MY truths

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Archimedes on Tuesday, September 13, 2011 and has 5 replies.

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@Archimedes
16 Years

Just wanted to take this opportunity to share with the DXP community what I have learned/experienced. Perhaps some of these beliefs/truths will help alleviate/provide guidance to those that continue to struggle with their own inner battles.

1. I believe/know that those who try to control have not learned to let go and listen to what the world has to say.

2. I believe/know that those who lose faith, lose themselves.

3. I believe/know it is better to light a candle, than curse the dark.

4. I believe/know that those who second guess themselves, will not only second guess you and everyone else, but never really believed what they felt/saw/experienced for themselves.

5. I believe in unconditional love

6. I believe/know that unconditional love can be learned, when we learn our own ignorance and let go.

7. I believe/know that unconditional love starts with Friendship.

8. I believe/know that those who purposly impose their OWN emotions/feelings/thoughts on others, are afraid of their OWN truch (truth about themselves)

9. I believe/know that happiness start with yourSELF

10. I believe/know that those who are unhappy in their relationships are unhappy with themselves

11. I believe/know that change, starts with yourSELF

12. I believe/know that K7 has rubbed off on me 😛

13. I believe/know that ignorance is NOT always bliss

14. I believe/know that true friends, do not poke where it hurts.

15. And my favorite....I believe/know that those who only know what "is NOT" don't know "what IS"

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@Pikachu81
15 YearsScorpio

5. I believe in unconditional love
6. I believe/know that unconditional love can be learned, when we learn our own ignorance and let go.

7. I believe/know that unconditional love starts with Friendship

Check this article out: http://news.yahoo.com/casey-anthonys-parents-revisit-loss-dr-phil-212641988.html;_ylt=AjoQ5C7r0lo8R3xGTtjn599xFb8C;_ylu=X3oDMTQzbnRyNmQ3BG1pdANUb3BTdG9yeSBFbnRlcnRhaW5tZW50U0YEcGtnAzczZTExZTg1LWYyMWItMzJlNy04ZTk4LTZiNmZlODYxYWY3MARwb3MDMjAEc2VjA3RvcF9zdG9yeQR2ZXIDNGJlNmM1YTAtZGUwNi0xMWUwLWJlZmItZWE4ZmM1ZTdiYzUz;_ylg=X3oDMTIxZWtlZm9vBGludGwDdXMEbGFuZwNlbi11cwRwc3RhaWQDBHBzdGNhdANlbnRlcnRhaW5tZW50BHB0A3NlY3Rpb25zBHRlc3QD;_ylv=3

Parents showing unconditional love...for their daughter..hmmm im mixed on this one

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@Archimedes
16 Years

"I believe you are too much an idealist, Archimedes"

How kind of you to say :p

Being too much of an idealist can blind one from the truth/reality, my dear Reason 😛

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Very true!

And me rubbing off on you? Nooooo!.....Well maybe just a little bit =P

I love how you put alot of emphasis on SELF. Finding love & happiness 1st starts with self.

It's ironic that people prioritize meeting & getting to know someone else/complete strangers moreso than getting to know & being their own best friend & best companion to themselves!

And then they wonder why they're relationships never work out or why they always push people away.

A person with good intentions may like/love you BUT it's no secret that low self-esteem (especially if the person doesn't even realize it) is a turn-off to everyone, not just players, but especially to the good guys/women

It's impossible to love others (especially unconditionally) unless you 1st love yourself. And anyone who truly loves you wouldn't want it any other way. If a person can clearly see that you don't love yourself & yet never try to advise you to do so, that's a big red flag & indication that they don't have much love for you either.

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@Mistery
18 Years500+ Posts

Do you even know what unconditional means? He can beat your ass but you LOVE him! Most sane and coherent people who do understand the definition are not the smug self-satisfied-break your arm while you're patting yourself on the back, types.
Lemme guess, you drive a Prius too?