@SeaLion
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Love equates to respect for us. I think that’s the one thing we all have in common. Other than that I’d be speaking for myself lol
Posted by Arielle83Why hilarious?
Not romantic... so it kind of comes off funny to me how they talk. Kind of matter of fact..
Posted by Cg2016Love equates to respect for us. I think that’s the one thing we all have in common. Other than that I’d be speaking for myself lol
Posted by HearttofTopazz“Venus in Virgo people express their love through practical means and gestures–running errands, doing detail work, or just being there for their lovers.”
I’m always looking for tasks I can do to make their day easier, or more comfortable. I have OCD so I just wind up wanting to do everything so it’s perfect.. I do have to watch myself with the enabling lol.
The only way I can describe how I show my love is by comparing it to having a personal assistant. Also I’m not very romantic, but I can be if I put a lot of thought into it for a few days.. or weeks 😂
Would putting me down as a reference be a good sign?
Is considered one of the worst placements to have! Lucky us!
I am slow to fall in love, and even when I do it is in a calculated fashion. I have assessed the risks and potential. I am critical. I notice everything and will suggest ways to improve. I will do anything to help my significant other. I've gone as far as completely registering my ex up for school, did all his financial aid, chose his class schedule, even pretty much chose his trade (with his approval). He was really lost in life, no career at 34. He is now a union pipe fitter and is making great money. He had never even considered going to school for welding.
I also have a habit of scheduling all my boyfriends doctors/dentist appts. Its like a right of passage in my relationships. My Leo is going to the dentist Monday actually. haha
It is hard for me to leave a relationship....I will work on it until I know nothing else can be done. I am dedicated AF, but my ability to focus on all the flaws of a union and constantly be trying to improve it is not appealing. I get that. Its exhausting for the partner, if they dont understand the underlying love in it. I naturally expect perfection, and it isnt possible. Realizing that is the evolution that needs to take place for a ViV.
I am also VERY giving sexually. But that might be my Virgo Mars. I actually WANT to fulfill your fantasies. Being of service.
I can be very romantic but its strategic...I cant really explain what I mean by that.
My boyfriend says im not "present" a lot. Always focusing on whats next, or already done. I live in my head.
Posted by HearttofTopazzPosted by SeaLionPosted by HearttofTopazz“Venus in Virgo people express their love through practical means and gestures–running errands, doing detail work, or just being there for their lovers.”
I’m always looking for tasks I can do to make their day easier, or more comfortable. I have OCD so I just wind up wanting to do everything so it’s perfect.. I do have to watch myself with the enabling lol.
The only way I can describe how I show my love is by comparing it to having a personal assistant. Also I’m not very romantic, but I can be if I put a lot of thought into it for a few days.. or weeks 😂
Would putting me down as a reference be a good sign?
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Lol, I ask cause he just texted me saying he was putting me down as a reference and what to say if they call. Lol.
Posted by colliding99Posted by colliding99i have no idea
ive never been in love or been in an actual relationship thats why i dont know lol
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That is a good reason not to know. Love is overrated anyway.
Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
well @SeaLion it seems the "attention to detail" is the popular vote here lmao, and is true, I also do make mental notes of the people I care about, I don't need facebook to tell me anyone birthday, not the one that matter at least, if I really trust the person, enough to believe that person wont be offended, or shouldn't cuz they know I only want to help them improve, I will nag about stuff, otherwise, I will make the note only in my head, like this persons is irresponsible, that one has nasty and gross habits, this one's a thief, and so on.
be warned though, if we like you, we can and WILL use that knowledge against you 😈

I also think is important to note there's some nuance with the "act of service" we would do, in my case, as a mercury dominant leo, I'm always gifting gadgets that I know would make other people lives easier, and I enjoy making sure that every device is working properly in the house, is so stressful to know that one fizzled while the SO is needing it, cuz I feel is my responsibility to keep everything tidy.
