@hellosaggy
9 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius
Seriously like wtf. Sagittarius hate 😤
Why Sagittarius May Be Perceived as Hateful
Sagittarius individuals value honesty and open communication but may be misunderstood as blunt or insensitive. Their straightforwardness can sometimes be seen as harsh, but they prioritize truth and authenticity. Understanding this can improve relationships with Sagittarians who appreciate honesty but need clear, respectful dialogue.
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Don't let them get to you bestie! Ignore people that are getting under your skin. Try not to take it personal!
You cannot fault any soul
for saying how sags made
them feel cos is not your life.
You cannot deny a person
from speaking their truths.
If many people have issue
maybe issue is you truly.
There never is honesty
nor communication he.
Just stay, play, then go.
No words or warnings.
Stop playing the martyr
Because they're dishonest and can't have open communication themselves? I've always struggled with same shit from people all my life simply because they think everyone is looking to back stab them, everyone lies, everyone is dishonest, they refuse to communicate and open up cause omg...they could get hurt! But guess what people? We get hurt too so what? Get over it and move on. We're not fools for doing that, we just like to live life to the fullest, if only everyone else could do the same, would be so much easier...
I love Sags. My mom, two best friends, my boss are Sag! Those are my ride or dies. They’re amazing friends.
I don’t disrespect anyone up here.
I tell the truth regardless of what your responses will be
I enjoy strong and confident women in my circle and I always say I’m looking for friends, I just happen to be sexually attracted to most of them.
I don’t know what I want from a long term partner, but I enjoy my friendships and if something manifest I would be more than happy to be in it. I do know when I look beyond friendship I get wrapped up in that person and it’s a huge distraction for me.
I mentor children, donate to charity, and like sex and pretty woman... oooo I’m so bad. I don’t use anybody... plus the ones that respect my position, I know they aren’t selfish and can respect what I’m trying to accomplish for myself. I would never stop them from doing what they are trying to do for themselves.
I own my life and make my decisions. I’m not just giving that up to anybody. I did the 7 years of college, I did the work travel, I am doing the business start up. The investing of time, talent, and money.
I’m the one having to make a path in the dark and make and pay for the mistakes. I’d love to have someone take some of the burden off of me and help me... its stressful. I chose a path not many walk. If I told you some of the indignities and unfair treatment I’ve endured... you wouldn’t be talking crap... and you probably would be bitter.
So because I’m not focused on settling down and having babies, the normal people have an issue with me?
How many people pursue what their desires and dreams are instead of chasing love and affection and not just pacifying their urges and staying with your dreams. How many of you marry and divorce sometimes multiple times because you were in a long term relationship with your soul mate and are now still looking.
Get over yourselves and get a different perspective sometimes...
Coddling your one sided
viewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
Posted by hellosaggy
I don’t disrespect anyone up here.I tell the truth regardless of what your responses will be
I enjoy strong and confident women in my circle and I always say I’m looking for friends, I just happen to be sexually attracted to most of them.
I don’t know what I want from a long term partner, but I enjoy my friendships and if something manifest I would be more than happy to be in it. I do know when I look beyond friendship I get wrapped up in that person and it’s a huge distraction for me.
I mentor children, donate to charity, and like sex and pretty woman... oooo I’m so bad. I don’t use anybody... plus the ones that respect my position, I know they aren’t selfish and can respect what I’m trying to accomplish for myself. I would never stop them from doing what they are trying to do for themselves.
I own my life and make my decisions. I’m not just giving that up to anybody. I did the 7 years of college, I did the work travel, I am doing the business start up. The investing of time, talent, and money.
I’m the one having to make a path in the dark and make and pay for the mistakes. I’d love to have someone take some of the burden off of me and help me... its stressful. I chose a path not many walk. If I told you some of the indignities and unfair treatment I’ve endured... you wouldn’t be talking crap... and you probably would be bitter.
So because I’m not focused on settling down and having babies, the normal people have an issue with me?
How many people pursue what their desires and dreams are instead of chasing love and affection and not just pacifying their urges and staying with your dreams. How many of you marry and divorce sometimes multiple times because you were in a long term relationship with your soul mate and are now still looking.
Get over yourselves and get a different perspective sometimes...
Get over yourself first
and stop acting as if
we all have to agree.
Posted by Malak
Because they're dishonest and can't have open communication themselves? I've always struggled with same shit from people all my life simply because they think everyone is looking to back stab them, everyone lies, everyone is dishonest, they refuse to communicate and open up cause omg...they could get hurt! But guess what people? We get hurt too so what? Get over it and move on. We're not fools for doing that, we just like to live life to the fullest, if only everyone else could do the same, would be so much easier...
Such a blind post.
Sags are incapable
of seeing that others
do live to the fullest.
But in our own ways.
Not how you feel we
should or could at all.
Look past yourself
and stop acting like
everyone is picking
on sags, is not true.
You are not saints
nor as openminded
as you think you are.
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
Not necessarily true. Just because some have bad experiences does not make it all Sags.
I stayed, I saved his life, and all I got was being walked on, and a bunch of hurt feelings that I wasn’t there no matter what he did to me. There comes a time, a Sag stands up and says enough. If you are unwilling to deal, don’t blame it on me when I walk away.
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Your truth is yours only.
My truth is mine only he.
Do not tell me what is or
is not in my own life, OK?
