Ok I'm ready now...where are you?

I've done the time on myself and love myself entirely...I'm ready and open now for someone to come into my life, actually think I've been ready for a few good months. Now where are you?

I'd like a Scorp with a bit of Pisces and a touch of Libra, the first two being guys that I wasnt ready and open for at the time but have my regrets..the Libra I think being my sun sign I could work well with.

Anyway that is the dream, one day maybe...my eyes are open now!

Good luck in you search 🙂 I spoke about this before with you. Im not quite there yet, still one step behind you lol. Not sure what guy i'm after yet though maybe an Aqua with a Water Moon and Venus in Scorp.

I will continue to wait patiently, though my heart and eyes are now open

For the longest time I've pushed people away and been quite jaded...it's going to be hard to break the habit but I want to try...

I'm going to put away the suspicious mind...what do you want from me??
I'm going to let my guard lower and go with the flow...

If I like someone I find it really hard to actually look at them, they have to be the one that approaches me...just a few things to work on

funnily enough now that I feel ready there isnt anyone around!!!

I still think second time around is the hardest!

So I met someone tonight, someone that I shud give a chance... He's good looking and toned and we talked and talked even kissed.... But idk, it wasn't all there! He has my number... I guess he'll call and we go from there— Will it grow?? I have to try at least,don't I?

Of course you must try, won't ever know if you do not. 🙂

What do you think is missing? If I were you, I'd definitely go out a few more times if you had good rapport and talked easily. Stuff can easily grow from that.

Idk what was missing...maybe it's just that he is a complete stranger... I've normally gone out with guys that I am familiar with. Friends of friends or people I've seen around alot. He was rather nice and Inquisitive of the things I like to do so it will be interesting where he takes me should he call.

See, I can toooooootally relate to that. In fact, I was just reading another thread today I think on the Aqua board and they were talking about never going back to exboyfriends. I tend to go back...often...because I'm familiar with them. I am very uncomfortable getting to know new people so I can appreciate how you may have felt. Thats why I say hang in there a bit longer until he gets more familiar to you. Maybe then you'll feel at ease enough to start seeing if some connection is there.

I guess you always hope for the fireworks from the get go...time will tell!

Being the 110 female you need a 90 year old man

What was I thinking? The fireworks display was going off wen we were introduced!!! Lol

I'm just a cougar then he was 39!!! Didn't get his star sign though... I hope he is a pisces or Taurus.

He texted and said that it was nice to meet me and he knows today I'm attending a fashion parade for the same charity event but also ask me to contact him if I'd like to go out later. I'm not fussed on a guy texting to make a date and would prefer he rang... Just being picky right?

I don't think so, it WOULD be nice to hear someones voice ask you out. Unless he sprouted pinfeathers and was afraid his voice might crack or squeak because he was nervous. ( Now...SMILE at that mental image.. )

Thnx VB. Now you see he has left the ball in my court... So I'm not sure what I should do. I wish guys would just be gentleman from the get go. What would you suggest? Me txt him back but then I'm allowing him to continue texting only OR don't reply? Then he'll think I don't want to see him. Or should I ring and say yes let's giving and see what happens. My friends put me under this pressure!

One of them rang and says, did he tell you what he does for a living and I said, no he didn't have a chance I was doing all the talking about me!!! Lol well he was asking all the questions...

LOL First off, tell your mates to hush a moment. They're just wanting to satisfy their curiosity more than anything. Has nothing to do with what you'd like to know or not at this point.
I'd ring him back and say "I'd like to meet for drinks after the charity event." Just to have voice, I think that's important. But I'm a pushy cow for the phone over texting, it's not as personal in my opinion.
He's waiting for a reply I should think, and probably nervous as a cat in a room full of rocking chairs. Let him know.

Yeah I will call. Although not tonight it's been a solid wine feist since last night. Champagne breakfast!!! Don't want to go out already tanked! Lol bad enough I was tipsy when we met!

LOL I completely understand.

So I copped out... At least til after Xmas. I just said I was too busy til after then, which I am...

If you are, there's no need to justify it, for it's truth. Was he receptive?

Yes he knows how full on I am ATM... And is happy to wait. I have cold feet though VB , already making excuses...I'm just not that into him!

I'm stuck somewhere Michael that's for real... However it's a happy place (:

Ah Sweets, you must not leave him in the wings then... tell him and don't be wasting your time!

I'm stuck somewhere Michael that's for real... However it's a happy place (:

If he keeps in contact over the next week as he says we'll see where it goes... Lildol I think I'm just overwelmed in my own world right now and so close to Xmas.

If you have something to say Michael say it, but don't hide it again!

That was a double up!

You see if you knew me you'd know I have nothing to hide. If I fuck up I'll take full responsibility! That's how I roll!

Was that an apology— Say it louder for all to hear...

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I still don't believe you. LOL!

Ever doubting me ^^^^^^^^

Clearly you do and now I know you never apologize...

You've done nothing wrong. Now you are reading into it too deeply. I am playing with you.

Maybe it was.... 😉 imaginations a wonderful thing!

Lets not mess with the Tate's let us be.