@Capwoman3
8 Years
Reconnecting w my teenage Virgo after 30 years
Understanding Virgo Behavior in Reconnected Relationships
Virgo men often seek stability and clarity after reconnecting. Their initial intense interest may diminish as they reassess their feelings and responsibilities. Focus on honest communication and patience. Building trust gradually will help strengthen your bond without pressure.
First of all your both still married to other ppl?
Eh?
No, we are both divorced now.
Who knows? Maybe you can ask him?
Thank you. I haven't heard from him today. I'm not sure what to think.
Just before Christmas I reconnected with a guy that I dated right out of high school. He is Virgo and I am a cap. I had gotten hit by a drunk driver and was out of work. When I came back he asked me out. We dated for 2 years and I split up with him. Neither of us knew why. Anyway, he married and was with her 22 years. I married and both had kids w our spouses. We lived our lives. now we have reconnected. He has had to connect alot of lost dots from my accident.
We have fun together. In the beginning it was he wanted to see me all the time. Now, we see one another once a week. We talk on the phone constantly.
Any Virgo guys out there that can tell me what happened? What did I do wrong?
He is a good guy. Far from what I'm used to. 😫 I have had a long run with losers.
What do I need to do. I think I'm really starting to like him.....
Did you assume romance when it was a platonic reconnection? He may have been exploring more at a 25% romantic 75% platonic, curiosity level. Exploration at a low level of romance is quite a hurdle. A hurdle in which he finally concluded, "nah."
So, I received one of this messages....
"I apologize, it's not you, I just needed to back away".
Lol, anyway, life goes on....
So, I received one of this messages....
"I apologize, it's not you, I just needed to back away".
Lol, anyway, life goes on....
If you are serious tell him "if you want me to leave a door open for you, explain why you need to back away.I will not judge you for your reasons. You being open and honest with me is what's important."
And then step back and watch the magic happen.
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Just before Christmas I reconnected with a guy that I dated right out of high school. He is Virgo and I am a cap. I had gotten hit by a drunk driver and was out of work. When I came back he asked me out. We dated for 2 years and I split up with him. Neither of us knew why. Anyway, he married and was with her 22 years. I married and both had kids w our spouses. We lived our lives. now we have reconnected. He has had to connect alot of lost dots from my accident.
We have fun together. In the beginning it was he wanted to see me all the time. Now, we see one another once a week. We talk on the phone constantly.
Any Virgo guys out there that can tell me what happened? What did I do wrong?
He is a good guy. Far from what I'm used to. 😫 I have had a long run with losers.
What do I need to do. I think I'm really starting to like him.....