MY RELATIONSHIP WITH A GEMINI MAN - HELP!!!!

Hey guys I really need help! I am a libra woman and I have been with a Gemini man now for 2 years in a relationship. At the start we were good friends and I wasent really interested I him but very soon I fell for him and his charm and we started dating. It was so fun at the start I use to see him everyday but a little while after he broke up with me and said he wanted to be friends because of a huge argument we had - I was so heartbroken I tried to talk to him about it and was crying and upset but he didn't care I got to a point where I was so angry and I stopped talking to him for a little over a week I changed my number. I put my old SIM card in my phone one day and as soon as I put it in my phone he called we started speaking again. The second time he broke up with me I ignored him completely But he was dying to still talk to me and see me and be friends with me but I told him I can't be friends and still talk to him so have nothing to do with me or be with me he said okay I don't want a relationship and o stopes talking to him for 3 days. 3 days of ignoring him and he appeared at my work one day as it was the only was to get in touch with me - why are geminis like this? As soon as I move on he wants me back. A couple months past and AGAIN he says he wants to be friends with me - are you serious - I can't even deal with life again he is a moody little bitch I absolutely linked my shit this time and I have completely stoped talking to him again it's been 2 days and I haven't spoken to him but today he called me 12 times then sent a message saying "fine 😉" why the wi k face why do they play games. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Help!!!!? I love him so much we have the best time when he is not moody - is it bad for me to ignore him? Does fine mean game on what should I say to him I really want to be with him but how do I play his game —

You sound juvenile.


You bitch and complain and play little games of pushing him away and ignoring him .... then in your next breath you say you love him and really want to be with him.


You're a Player, and are getting back exactly what you put out.

The Universe always answers. Have fun being a dumbcunt.

It sounds to me like he wants to break up but he just doesn't have the strength to do it. It appears he is torn between the emptiness and loneliness we all feel when we go our separate ways, and/or staying in a relationship from which he is clearly trying to break away from.

I know how hurtful it is- I know how deeply Libra can fall in love with Gemini. His behavior is really clear! He doesn't really want a romantic relationship with you anymore. He however wants to continue to have you in his life it sounds like - as a friend; but when you go too far away his abandonment issues are triggered which have nothing to do with you.

Just because somebody's abandonment issues are triggered doesn't mean that they love you he might have separation anxiety issues. I personally will continue to be his friend and ease my way out.

Wow, all of that sounds exhausting OP.

I think you're concerned about the wrong thing, buuut to address your question about his message with the winky face... I think he is feeling cocky right now. He knows no matter how much you ignore him, you will eventually break and start communicating/hanging out with him again. He is biding his time.

Why would you want to be with someone who's that flaky? I don't get it.

The key here is he said "I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP". Take him at his word. If you can't be just friends, then be done with him and send him on his way.