to be happy, not men."

This is REALLLLY sad to me 😢

Really sad to me too,


and I dont believe it to be the end of love in his life.

He is not over the ending of his love. I believe whomever ends the relationship has fallen out of love and most times, the one left with love unanswered is more broken hearted and takes longer to get over the break up than the one who broke it off. Thus leaving one w/out closure they may never get.

thats terrible....I thought woman loved harder until I met my boyfriend