My ex Husband New Gf stalk me on instagram

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My ex decided to divorce me on end of April. And dated another girl which leave 2 hours from us on early May.

He has blocked me on his fb and whatsapp so that I didn't found out about his new fling. But I found out anyway. And i messaged her about us on August. I was pregnant and I told her to leave him. But she refused and didn't want to throw the relationship.

I gave birth on October and move back to my parents house. And she started to stalk my instagram. She accidentally click on like button and cancel it back. Before this she put her instagram on private, but make it open after I gave birth and start posting their pictures together and started to make me jealous. And when I told my ex I didn't appreciate her stalking her instagram. She tried to do fake account. I know it was her because the way she type info on her new ig profile.

Now my ex like one of my picture and want to be friend with me on ig. I don't know what's going on. I really want to move on as he left me when I was pregnant. I was so depressed and I just couldnt care less for him anymore.
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.

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Posted by HippieGem
Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
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I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.

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I found out I was pregnant on early march. He wanted this baby so much. We have another 2. Then he decided to divorce me when I was so emotional during pregnancy. Maybe coz of the hormones. He start dating her early may.

I can't forgive at all. He wasn't there during my labor process. And he left me on the street at night because I was crying in his car. I walk back home at 2 am in the morning. I will never ever forgive for everything he did for me.

But I just couldn't figure out why his new gf is so interested in my life. My friend said she was trying to be me because I was more pretty than her. They all believe she is a rebound chick. That's why she felt so insecure and all. Is it a normal thing to do, to spy on your bf's ex wife?
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.


I found out I was pregnant on early march. He wanted this baby so much. We have another 2. Then he decided to divorce me when I was so emotional during pregnancy. Maybe coz of the hormones. He start dating her early may.

I can't forgive at all. He wasn't there during my labor process. And he left me on the street at night because I was crying in his car. I walk back home at 2 am in the morning. I will never ever forgive for everything he did for me.

But I just couldn't figure out why his new gf is so interested in my life. My friend said she was trying to be me because I was more pretty than her. They all believe she is a rebound chick. That's why she felt so insecure and all. Is it a normal thing to do, to spy on your bf's ex wife?
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Normal? I don’t know. There really is no normal anymore. It just matters what you feel deep down. You wouldn’t be here saying all these things and opening up to strangers of you felt like everything was good in your relationship. if you really wanted a future with him, you wouldn’t have made this thread.

You know most people here are realists, some crazy, some just funny, but I see the realists first and foremost here. It’s a lively mix of spiritual and realism. And crazy in between.

Would you be telling your story to people who won’t sugarcoat the situation advise to leave this relationship, move on and look back. But don’t ever regret it? I say that because we always look back. Everything is important, it’s a learning experience. The happiness, pain, we all learn from it.

I feel for you. I can relate to your life and unfortunately I’m usually beat at giving advice to women in bad situations because I’ve been in one. Yet, I don’t regret it anymore.

I’m going to make coffee in about an hit. Sleep isn’t happening tonight. If you ever need to talk or vent, pm box is open. Take care of you and your kids. I know it’s hard. But you are important. Don’t forget it.

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She's probably insecure about her new predicament, with this new man she's got, who leaft his wife and three kids to be with her. Not a very secure feeling I'd imagine especially if you 21.


She told me herself that she will never let him go. He was the one for her. And she said she has waited a long time for him to come.

I guess my ex really know how to make her feels special
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.


I found out I was pregnant on early march. He wanted this baby so much. We have another 2. Then he decided to divorce me when I was so emotional during pregnancy. Maybe coz of the hormones. He start dating her early may.

I can't forgive at all. He wasn't there during my labor process. And he left me on the street at night because I was crying in his car. I walk back home at 2 am in the morning. I will never ever forgive for everything he did for me.

