My first mature relationship in a long time

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Candeh15 on Monday, November 28, 2011 and has 1 replies.

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@Candeh15
16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Possibly ever.

I wouldn't say my relationship is mature in the sense that we have a house, a car, share a bank account, have kids, ect. (I don't expect to have that until 5 or 10 years from now lol).
It's just mature in that we're both really open and honest with each other, and I see us growing more and more as people and a couple the longer we are together.

I don't have a lot of insecurities anymore, and if I do, I take steps to work on them.

I look back on when I first joined here and how I could barely keep up with all the guys I was dating, and it's really weird and kind of cool to see how things have slowly changed. I can see a lot of my mistakes and how I've learned from them.

To all those who put up with my complaining and what not,thank you. It got me somewhere lol.

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@LonLon
15 Years

Posted by Candeh15
Possibly ever.

I wouldn't say my relationship is mature in the sense that we have a house, a car, share a bank account, have kids, ect. (I don't expect to have that until 5 or 10 years from now lol).
It's just mature in that we're both really open and honest with each other, and I see us growing more and more as people and a couple the longer we are together.

I don't have a lot of insecurities anymore, and if I do, I take steps to work on them.

I look back on when I first joined here and how I could barely keep up with all the guys I was dating, and it's really weird and kind of cool to see how things have slowly changed. I can see a lot of my mistakes and how I've learned from them.

To all those who put up with my complaining and what not,thank you. It got me somewhere lol.

So happy for your lady! :-)