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@Mactavish: "They just stop picking out your flaws and moaning about it"
oh, that's not a good sign, I actually pick more flaws from the people I like that the one I don't care about, if I'm not nagging you, I don't love you.
@ClairDeLune: "Willing to bend backwards ONLY for people I care about"
but that's the problem isn't it? or are you gonna tell me you haven't cared for people that doesn't care about you.
Posted by SweetLily_89I agree with the previous posters.
I can only speak for myself though, but maybe my other Virgo Venus peeps are the same.
Once I catch feelings they are there to stay. It's really something that has taken me time to accept that once I love you, I'm going to love you for the rest of your life and will always wish for the best for you, no matter how badly things ended. If it's for the best to not be in each other's lives, then I'm going to love you from afar.
I think that unconditional love, gets lost in the negative stereotype.
Totally agree.
Posted by SweetLily_89Posted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Service child....we remember shit about you like we trying to fill out your autobiography
Lmafo, That was priceless. You had me cracking up so hard with that 😂 It's too accurate.
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Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Posted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lolclick to expand
so sweet i want one 💕
One thing Is that a lot of Virgo Venus cues can be missed or taken advantage of. I feel like if you aren’t keen or you feel we are distant that might suggest we are cold - when In fact we probably just shy, neurotic and too caught up analyzing/ overanalysing. Virgo Venus folks know they overanalyse lol. Like I think my Virgo Venus is too reluctant to go all in so it has to assess the situation; can I be with this person, will there be a lot of conflict? Are they reliable?
One I will say we aim to please, if you were to compare Virgo Venus/ mars to anything. It would be Amazon Prime; we’ll do the deed and ask how was. like after your package got delivered. Was the order correct? Did you like it? What things could we improve on? Was it in time? Lol
Posted by SeaLionPosted by Cg2016Love equates to respect for us. I think that’s the one thing we all have in common. Other than that I’d be speaking for myself lol
So you have to feel respected or you have to respect the person? I think that is pretty much anyone regardless of the sign.click to expand
Idc if the person loves me but they have to respect me. There are personalities that stay with someone after they’re disrespected. I leave immediately lol.
Posted by Mactavish_RPosted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
They Don't!
They just stop picking out your flaws and moaning about it, but they're always watching you..... analysing your every move..... waiting for that one moment you f*ck up and boom!
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Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
so sweet i want one 💕
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i care about the person and their well being, always receptive but cautious. we think we should help the weak/underdog. i think people feel very loved by us because we're so attentive and always look at you with admiration/love, so no need for virgo venus to have to tell you that they love you, because you would always feel the love. even though we can be shy in expressing our affections
we're very supportive and significant others always come to me more emotional reasons or reassurance (although even we can be hurting inside)
and like someone said our love is unconditional so if we it did not work out, we always hope that you are happy
Posted by Ocelot009Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
so sweet i want one 💕
I thought you were one lol xD tbh I feel like Virgo in Venus would be that person to notice your quirks when you don’t at allclick to expand
i want a virgo venus
or a virgo moon
or a virgo sun
i'll take anything virgo now tbh
i'm now an astro elitist 💕
I like it, and relate to it.
I see some of the "non-romantic" ways that Virgo Venus expresses love as quite romantic! I have Scorpio Venus but it's in the 6th house with 4 other planets in my chart, and that's Virgo's house, and I assume that's why I relate and feel like I'm Virgo-Venus-y with how I show caring.
Posted by Black-MambaThey never give you flowers
are as romantic as cold stone
they will clean your place for you tho
shrugs blech
Posted by CopperDoveI like it, and relate to it.
I see some of the "non-romantic" ways that Virgo Venus expresses love as quite romantic! I have Scorpio Venus but it's in the 6th house with 4 other planets in my chart, and that's Virgo's house, and I assume that's why I relate and feel like I'm Virgo-Venus-y with how I show caring.
Posted by CopperDoveI like it, and relate to it.