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
You're wrong. My ex was constantly taking out of context from everything that I say if it could be interpreted in any bad way by any chance he would take that and argue me about it. Same do some other people. But guess what? What they took out of my context as they say did not even cross my mind. Then another thing what he said would be I should be more careful of how I express myself then. How the hell am I supposed to be careful for him not to think that cause it didn't even cross my mind?! People simply can't understand a fact we're not mean and we're not being mean to them. They think such things all by themselves and then blame us just because we get shocked and confused wtf they got from what we said...
Do you know how many times someone has told me what they interpreted I said?
I’m like I wasn’t even thinking that! I don’t go around hurting people or trying to make them mad. You know I’m more of a pacifist than anything and if I upset you it’s probably a miscommunication.
It’s a main reason why I take a lot in. Because I don’t want to over react. And why I blow up because I finally have enough observations to know you just made my ish list.
That’s deep...
Posted by hellosaggy
I don’t disrespect anyone up here.I tell the truth regardless of what your responses will be
I enjoy strong and confident women in my circle and I always say I’m looking for friends, I just happen to be sexually attracted to most of them.
I don’t know what I want from a long term partner, but I enjoy my friendships and if something manifest I would be more than happy to be in it. I do know when I look beyond friendship I get wrapped up in that person and it’s a huge distraction for me.
I mentor children, donate to charity, and like sex and pretty woman... oooo I’m so bad. I don’t use anybody... plus the ones that respect my position, I know they aren’t selfish and can respect what I’m trying to accomplish for myself. I would never stop them from doing what they are trying to do for themselves.
I own my life and make my decisions. I’m not just giving that up to anybody. I did the 7 years of college, I did the work travel, I am doing the business start up. The investing of time, talent, and money.
I’m the one having to make a path in the dark and make and pay for the mistakes. I’d love to have someone take some of the burden off of me and help me... its stressful. I chose a path not many walk. If I told you some of the indignities and unfair treatment I’ve endured... you wouldn’t be talking crap... and you probably would be bitter.
So because I’m not focused on settling down and having babies, the normal people have an issue with me?
How many people pursue what their desires and dreams are instead of chasing love and affection and not just pacifying their urges and staying with your dreams. How many of you marry and divorce sometimes multiple times because you were in a long term relationship with your soul mate and are now still looking.
Get over yourselves and get a different perspective sometimes...
Get over yourself first
and stop acting as if
we all have to agree.
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Please. I never once said anybody had to agree. That’s you misreading wtf I said. I said your perspective isn’t the only one and that doesn’t make you right. I’ve never said anybody was wrong one time in any post I’ve made. Called them out of their name, or told them they were bad people. Go find a mirror.
Disagreeing is not hate.
I never name called any
nor accused all for few.
When sags talk about sags
they talk one sidedly about
only the good they think is
inside of themselves mainly.
Seldom do they admit to their
negative sides, and we know
all people have negative sides.
When anyone talks personally
sags get mad, insult, make fun
of the person's experiences, ne.
As if they themselves are being
accused of another's offences.
Why? Because they are aware
of this truth but do not want to
admit anything anyone says, ne.
Doing so takes responsibility...
not a strong point for any sag
I have known in my life at all.
Taking responsibility for the
faults and shortcomings is
not a sag strong suit, sadly.
Fault others to deal with it.
Yet when it is good and all
glorious, they are so fast to
take credit and brag about
how great they all are.
Who do you try to fooling?
Us non sags or yourselves?
Posted by hellosaggy
I don’t disrespect anyone up here.I tell the truth regardless of what your responses will be
I enjoy strong and confident women in my circle and I always say I’m looking for friends, I just happen to be sexually attracted to most of them.
I don’t know what I want from a long term partner, but I enjoy my friendships and if something manifest I would be more than happy to be in it. I do know when I look beyond friendship I get wrapped up in that person and it’s a huge distraction for me.
I mentor children, donate to charity, and like sex and pretty woman... oooo I’m so bad. I don’t use anybody... plus the ones that respect my position, I know they aren’t selfish and can respect what I’m trying to accomplish for myself. I would never stop them from doing what they are trying to do for themselves.
I own my life and make my decisions. I’m not just giving that up to anybody. I did the 7 years of college, I did the work travel, I am doing the business start up. The investing of time, talent, and money.
I’m the one having to make a path in the dark and make and pay for the mistakes. I’d love to have someone take some of the burden off of me and help me... its stressful. I chose a path not many walk. If I told you some of the indignities and unfair treatment I’ve endured... you wouldn’t be talking crap... and you probably would be bitter.
So because I’m not focused on settling down and having babies, the normal people have an issue with me?
How many people pursue what their desires and dreams are instead of chasing love and affection and not just pacifying their urges and staying with your dreams. How many of you marry and divorce sometimes multiple times because you were in a long term relationship with your soul mate and are now still looking.
Get over yourselves and get a different perspective sometimes...
Get over yourself first
and stop acting as if
we all have to agree.
Please. I never once said anybody had to agree. That’s you misreading wtf I said. I said your perspective isn’t the only one and that doesn’t make you right. I’ve never said anybody was wrong one time in any post I’ve made. Called them out of their name, or told them they were bad people. Go find a mirror.
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Take anger elsewhere.
I can only speak of my
own life experience ne.
If you do not agree, so.
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
Not necessarily true. Just because some have bad experiences does not make it all Sags.
I stayed, I saved his life, and all I got was being walked on, and a bunch of hurt feelings that I wasn’t there no matter what he did to me. There comes a time, a Sag stands up and says enough. If you are unwilling to deal, don’t blame it on me when I walk away.
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Your situation was terrible
but understand I was not
speaking of your situation.
Only mine and my own life.
