You know, you could meet a person to whom was just ok, and then meet him again in 5 years, and be completely head-over-heels.
You could meet a new friend and beso for years, and then one day out of the blue, your heart melts in his presence.
You love a man to absolutely death today, and next week, the very same qualities about him that captured you .. you could detest.
It's not really about the other person, as far as love is concerned .. it's really about yourself .. what you need now in your life as you regard another person, how you need to be loved within certain phases of your life.
With every phase of life .. a person needs to be loved differently.