But I just couldn't figure out why his new gf is so interested in my life. My friend said she was trying to be me because I was more pretty than her. They all believe she is a rebound chick. That's why she felt so insecure and all. Is it a normal thing to do, to spy on your bf's ex wife?
Normal? I don’t know. There really is no normal anymore. It just matters what you feel deep down. You wouldn’t be here saying all these things and opening up to strangers of you felt like everything was good in your relationship. if you really wanted a future with him, you wouldn’t have made this thread.

You know most people here are realists, some crazy, some just funny, but I see the realists first and foremost here. It’s a lively mix of spiritual and realism. And crazy in between.

Would you be telling your story to people who won’t sugarcoat the situation advise to leave this relationship, move on and look back. But don’t ever regret it? I say that because we always look back. Everything is important, it’s a learning experience. The happiness, pain, we all learn from it.

I feel for you. I can relate to your life and unfortunately I’m usually beat at giving advice to women in bad situations because I’ve been in one. Yet, I don’t regret it anymore.

I’m going to make coffee in about an hit. Sleep isn’t happening tonight. If you ever need to talk or vent, pm box is open. Take care of you and your kids. I know it’s hard. But you are important. Don’t forget it.

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Thank you so much. I think I will never take him back if he returned back.

He didn't have any idea how was my life during pregnancy. He left me every weekend in our home just to go to see her. And every time I was bleeding and need to go to the hospital. He blocked my call and I have to call his gf to inform him I was on the hospital bed.

I have to give birth at 37 weeks because he threaten to take away my other two kids and because of that my blood pressure spiked to 180. I had to be induced and when I gave birth he wasn't there. I cried everytime in the toilet when I see other people husband come to visit their wife but no one came and visited me during visiting hour.

After I gave birth, I couldn't walk for 25 days. I can't even lift my legs. He didn't ask about my health conditions and didn't even bother to call to ask for our kids.

That is so painful. Doctor said I have a heart condition because I felt so depressed. Thank you for listening to my problem. I don't have anybody to open up to except for my best friend. Even my parents didn't know the whole story because I don't want to be blamed for choosing him as my husband.

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maybe she wants to be friends?

but srsly

post a cute selfie to annoy her


I don't think she wants to be friends as I scold her for taking away my husband
i'm just kidding but.. don't you think it's best that you take care of yourself and your child alone?

your ex sounds like an asshole

and his new gf sounds like a nosy bitch
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Currently I'm living alone with my kids at my parents house. He only gave me 50 dollars when I asked for some money. He was such a jerk.
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The thing is.... you were together for 9 years, and you both are 27/28...

too much drama

I dont believe everything was so rosy in your relationship..... you have to take some responsibility for your actions.... 3 children with somebody, who gave you just 50 dollars and is not interested in his children? suddenly? please....

I am very sorry to say, but you sound delusional, and we hear only your side of story

PS. I am very sorry that you are in this situation, but you yourself contributed to this.... its not only about the new girlfriend

I hope you are capable to take care of your children
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Yeah and good things your still young girl. Honestly your feeding into the drama because since that girl is so interested I would've been beat her ass.

What else do you got to lose?

I would kick her ass because she already took ya man and he filed for divorce so he's a idiot for abandoning his family.

At least you have your parents to fall back on.

Your not even 30 yet so you have a lot to look forward to. Stop feeding into that chick and her social media mess if your not going to do anything serious about it.

Karma got something real good for the both of them. And it may hurt your feelings to see how karma does them both.
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.


I found out I was pregnant on early march. He wanted this baby so much. We have another 2. Then he decided to divorce me when I was so emotional during pregnancy. Maybe coz of the hormones. He start dating her early may.

I can't forgive at all. He wasn't there during my labor process. And he left me on the street at night because I was crying in his car. I walk back home at 2 am in the morning. I will never ever forgive for everything he did for me.