Why can some not see this?
Posted by TachibanaSan
Disagreeing is not hate.I never name called any
nor accused all for few.
When sags talk about sags
they talk one sidedly about
only the good they think is
inside of themselves mainly.
Seldom do they admit to their
negative sides, and we know
all people have negative sides.
When anyone talks personally
sags get mad, insult, make fun
of the person's experiences, ne.
As if they themselves are being
accused of another's offences.
Why? Because they are aware
of this truth but do not want to
admit anything anyone says, ne.
Doing so takes responsibility...
not a strong point for any sag
I have known in my life at all.
Taking responsibility for the
faults and shortcomings is
not a sag strong suit, sadly.
Fault others to deal with it.
Yet when it is good and all
glorious, they are so fast to
take credit and brag about
how great they all are.
Who do you try to fooling?
Us non sags or yourselves?
You seriously needed to chill. This post is long af.
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Yet you read it.
And commented.
What is bad or lies
about my words ne?
Take your own advice.
Don't attempt to silence
me nor anyone else here.
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
You're wrong. My ex was constantly taking out of context from everything that I say if it could be interpreted in any bad way by any chance he would take that and argue me about it. Same do some other people. But guess what? What they took out of my context as they say did not even cross my mind. Then another thing what he said would be I should be more careful of how I express myself then. How the hell am I supposed to be careful for him not to think that cause it didn't even cross my mind?! People simply can't understand a fact we're not mean and we're not being mean to them. They think such things all by themselves and then blame us just because we get shocked and confused wtf they got from what we said...
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Far from wrong at all.
Difference is not wrong.
Difference scares you
because it forces you
too not be superficial.
Do you know how many times someone has told me what they interpreted I said?
I’m like I wasn’t even thinking that! I don’t go around hurting people or trying to make them mad. You know I’m more of a pacifist than anything and if I upset you it’s probably a miscommunication.
It’s a main reason why I take a lot in. Because I don’t want to over react. And why I blow up because I finally have enough observations to know you just made my ish list.
Exactly this...they simply HAVE to interpret things we say in what they hear...why am I responsible for what's in your mind(that natural negativity usually)? And then they accuse you for being this or that cause THEY took it so! It's actually a deep problem with people and communication, many don't understand the simple fact that the less we say to each other the more is left to imagination and that imagination may not always bring good things...I try to tell this so many times but with some people it's just worthless. I learned to keep my deepest thoughts to myself and not express them unless pushed to the wall and had enough with someone's crap...We're just positive people but many fail to notice that cause they met so many negative ones in their lives
Tell of your grand experience with so many Sagittarius individuals both male and female where YOU create this empherical evidence of our dastardly actions... *rolling eyes*
Posted by hellosaggy
I don’t disrespect anyone up here.I tell the truth regardless of what your responses will be
I enjoy strong and confident women in my circle and I always say I’m looking for friends, I just happen to be sexually attracted to most of them.
I don’t know what I want from a long term partner, but I enjoy my friendships and if something manifest I would be more than happy to be in it. I do know when I look beyond friendship I get wrapped up in that person and it’s a huge distraction for me.
I mentor children, donate to charity, and like sex and pretty woman... oooo I’m so bad. I don’t use anybody... plus the ones that respect my position, I know they aren’t selfish and can respect what I’m trying to accomplish for myself. I would never stop them from doing what they are trying to do for themselves.
I own my life and make my decisions. I’m not just giving that up to anybody. I did the 7 years of college, I did the work travel, I am doing the business start up. The investing of time, talent, and money.
I’m the one having to make a path in the dark and make and pay for the mistakes. I’d love to have someone take some of the burden off of me and help me... its stressful. I chose a path not many walk. If I told you some of the indignities and unfair treatment I’ve endured... you wouldn’t be talking crap... and you probably would be bitter.
So because I’m not focused on settling down and having babies, the normal people have an issue with me?
How many people pursue what their desires and dreams are instead of chasing love and affection and not just pacifying their urges and staying with your dreams. How many of you marry and divorce sometimes multiple times because you were in a long term relationship with your soul mate and are now still looking.
Get over yourselves and get a different perspective sometimes...
Get over yourself first
and stop acting as if
we all have to agree.
Please. I never once said anybody had to agree. That’s you misreading wtf I said. I said your perspective isn’t the only one and that doesn’t make you right. I’ve never said anybody was wrong one time in any post I’ve made. Called them out of their name, or told them they were bad people. Go find a mirror.
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Go find humility.
And some grace.
Do you know how many times someone has told me what they interpreted I said?
I’m like I wasn’t even thinking that! I don’t go around hurting people or trying to make them mad. You know I’m more of a pacifist than anything and if I upset you it’s probably a miscommunication.
It’s a main reason why I take a lot in. Because I don’t want to over react. And why I blow up because I finally have enough observations to know you just made my ish list.
Exactly this...they simply HAVE to interpret things we say in what they hear...why am I responsible for what's in your mind(that natural negativity usually)? And then they accuse you for being this or that cause THEY took it so! It's actually a deep problem with people and communication, many don't understand the simple fact that the less we say to each other the more is left to imagination and that imagination may not always bring good things...I try to tell this so many times but with some people it's just worthless. I learned to keep my deepest thoughts to myself and not express them unless pushed to the wall and had enough with someone's crap...We're just positive people but many fail to notice that cause they met so many negative ones in their lives
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Yes... then when you Overcompensate by over explaining they say you talk too much. They don’t get we hate lying and hurting people. And just because 85% of people might have negative connotations... we don’t. The truth of the matter is we as people are predisposed to thinking someone is lying. I trust you until I KNOW different and I don’t treat your communication as negative based unless I know that’s how you communicate ... it’s not hard!
