Questionaire

1. How big of an effect did your 1st love relationship have on your relationships now or in the future?

2. What's the worst thing someone has ever done/said to you?

3. What's the worst thing you've ever said/done to someone you loved? And why?

4. What's the 1 thing you will NEVER do again in your current relationship or next relationship that you used to do?

5. What's the 1 sign you've had the MOST issues with in love/friendship/relationships?

6. What's the 1 sign you've had the LEAST issues with?

7. What advice about love/relationships would you give to someone that you wish someone would've given to you or that you wish you would've understood back then?

8. What's the worst relationship advice you've ever gotten?

9. I'm sure a flaw of yours has gotten in the way of a relationship before. If you haven't changed it yet, why not? And if you have, what did it take for you to change it (either during the relationship or after it was over)?

10. Let's say you want to be married or are married. Can you honestly see yourself being 100% faithful 100% of the time for the REST OF YOUR LIFE? It may seem realistic if we're talking 2-10 years but what about 50+ years?

11. You know when a person truly loves you when...........?

12. You know you truly love a person when.......?

My answers:
1. I grew up with both loving parents who weren't super affectionate & had gone through life thinking affection wasn't something I needed. Can't miss what you never had, right? Well, my 1st love was so affectionate & turned on a part of my heart that I didn't know existed. From then on, I never could be with someone unless they were affectionate.

2. An ex started laughing/smirking when I told him that my mother had a terminal illness.

3. I told that same ex that I could see why all his relationships had failed & that it was b/c he's not so lovable. That, coming from me, really hurt him deep b/c he'd always felt unloved & unworthy growing up.

4. I will never again get revenge or cheat! It does NOT make you feel better

5. Taurus

6. Libra

7. Listen to your gut! It has never been wrong before & is not out to get you! If it's telling you to run, run! If it's telling you to stay/forgive/trust/love, then do so.

8. "Since all men cheat anyways, you might as well prepare to be able to deal with it somehow. If everything else about him is great, don't leave or you might miss out"

9. I used to be quick to break it off with someone over little things. Anytime something went wrong I was like, "ooup it's over!" It took for someone to do that to me over & over again to get a taste of my own medicine & realize that doing that is extremely manipulative, wrong & scars the other person. Now, I compromise & talk it out & have decided not to ever break up with someone unless I intend on that being the last time we're ever together.

10. Yes & No.

11. My needs are just as important as theirs. When a person can only sleep at night after placing my need on the same high pedistool as their own.

12. When their needs/opinion/feelings matter just as much as my own...the ultimate selflessness.

1. How big of an effect did your 1st love relationship have on your relationships now or in the future? None

2. What's the worst thing someone has ever done/said to you? Told me they loved me when they really didn't

3. What's the worst thing you've ever said/done to someone you loved? And why? Cheated. Because he was my first and I found I wanted to "explore".

4. What's the 1 thing you will NEVER do again in your current relationship or next relationship that you used to do? Take his bullshit; not communicating; being wishy washy. It's either it is or it isn't--nothing in between.

5. What's the 1 sign you've had the MOST issues with in love/friendship/relationships? Virgo

6. What's the 1 sign you've had the LEAST issues with? Aquarius

7. What advice about love/relationships would you give to someone that you wish someone would've given to you or that you wish you would've understood back then? When Virgo starts their shit; just leave and never look back!

8. What's the worst relationship advice you've ever gotten? None; I don't take relationship advice.

9. I'm sure a flaw of yours has gotten in the way of a relationship before. If you haven't changed it yet, why not? And if you have, what did it take for you to change it (either during the relationship or after it was over)? I'm too honest and outspoken about it. Not going to change that; it's me.

10. Let's say you want to be married or are married. Can you honestly see yourself being 100% faithful 100% of the time for the REST OF YOUR LIFE? It may seem realistic if we're talking 2-10 years but what about 50+ years? Yes, I was married before and I would still be with him--he fucked up; so it ended.

11. You know when a person truly loves you when...........? Their actions match their words.

12. You know you truly love a person when.......? I'm thinking about them alot and get excited to see/be with them even when we've been together a long time.

Omg Sagtastic, your answers just made my day!! Love!

Damn he said he was better than you? HOLY!! Yeah that's probably 1 of the worst things someone can say to you b/c it not only makes you feel like crap but all respect for such a person who'd say that goes out the window! Lose/lose

Wow