But I just couldn't figure out why his new gf is so interested in my life. My friend said she was trying to be me because I was more pretty than her. They all believe she is a rebound chick. That's why she felt so insecure and all. Is it a normal thing to do, to spy on your bf's ex wife?
Normal? I don’t know. There really is no normal anymore. It just matters what you feel deep down. You wouldn’t be here saying all these things and opening up to strangers of you felt like everything was good in your relationship. if you really wanted a future with him, you wouldn’t have made this thread.

You know most people here are realists, some crazy, some just funny, but I see the realists first and foremost here. It’s a lively mix of spiritual and realism. And crazy in between.

Would you be telling your story to people who won’t sugarcoat the situation advise to leave this relationship, move on and look back. But don’t ever regret it? I say that because we always look back. Everything is important, it’s a learning experience. The happiness, pain, we all learn from it.

I feel for you. I can relate to your life and unfortunately I’m usually beat at giving advice to women in bad situations because I’ve been in one. Yet, I don’t regret it anymore.

I’m going to make coffee in about an hit. Sleep isn’t happening tonight. If you ever need to talk or vent, pm box is open. Take care of you and your kids. I know it’s hard. But you are important. Don’t forget it.


Thank you so much. I think I will never take him back if he returned back.

He didn't have any idea how was my life during pregnancy. He left me every weekend in our home just to go to see her. And every time I was bleeding and need to go to the hospital. He blocked my call and I have to call his gf to inform him I was on the hospital bed.

I have to give birth at 37 weeks because he threaten to take away my other two kids and because of that my blood pressure spiked to 180. I had to be induced and when I gave birth he wasn't there. I cried everytime in the toilet when I see other people husband come to visit their wife but no one came and visited me during visiting hour.

After I gave birth, I couldn't walk for 25 days. I can't even lift my legs. He didn't ask about my health conditions and didn't even bother to call to ask for our kids.

That is so painful. Doctor said I have a heart condition because I felt so depressed. Thank you for listening to my problem. I don't have anybody to open up to except for my best friend. Even my parents didn't know the whole story because I don't want to be blamed for choosing him as my husband.

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damn I just shed a tear with my emotional self this crap is so cold it just hurt my feelings I am so sorry this happened to you.
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Posted by miriyahhh
Yeah and good things your still young girl. Honestly your feeding into the drama because since that girl is so interested I would've been beat her ass.

What else do you got to lose?

I would kick her ass because she already took ya man and he filed for divorce so he's a idiot for abandoning his family.

At least you have your parents to fall back on.

Your not even 30 yet so you have a lot to look forward to. Stop feeding into that chick and her social media mess if your not going to do anything serious about it.

Karma got something real good for the both of them. And it may hurt your feelings to see how karma does them both.


Well, i think karma started to pay well. Just found out that his father is sick and lying in the hospital bed. His car started to broke down and his colleague started to avoid him at work because they felt he was a bastard for leaving a pregnant wife and 2 other kids.

I was blessed to have my parents. I don't have a driving license, a car or a house. I was too dependent on him. I guess I will have to build my life slowly after this.
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.


I found out I was pregnant on early march. He wanted this baby so much. We have another 2. Then he decided to divorce me when I was so emotional during pregnancy. Maybe coz of the hormones. He start dating her early may.

I can't forgive at all. He wasn't there during my labor process. And he left me on the street at night because I was crying in his car. I walk back home at 2 am in the morning. I will never ever forgive for everything he did for me.

But I just couldn't figure out why his new gf is so interested in my life. My friend said she was trying to be me because I was more pretty than her. They all believe she is a rebound chick. That's why she felt so insecure and all. Is it a normal thing to do, to spy on your bf's ex wife?
Normal? I don’t know. There really is no normal anymore. It just matters what you feel deep down. You wouldn’t be here saying all these things and opening up to strangers of you felt like everything was good in your relationship. if you really wanted a future with him, you wouldn’t have made this thread.

You know most people here are realists, some crazy, some just funny, but I see the realists first and foremost here. It’s a lively mix of spiritual and realism. And crazy in between.