Posted by hellosaggy
Tell of your grand experience with so many Sagittarius individuals both male and female where YOU create this empherical evidence of our dastardly actions... *rolling eyes*
Who is OUR?
Or was I speaking of
Sags I knew personally?
Seems you do not read
nor comprehend well too.
And now you get in feels.
Because a free forum is
my platform to speak my
opposing truth about sag
that I personally knew.
Excellent job, genius well
developed, worldly one.
Posted by hellosaggy
I don’t disrespect anyone up here.I tell the truth regardless of what your responses will be
I enjoy strong and confident women in my circle and I always say I’m looking for friends, I just happen to be sexually attracted to most of them.
I don’t know what I want from a long term partner, but I enjoy my friendships and if something manifest I would be more than happy to be in it. I do know when I look beyond friendship I get wrapped up in that person and it’s a huge distraction for me.
I mentor children, donate to charity, and like sex and pretty woman... oooo I’m so bad. I don’t use anybody... plus the ones that respect my position, I know they aren’t selfish and can respect what I’m trying to accomplish for myself. I would never stop them from doing what they are trying to do for themselves.
I own my life and make my decisions. I’m not just giving that up to anybody. I did the 7 years of college, I did the work travel, I am doing the business start up. The investing of time, talent, and money.
I’m the one having to make a path in the dark and make and pay for the mistakes. I’d love to have someone take some of the burden off of me and help me... its stressful. I chose a path not many walk. If I told you some of the indignities and unfair treatment I’ve endured... you wouldn’t be talking crap... and you probably would be bitter.
So because I’m not focused on settling down and having babies, the normal people have an issue with me?
How many people pursue what their desires and dreams are instead of chasing love and affection and not just pacifying their urges and staying with your dreams. How many of you marry and divorce sometimes multiple times because you were in a long term relationship with your soul mate and are now still looking.
Get over yourselves and get a different perspective sometimes...
Get over yourself first
and stop acting as if
we all have to agree.
Please. I never once said anybody had to agree. That’s you misreading wtf I said. I said your perspective isn’t the only one and that doesn’t make you right. I’ve never said anybody was wrong one time in any post I’ve made. Called them out of their name, or told them they were bad people. Go find a mirror.
Go find humility.
And some grace.
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And your difficult ass can find another thread... how’s that for humility and grace ☺️
Posted by TachibanaSan
Disagreeing is not hate.I never name called any
nor accused all for few.
When sags talk about sags
they talk one sidedly about
only the good they think is
inside of themselves mainly.
Seldom do they admit to their
negative sides, and we know
all people have negative sides.
When anyone talks personally
sags get mad, insult, make fun
of the person's experiences, ne.
As if they themselves are being
accused of another's offences.
Why? Because they are aware
of this truth but do not want to
admit anything anyone says, ne.
Doing so takes responsibility...
not a strong point for any sag
I have known in my life at all.
Taking responsibility for the
faults and shortcomings is
not a sag strong suit, sadly.
Fault others to deal with it.
Yet when it is good and all
glorious, they are so fast to
take credit and brag about
how great they all are.
Who do you try to fooling?
Us non sags or yourselves?
So honey you hate sag or love them
Let me know with short words please
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So honey are you here
to prove me right or be
superficial as usual?
Let me know when you
can discuss maturely.
Or else move on, child.
Posted by hellosaggy
Tell of your grand experience with so many Sagittarius individuals both male and female where YOU create this empherical evidence of our dastardly actions... *rolling eyes*Who is OUR?
Or was I speaking of
Sags I knew personally?
Seems you do not read
nor comprehend well too.
And now you get in feels.
Because a free forum is
my platform to speak my
opposing truth about sag
that I personally knew.
Excellent job, genius well
developed, worldly one.
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My higher level degrees and salary tell me I comprehend very well. I said YOUR and you specifically say sags that you personally knew...
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
You're wrong. My ex was constantly taking out of context from everything that I say if it could be interpreted in any bad way by any chance he would take that and argue me about it. Same do some other people. But guess what? What they took out of my context as they say did not even cross my mind. Then another thing what he said would be I should be more careful of how I express myself then. How the hell am I supposed to be careful for him not to think that cause it didn't even cross my mind?! People simply can't understand a fact we're not mean and we're not being mean to them. They think such things all by themselves and then blame us just because we get shocked and confused wtf they got from what we said...
Far from wrong at all.
Difference is not wrong.
Difference scares you
because it forces you
too not be superficial.
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If I could remember one example of things I mentioned I'd write it now for you to see...BUT we don't hold grudges and are quite forgiving people. On the other hand, ask my ex Virgo about same thing I'm sure he'll come up with at least 10 examples of such things simply cause he does hold grudge for like...forever.
Oh wait, there is one that he holds a grudge against me. When I said I might go as well find someone else for myself (which I ofc never did but had to make him hurt somehow too!), how on Earth could I be so mean and say such a thing to a man that cheats me with another woman?! He mentioned that I said it once for at least 20 times. Get my point now?Doesn't matter he's cheating, doesn't matter I never did but hey I said I MIGHT! I'm the bad person here :/
Aa, I would truly like to see
Who is going to move me?
Block me or erase thread
since I am so difficult ne.
I write where I please, sag.
Get out of your feelings so
you can read a sentence.
Find and quote where any
said you were the bad guy.
