not worth it

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by he@t 0f the f@ll on Friday, June 19, 2009 and has 4 replies.

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@he@t 0f the f@ll
17 Years

if i cant get all from her, it aint worth it, and if i feel that way its best for her to part ways cause life will be hell if she returns

got sick of that in between shit, so if i feel like i cant receive all of your full potential you can do one of 2 things, leave or convice me why i should settle for you, which i prolly wont do in the end anyway

i hate when ppl start going in full throttle with shit like this and retract the first time their feelings are hurt, makes it feel like a scapegoat and makes me feel a lil pissed and vindictive so its best to be aloof for the moment until my pride and feelings rebuild or i get what the hell i want,

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

What the hell do you want— If you dont have the patience to stick by till she's willing to open up and let you in then it's not her that you really want so then you are wasting her time aren't you—

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Although giving someone your all is important, being patient & knowing when to sacrifice and pick your battles is equally important too.

Sounds like you have a zero tolerance for bullshxt or "part time" relationships. And hey I do too. BUT sometimes a person isn't giving you their all b/c it takes them awhile to let YOU "earn" their trust & that right. You have to earn the person you want & unfortunately, trust & undivided attention isn't something you're entitled to unless you've earned it. And earning that can take time.

However, if you've already earned it & yet he/she's still not willing to budge, that could be a problem. But it's not healthy to automatically/immediately be ready to skip town all b/c someone doesn't hand their heart over to you on a platter the min. they lay eyes on you