No title dating/relationships

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RealTalk
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Has anyone ever had any encounters as this? I have, 2 to be exact. Seems to me that the relationships I had without the "boyfriend, girlfriend" title, were the most intense, loving, passionate relationships I've ever had. The ones with the title were just very BLAH without any real passion, & were pretty boring.

I have an Aqua friend who is always with a particular woman & he tells me that's not his girl, & they aren't in a relationship. Huh— They are ALWAYS together & he talks about her alot. I'm like who are you kidding? You're in a relationship with her, he says he's just going with the flow of things. I see it as he's totally into her, I could be wrong but his actions sooooooo don't meet what he's saying.

Anywho, I think I like the "no titles". The mystery of not knowing verbally, but actions are screaming you guys are together. I'm one to go off of peoples actions anyway. A "title relationship" I was in didn't feel as if we were together at all. He would tell me he loved me, but he wouldn't show it. Only showed it by showering me with material things to keep me around, but would lack in other areas that were important for a healthy relationship. Going with the natural flow of things works for me. It seems as if people title things, it gets weird. Anywho...that's just my experience.