You take offense for other
sags and this is so stupid.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I have a questioooon 🙋🏻🙋🏻I'm close with Saggitarius and they're usually my best friends in the zodiac.
But I remember my ex-Sag always pointing out my mistakes and whatnot, being brutally honest and straight-forward
Soooo, saying I'm a sensitive Crab who is overall emotional, but when I'm being honest and criticizing about your own flaws and your stupidity, you get offended.
And I end up making him cry. Confused as fawk.
I don't understand? Wtf.
We feel dumb and ashamed and we don’t realize that things we do hurt and piss off other people. Normally because the person doesn’t communicate it. Then we feel like jackasses
Seriously if people realized if they communicated and ensured everybody understands and not just hears them, Relationships will be way better with us. We value friendships and relationships more than anything. A lot of times we are afraid to hurt someone after realizing when we are honest we hurt them and we get quiet. Then when we hurt someone it comes out of “nowhere”
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
You're wrong. My ex was constantly taking out of context from everything that I say if it could be interpreted in any bad way by any chance he would take that and argue me about it. Same do some other people. But guess what? What they took out of my context as they say did not even cross my mind. Then another thing what he said would be I should be more careful of how I express myself then. How the hell am I supposed to be careful for him not to think that cause it didn't even cross my mind?! People simply can't understand a fact we're not mean and we're not being mean to them. They think such things all by themselves and then blame us just because we get shocked and confused wtf they got from what we said...
Far from wrong at all.
Difference is not wrong.
Difference scares you
because it forces you
too not be superficial.
If I could remember one example of things I mentioned I'd write it now for you to see...BUT we don't hold grudges and are quite forgiving people. On the other hand, ask my ex Virgo about same thing I'm sure he'll come up with at least 10 examples of such things simply cause he does hold grudge for like...forever.
Oh wait, there is one that he holds a grudge against me. When I said I might go as well find someone else for myself (which I ofc never did but had to make him hurt somehow too!), how on Earth could I be so mean and say such a thing to a man that cheats me with another woman?! He mentioned that I said it once for at least 20 times. Get my point now?Doesn't matter he's cheating, doesn't matter I never did but hey I said I MIGHT! I'm the bad person here :/
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Do not lay your problem
at my feet nor project.
I spoke of my own life
and my own experience.
From sags I knew well.
That dude sounds evil. Must be his moon. I don’t shit talk about people honestly
Posted by hellosaggy
It’s the time of Sagittarius!Why can’t people appreciate honesty and open communication? People always have to feel like someone is lying to them
Sag woman I was with was the biggest liar I have ever met in my life, also the worst at it. After a while, we both actually learned to laugh about it. As time went on, she came clean on so much. But it was shocking the degree to which she fabricated things from the beginning. Stories about her past involving her family, extreme stories about trauma and abuse - things that never happened. She told these stories to me, to our friends, many of them she would repeat again and again, embellishing them each time. Really risky move given that some were so extreme they were bound to come up when we were around her family. When we finally got to the bottom of it - it was all to mask things in her past she was ashamed about, or to garner sympathy, attention, or one-up other people competitively in a group setting.
The men I've known (quite a few) were fairly honest friends, or at least capable of extreme honesty if they felt comfortable, but also do lie from time to time. Just speaking from my personal experience with the ones I know, but I think so much really hinges on acceptance for Sags. They can lie or be guilty of extreme hyperbole if they feel insecure in a situation, and that you'll like them more if they do so. They will also be very quick to lie if you've backed them into a corner, or caught them in something, and the truth around it will make them look worse to you or the group. I have come to see it as innocent and I don't judge it. One of my best friends is a Sag and was a pro boxer for several years. About a month or so ago, we were watching boxing together like we usually do, and he just decided to confess a bunch of lies he had told me around some of his accomplishments in the sport, when we first met. I didn't care....super awkward convo though...lol.
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
Not necessarily true. Just because some have bad experiences does not make it all Sags.
I stayed, I saved his life, and all I got was being walked on, and a bunch of hurt feelings that I wasn’t there no matter what he did to me. There comes a time, a Sag stands up and says enough. If you are unwilling to deal, don’t blame it on me when I walk away.
Your truth is yours only.
My truth is mine only he.
Do not tell me what is or
is not in my own life, OK?
Agreed. I will not tell you what is in your life, I just object to being told who I am based on my sun sign.
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Are you so blind that you
cannot see I said not any
word about YOU personally?
Or are you too knighting for
sags I known personally?
What does anything I went
through with them have to
do with you in any form or
shape, or manner at all, ne?
How can I tell you of you
when I know you not at all?
Please think and stop being
so quick to react about lives
of other people.
Self centeredness is rampant
with all of you taking offense.
Tachi mentions sags so surely
she means us all personally!!
Do get over yourselves since
you are not being addressed.
Who cares
Seriously though
The sooner you realize you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone the better off you’ll be
Posted by hellosaggy
Tell of your grand experience with so many Sagittarius individuals both male and female where YOU create this empherical evidence of our dastardly actions... *rolling eyes*Who is OUR?
Or was I speaking of
Sags I knew personally?
Seems you do not read
nor comprehend well too.
And now you get in feels.
Because a free forum is
my platform to speak my
opposing truth about sag
that I personally knew.
Excellent job, genius well
developed, worldly one.
My higher level degrees and salary tell me I comprehend very well. I said YOUR and you specifically say sags that you personally knew...
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All meaningless papers.
They have no bearings
on logical capabilities.
You get mad over me
talking about things
I seen and witnessed
from OTHER sags...