Would you be telling your story to people who won’t sugarcoat the situation advise to leave this relationship, move on and look back. But don’t ever regret it? I say that because we always look back. Everything is important, it’s a learning experience. The happiness, pain, we all learn from it.

I feel for you. I can relate to your life and unfortunately I’m usually beat at giving advice to women in bad situations because I’ve been in one. Yet, I don’t regret it anymore.

I’m going to make coffee in about an hit. Sleep isn’t happening tonight. If you ever need to talk or vent, pm box is open. Take care of you and your kids. I know it’s hard. But you are important. Don’t forget it.


Thank you so much. I think I will never take him back if he returned back.

He didn't have any idea how was my life during pregnancy. He left me every weekend in our home just to go to see her. And every time I was bleeding and need to go to the hospital. He blocked my call and I have to call his gf to inform him I was on the hospital bed.

I have to give birth at 37 weeks because he threaten to take away my other two kids and because of that my blood pressure spiked to 180. I had to be induced and when I gave birth he wasn't there. I cried everytime in the toilet when I see other people husband come to visit their wife but no one came and visited me during visiting hour.

After I gave birth, I couldn't walk for 25 days. I can't even lift my legs. He didn't ask about my health conditions and didn't even bother to call to ask for our kids.

That is so painful. Doctor said I have a heart condition because I felt so depressed. Thank you for listening to my problem. I don't have anybody to open up to except for my best friend. Even my parents didn't know the whole story because I don't want to be blamed for choosing him as my husband.



You have been through a lot and things that happened to you are horrible. I truly hope you never forgive that guy and get back with him cause he doesn't deserve forgiveness. The way he acted in such situation really shows how bad person he is. It's already started happening, things falling apart between them like everyone told you in your previous thread. It can't last cause it started on another person's pain and they just deserved it. Best you can do is completely remove such toxic person from your life and be a bigger person than he could ever be. Be good to your kids and take care of yourself. You'll find a good loving and caring man when the time is right
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I'm trying hard to avoid him, it's lucky that he never bother to call his children. So I don't have to hear his voice or see his face for the time being.
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Posted by Pandora101
The thing is.... you were together for 9 years, and you both are 27/28...

too much drama

I dont believe everything was so rosy in your relationship..... you have to take some responsibility for your actions.... 3 children with somebody, who gave you just 50 dollars and is not interested in his children? suddenly? please....

I am very sorry to say, but you sound delusional, and we hear only your side of story

PS. I am very sorry that you are in this situation, but you yourself contributed to this.... its not only about the new girlfriend

I hope you are capable to take care of your children
During my early pregnancy, he is having a financial constraints. He needs to pay some loan because he always late in paying it. And he went out for training and came back every 2 am at night.

I told him not to go because I was tired with the pregnancy and couldn't handle our 2 other kids. They were 3 and 2 years old.

That's when everything started to fall apart. On my birthday, he didn't wish me on every morning like usual year. When I asked him, he said that he wanted to be the last one to wish Happy birthday. But I'm am an aries. Loved one should Never forget my birthday. I xonsider this day as a Happiest day in my life.

On my birthday, i found out he has been texting his old fling. Maybe that is the start of him to thinking to end our relationship. I heard cap put one foot out of the door If they are ready to end the relationship.
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Her jealousy is her problem. Think about your baby. You sound like you’re stalking her back though. Just started ignore her excistence. What is the point in making other women upset? She want who who had a child with. Move on from this nonsense. It will be good for you.

I left my ex husband and his girlfriend hated me. A lot. I didn’t call him unless I had to, but just my presence was too much. And she’s so gorgeous and perfect. Or so I heard. Met her once and she couldn’t even handle saying hello to me. Lol. It was actually funny. I asked the ex if he’d introduce me and he was all awkward, and she couldn’t even look at me. And I just said, hi. It’s nice to meet you. She said hello and couldn’t even look me in the eyes. I said something like, now that wasn’t so difficult was it? And then I walked away. This was at a baseball game. My life seems to revolve around them.