No amount of success
makes a man perfect.
Your feelings still were
in the wrong place to
the wrong person.
Posted by hellosaggy
That dude sounds evil. Must be his moon. I don’t shit talk about people honestly
Oh really now?
Memory loss
at your age?
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I have a questioooon 🙋🏻🙋🏻I'm close with Saggitarius and they're usually my best friends in the zodiac.
But I remember my ex-Sag always pointing out my mistakes and whatnot, being brutally honest and straight-forward
Soooo, saying I'm a sensitive Crab who is overall emotional, but when I'm being honest and criticizing about your own flaws and your stupidity, you get offended.
And I end up making him cry. Confused as fawk.
I don't understand? Wtf.
It’s hard to know specifically since I don’t know what was said. But sometimes Sags don’t realize they are being blunt or hurtful, they just know they are being honest. When others say hurtful things, sometimes it is more with the intent to injure or return what they got. Maybe it was the way it was presented? If it’s a conversation, it shouldn’t be a problem but if it’s a perceived attack that is different.
I think it was an attack, he would always try to lower my self esteem because he was angry that other guys' would try and talk to me 😒
Even if it wasn't my fault. He did anything in his power to just make me feel like shit. 😢
That sucks and sounds very unhealthy 😢 that sounds more like he flamed at you. Ya know fire signs get upset, flame and then feel better. I find Cancer a tough match up because we don’t really get how sensitive you are.
Well I dont know, two of my Saggitarius best friends understand me pretty well despise them being a fire sign.
One of them have a Taurus Moon
And the other is a Scorpio moon. It was probably because of those placements.
My Sag ex have triple fire signs. Saggy Sun, Aries Moon, and Leo Rising
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Oh that aries moon is vicious lol. It’s extremely explosive. I have to control it.
Posted by hellosaggy
Tell of your grand experience with so many Sagittarius individuals both male and female where YOU create this empherical evidence of our dastardly actions... *rolling eyes*Who is OUR?
Or was I speaking of
Sags I knew personally?
Seems you do not read
nor comprehend well too.
And now you get in feels.
Because a free forum is
my platform to speak my
opposing truth about sag
that I personally knew.
Excellent job, genius well
developed, worldly one.
My higher level degrees and salary tell me I comprehend very well. I said YOUR and you specifically say sags that you personally knew...
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No comprehension any here.
You say our dastardly actions.
You willfully lump yourself in
with my experiences by using
" our" when speaking of sags.
You want to become upset so
you fit yourself in to justify it.
I never blamed you black sag.
I do not know you but sure OK.
Knight for other sags and cry.
I think a lot comes down to what are the core values for the sign. For Sags, I don't think thats truth/honesty so much as it would be for a sign like Aqua perhaps...Beyond their desire for mass appeal that I mentioned in the previous post, I think a key value for Sags is sport. They love the thrill of almost any form of competition and its one reason why I love this sign so much. If you are arguing with a Sag, yes they will definitely employ sophistry and embellish heavily or fabricate, if they need to, to win the argument; with every Sag I've met, the astro stereotype holds in that they are deeply philosophical but not so much in the sense of getting to the truth and being dogmatic about it, but in the sense of enjoying the process, the verbal sparring that gets you closer to that end. Its very similar to Gemini IMO, being on the same axis, but Geminis tend to be deceptive if they need to be, more so than dishonest IMO (though I think the two have overlap), being so slippery, good at moving the goal posts, steering you in another direction, etc., that they won't need to really fabricate. These two signs, along with Libra, probably impress me the most with their verbal acuity and agility.
Posted by TachibanaSan
Coddling your one sidedviewpoint does not make
our points any less valid.
Telling truth to a person
doesn't equate bringing
them down in any way.
Seems like sags like to
ignore the negative acts
and impressions which
they leave others to deal.
Make self feel better by
playing hurt victims so
they never have to face.
Not necessarily true. Just because some have bad experiences does not make it all Sags.
I stayed, I saved his life, and all I got was being walked on, and a bunch of hurt feelings that I wasn’t there no matter what he did to me. There comes a time, a Sag stands up and says enough. If you are unwilling to deal, don’t blame it on me when I walk away.
Your situation was terrible
but understand I was not
speaking of your situation.
Only mine and my own life.
Why can some not see this?
Because when you say Sags, it seems you are addressing all of us. It just seems to happen a lot. I just tried to show it is not all of us. I cannot speak for anyone personally, only myself.
I am sorry for your experience also.
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Arigatou gozaimasu.
But I do make a point
to write specifically
"The sags I knew" so
none here thinks I am
speaking of them but
they fail to read that.
Some see sags and
run with such idiocy.
The Sun rises in east
and sets in the West
Who moved my cheese 🧀
Oh it was the mouse 🐁
The mouse?
Yes the mouse in the house 🏠
Why would mouse do this?
Because mouse is a Sagittarius
*snaps fingers* @saggurl88
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I have a questioooon 🙋🏻🙋🏻I'm close with Saggitarius and they're usually my best friends in the zodiac.
But I remember my ex-Sag always pointing out my mistakes and whatnot, being brutally honest and straight-forward
Soooo, saying I'm a sensitive Crab who is overall emotional, but when I'm being honest and criticizing about your own flaws and your stupidity, you get offended.
And I end up making him cry. Confused as fawk.
I don't understand? Wtf.
It’s hard to know specifically since I don’t know what was said. But sometimes Sags don’t realize they are being blunt or hurtful, they just know they are being honest. When others say hurtful things, sometimes it is more with the intent to injure or return what they got. Maybe it was the way it was presented? If it’s a conversation, it shouldn’t be a problem but if it’s a perceived attack that is different.
I think it was an attack, he would always try to lower my self esteem because he was angry that other guys' would try and talk to me 😒
Even if it wasn't my fault. He did anything in his power to just make me feel like shit. 😢
That sucks and sounds very unhealthy 😢 that sounds more like he flamed at you. Ya know fire signs get upset, flame and then feel better. I find Cancer a tough match up because we don’t really get how sensitive you are.
Well I dont know, two of my Saggitarius best friends understand me pretty well despise them being a fire sign.
One of them have a Taurus Moon
And the other is a Scorpio moon. It was probably because of those placements.
My Sag ex have triple fire signs. Saggy Sun, Aries Moon, and Leo Rising
That’s a lot of fire! Relationships are different than friendships in getting along with Cancers for me. So he was a relationship?
Yes. :o 🤔🤔 knowing him, he have dated a Gemini in the past it was a really toxic relationship according to him. And right now his dating a Virgo female.
( Ironically speaking, he has talk a lot of crap to me about this Virgo female and end up dating her, without her knowing he has insulted her before. That's why I am lurking in this thread. )
Did we date the same Sag? 😆
Who knows! 🤷🏻♀️ I was dating a loser who wasn't interested in getting his GED and his mama was providing for him on everything! But he doesn't do any drugs, he was a gamer addict 24/7 on his ass in front of the computer
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Sounds very unmotivated... what drew you to him?
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I have a questioooon 🙋🏻🙋🏻I'm close with Saggitarius and they're usually my best friends in the zodiac.
But I remember my ex-Sag always pointing out my mistakes and whatnot, being brutally honest and straight-forward
Soooo, saying I'm a sensitive Crab who is overall emotional, but when I'm being honest and criticizing about your own flaws and your stupidity, you get offended.
And I end up making him cry. Confused as fawk.
I don't understand? Wtf.
It’s hard to know specifically since I don’t know what was said. But sometimes Sags don’t realize they are being blunt or hurtful, they just know they are being honest. When others say hurtful things, sometimes it is more with the intent to injure or return what they got. Maybe it was the way it was presented? If it’s a conversation, it shouldn’t be a problem but if it’s a perceived attack that is different.
I think it was an attack, he would always try to lower my self esteem because he was angry that other guys' would try and talk to me 😒
Even if it wasn't my fault. He did anything in his power to just make me feel like shit. 😢
That sucks and sounds very unhealthy 😢 that sounds more like he flamed at you. Ya know fire signs get upset, flame and then feel better. I find Cancer a tough match up because we don’t really get how sensitive you are.
Well I dont know, two of my Saggitarius best friends understand me pretty well despise them being a fire sign.
One of them have a Taurus Moon
And the other is a Scorpio moon. It was probably because of those placements.
My Sag ex have triple fire signs. Saggy Sun, Aries Moon, and Leo Rising
Oh that aries moon is vicious lol. It’s extremely explosive. I have to control it.
I really can't stand that moon sign, it's too possessive for me, I become really unstable
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It’s why I try not to get in relationships that are too serious. It becomes a main focal point and distracting. I keep things light.
Posted by TachibanaSan
Disagreeing is not hate.I never name called any
nor accused all for few.
When sags talk about sags
they talk one sidedly about
only the good they think is
inside of themselves mainly.
Seldom do they admit to their
negative sides, and we know
all people have negative sides.
When anyone talks personally
sags get mad, insult, make fun
of the person's experiences, ne.
As if they themselves are being
accused of another's offences.
Why? Because they are aware
of this truth but do not want to
admit anything anyone says, ne.
Doing so takes responsibility...
not a strong point for any sag
I have known in my life at all.
Taking responsibility for the
faults and shortcomings is
not a sag strong suit, sadly.
Fault others to deal with it.
Yet when it is good and all
glorious, they are so fast to
take credit and brag about
how great they all are.
Who do you try to fooling?
Us non sags or yourselves?
So honey you hate sag or love them
Let me know with short words please
So honey are you here
to prove me right or be
superficial as usual?
Let me know when you
can discuss maturely.
Or else move on, child.
I'm here to prove that you're right
Now you can sleep, you need to take care of your health mama.
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I am not here
to fight anyone.
OP asked why
all the hating.
We don't hate.
We just have
our sides too.
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I have a questioooon 🙋🏻🙋🏻I'm close with Saggitarius and they're usually my best friends in the zodiac.
But I remember my ex-Sag always pointing out my mistakes and whatnot, being brutally honest and straight-forward
Soooo, saying I'm a sensitive Crab who is overall emotional, but when I'm being honest and criticizing about your own flaws and your stupidity, you get offended.
And I end up making him cry. Confused as fawk.
I don't understand? Wtf.
It’s hard to know specifically since I don’t know what was said. But sometimes Sags don’t realize they are being blunt or hurtful, they just know they are being honest. When others say hurtful things, sometimes it is more with the intent to injure or return what they got. Maybe it was the way it was presented? If it’s a conversation, it shouldn’t be a problem but if it’s a perceived attack that is different.
I think it was an attack, he would always try to lower my self esteem because he was angry that other guys' would try and talk to me 😒
Even if it wasn't my fault. He did anything in his power to just make me feel like shit. 😢
That sucks and sounds very unhealthy 😢 that sounds more like he flamed at you. Ya know fire signs get upset, flame and then feel better. I find Cancer a tough match up because we don’t really get how sensitive you are.