She seemed perfect for a little bit to them, maybe a month or so until my kids saw the real her and she was as crazy and manipulative as him. They’d call me whispering from the bathroom because she said they weren’t allowed to talk to me. Alright psycho, I’m there Mother. I left him. So lame.

Don’t give into that immaturity. She’ always try to aggravate me through texting and once I said I actually felt sorry for her and her attempts to get to me were pathetic, she had nothing to say.

Your ex blocking you on social media while you’re married and expecting? Please just don’t fall into his trap or hers.

Do what’s best for you and your child.


He decided to end our relationship and left me while I'm pregnant his third child. That girl is only 21 years old. She wasn't that pretty. I didn't care less about her. But looks like she was the one who are so interested in my life and my kids.
I’m sorry, that’s a horrible thing he did. Getting preganant with you, then just walking away. Well already having a girlfriend? When did he start seeing her? It’s sad when people claim to want to stay with one person forever and then can’t even try.

I hope you realize eventually you deserve better than what he put you though and it’s pretty unforgivable imo. Maybe not yours, but put yourself and those kiddos first.


I found out I was pregnant on early march. He wanted this baby so much. We have another 2. Then he decided to divorce me when I was so emotional during pregnancy. Maybe coz of the hormones. He start dating her early may.

I can't forgive at all. He wasn't there during my labor process. And he left me on the street at night because I was crying in his car. I walk back home at 2 am in the morning. I will never ever forgive for everything he did for me.

But I just couldn't figure out why his new gf is so interested in my life. My friend said she was trying to be me because I was more pretty than her. They all believe she is a rebound chick. That's why she felt so insecure and all. Is it a normal thing to do, to spy on your bf's ex wife?
Normal? I don’t know. There really is no normal anymore. It just matters what you feel deep down. You wouldn’t be here saying all these things and opening up to strangers of you felt like everything was good in your relationship. if you really wanted a future with him, you wouldn’t have made this thread.

You know most people here are realists, some crazy, some just funny, but I see the realists first and foremost here. It’s a lively mix of spiritual and realism. And crazy in between.

Would you be telling your story to people who won’t sugarcoat the situation advise to leave this relationship, move on and look back. But don’t ever regret it? I say that because we always look back. Everything is important, it’s a learning experience. The happiness, pain, we all learn from it.

I feel for you. I can relate to your life and unfortunately I’m usually beat at giving advice to women in bad situations because I’ve been in one. Yet, I don’t regret it anymore.

I’m going to make coffee in about an hit. Sleep isn’t happening tonight. If you ever need to talk or vent, pm box is open. Take care of you and your kids. I know it’s hard. But you are important. Don’t forget it.


Thank you so much. I think I will never take him back if he returned back.

He didn't have any idea how was my life during pregnancy. He left me every weekend in our home just to go to see her. And every time I was bleeding and need to go to the hospital. He blocked my call and I have to call his gf to inform him I was on the hospital bed.

I have to give birth at 37 weeks because he threaten to take away my other two kids and because of that my blood pressure spiked to 180. I had to be induced and when I gave birth he wasn't there. I cried everytime in the toilet when I see other people husband come to visit their wife but no one came and visited me during visiting hour.

After I gave birth, I couldn't walk for 25 days. I can't even lift my legs. He didn't ask about my health conditions and didn't even bother to call to ask for our kids.

That is so painful. Doctor said I have a heart condition because I felt so depressed. Thank you for listening to my problem. I don't have anybody to open up to except for my best friend. Even my parents didn't know the whole story because I don't want to be blamed for choosing him as my husband.


damn I just shed a tear with my emotional self this crap is so cold it just hurt my feelings I am so sorry this happened to you.
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Thank you So much. I have to be strong for my kids. I Hope my heart conditions is Getting better. All of them are still small.