Well I dont know, two of my Saggitarius best friends understand me pretty well despise them being a fire sign.
One of them have a Taurus Moon
And the other is a Scorpio moon. It was probably because of those placements.
My Sag ex have triple fire signs. Saggy Sun, Aries Moon, and Leo Rising
That’s a lot of fire! Relationships are different than friendships in getting along with Cancers for me. So he was a relationship?
Yes. :o 🤔🤔 knowing him, he have dated a Gemini in the past it was a really toxic relationship according to him. And right now his dating a Virgo female.
( Ironically speaking, he has talk a lot of crap to me about this Virgo female and end up dating her, without her knowing he has insulted her before. That's why I am lurking in this thread. )
Did we date the same Sag? 😆
Who knows! 🤷🏻♀️ I was dating a loser who wasn't interested in getting his GED and his mama was providing for him on everything! But he doesn't do any drugs, he was a gamer addict 24/7 on his ass in front of the computer
Sounds very unmotivated... what drew you to him?
At first he sounded intelligent and someone who understand where I was coming from about relationships. Little did I know, he was a manipulator.
😤😤 He showed all the signs, but I failed to accept it and pushed it aside.
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He has my sun and moon placement
We are manipulative af... and very intelligent... the motivation needs to come from somewhere though. Intelligence doesn’t equate to success.
My twin brother is just like your ex. He finally got his crap together a few years ago...
Posted by hellosaggy
Tell of your grand experience with so many Sagittarius individuals both male and female where YOU create this empherical evidence of our dastardly actions... *rolling eyes*Who is OUR?
Or was I speaking of
Sags I knew personally?
Seems you do not read
nor comprehend well too.
And now you get in feels.
Because a free forum is
my platform to speak my
opposing truth about sag
that I personally knew.
Excellent job, genius well
developed, worldly one.
My higher level degrees and salary tell me I comprehend very well. I said YOUR and you specifically say sags that you personally knew...
No comprehension any here.
You say our dastardly actions.
You willfully lump yourself in
with my experiences by using
" our" when speaking of sags.
You want to become upset so
you fit yourself in to justify it.
I never blamed you black sag.
I do not know you but sure OK.
Knight for other sags and cry.
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you just called me black sag—
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
I have a questioooon 🙋🏻🙋🏻I'm close with Saggitarius and they're usually my best friends in the zodiac.
But I remember my ex-Sag always pointing out my mistakes and whatnot, being brutally honest and straight-forward
Soooo, saying I'm a sensitive Crab who is overall emotional, but when I'm being honest and criticizing about your own flaws and your stupidity, you get offended.
And I end up making him cry. Confused as fawk.
I don't understand? Wtf.
It’s hard to know specifically since I don’t know what was said. But sometimes Sags don’t realize they are being blunt or hurtful, they just know they are being honest. When others say hurtful things, sometimes it is more with the intent to injure or return what they got. Maybe it was the way it was presented? If it’s a conversation, it shouldn’t be a problem but if it’s a perceived attack that is different.
I think it was an attack, he would always try to lower my self esteem because he was angry that other guys' would try and talk to me 😒
Even if it wasn't my fault. He did anything in his power to just make me feel like shit. 😢
That sucks and sounds very unhealthy 😢 that sounds more like he flamed at you. Ya know fire signs get upset, flame and then feel better. I find Cancer a tough match up because we don’t really get how sensitive you are.
Well I dont know, two of my Saggitarius best friends understand me pretty well despise them being a fire sign.
One of them have a Taurus Moon
And the other is a Scorpio moon. It was probably because of those placements.
My Sag ex have triple fire signs. Saggy Sun, Aries Moon, and Leo Rising
That’s a lot of fire! Relationships are different than friendships in getting along with Cancers for me. So he was a relationship?
Yes. :o 🤔🤔 knowing him, he have dated a Gemini in the past it was a really toxic relationship according to him. And right now his dating a Virgo female.
( Ironically speaking, he has talk a lot of crap to me about this Virgo female and end up dating her, without her knowing he has insulted her before. That's why I am lurking in this thread. )
Did we date the same Sag? 😆
Who knows! 🤷🏻♀️ I was dating a loser who wasn't interested in getting his GED and his mama was providing for him on everything! But he doesn't do any drugs, he was a gamer addict 24/7 on his ass in front of the computer
Sounds very unmotivated... what drew you to him?
At first he sounded intelligent and someone who understand where I was coming from about relationships. Little did I know, he was a manipulator.
😤😤 He showed all the signs, but I failed to accept it and pushed it aside.
He has my sun and moon placement
We are manipulative af... and very intelligent... the motivation needs to come from somewhere though. Intelligence doesn’t equate to success.
My twin brother is just like your ex. He finally got his crap together a few years ago...
Lol and you have a twin brother as well? Gah!
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It’s ok. He’s not much like me. I popped out first. He’s laid back and go with the flow. I think he’s a secret hipster.
Maybe some people will think I’m lying about that too 🤷🏾♂️
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It’s the time of Sagittarius!
Why can’t people appreciate honesty and open communication? People always have to feel like someone is lying to them, we are evil people, have no heart, and that all we care about is ourselves.
News flash... nobody gives a flying 🦆 about anybody up here.... especially to lie about something.
I enjoy open conversation and honest reflection from others from different backgrounds
If you don’t like that I’m really honest and I don’t really care about ramifications and especially about how you feel about me... don’t respond to it. Trust me... I have plenty of people that appreciate it. No guessing with me.