I see some of the "non-romantic" ways that Virgo Venus expresses love as quite romantic! I have Scorpio Venus but it's in the 6th house with 4 other planets in my chart, and that's Virgo's house, and I assume that's why I relate and feel like I'm Virgo-Venus-y with how I show caring.
Posted by Ocelot009Posted by CopperDoveI like it, and relate to it.
I see some of the "non-romantic" ways that Virgo Venus expresses love as quite romantic! I have Scorpio Venus but it's in the 6th house with 4 other planets in my chart, and that's Virgo's house, and I assume that's why I relate and feel like I'm Virgo-Venus-y with how I show caring.
Lucky I got my Virgo Venus in the 11th house tbh 🙂click to expand
That seems good for sure. 11th house influenced people I know are usually very friendly and expansive with their energy.
So glad I'm not a Venus in virgo...sounds exhausting
😂😜
Posted by Mactavish_RPosted by Ocelot009Posted by Mactavish_RPosted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
They Don't!
They just stop picking out your flaws and moaning about it, but they're always watching you..... analysing your every move..... waiting for that one moment you f*ck up and boom!
I don’t know what Virgo Venus you met but don’t speak for me and for us. I’ll speak for myself in Virgo Venus.
Wasnt trying to shut you down but not all Virgo venus people work like that, sometimes critiquing is our wat of showing love- for some of us. But what you were doing was just generalizing the whole placement lol...Okay
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Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Ocelot009Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
so sweet i want one 💕
I thought you were one lol xD tbh I feel like Virgo in Venus would be that person to notice your quirks when you don’t at all
i want a virgo venus
or a virgo moon
or a virgo sun
i'll take anything virgo now tbh
i'm now an astro elitist 💕
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Do you really though? Most people far away and tread with caution lol.
Shyly
I agree with a lot, just not the “organizing everything for a boyfriend” one... I kind of wait for the guy to do that for me😉
I think my Virgo Venus makes me picky about who I love, although my Aries Mars just cares about who I want to sleep with. So sex isn’t really a huge issue for me but don’t push me for commitment until I’ve analyzed every detail of you.
Picky, picky about love.. but not as much about sex because of that Aries.
I also get disillusioned once I find details I don’t like. I often fall out of love if the love is more mental than physical. But I will rarely fall out of love with someone I have explosive physical chemistry with.
So... basically, having Virgo and Aries together makes everything pretty confusing. But one thing I can say for sure is that love for me is mostly physical, partly mental, and any emotions build from that. Emotions don’t live by themselves in my Virgo Venus and Aries Mars. If I start to lose physical attraction or start to think you’re stupid then it’s breakup time because my foot is already out of the door...
I actually really hate this about me and just wish I had any kind of water placement anywhere. I have zero in my whole chart. It’s just an air earth fire mess 😂😭
Posted by lilyofthevalleyIf I start to lose physical attraction or start to think you’re stupid then it’s breakup time because my foot is already out of the door...
have you ever liked someone so much, even when you notice he's a airhead, a part of you is like "maybe is just about this subject, maybe he don't want to talk today too much, maybe he's more creative than logical.... 😅" but nope, he's a bimbo.
stupid horny me them keep thinking, "mAyBE hE cAn lEArN" 😂
but I have a gem mars, so that make its less physical, more mental, and not only to be smart, to be witty too.
Just imagine... virgo venus + aqua venus.
The most entertaining thing to watch.
Virgo gets all demonstrative mushy lovey dovey.
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by BasorexiaJust imagine... virgo venus + aqua venus.
The most entertaining thing to watch.
Virgo gets all demonstrative mushy lovey dovey.
I was with my cap ex/aqua Venus for over 10 years.. I think our duo cancer moons were what made us stick like glue, though.
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Two Cancer Moons together is the best. So nurturing, understanding and loving! 🥰
Posted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lolclick to expand
Posted by Jules-llPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
This is all true. We notice your likes and cater to them. The problem is finding someone to do the same for us. Almost impossible I think. Maybe we need to date another Virgo Venus? I've not tried this, but it sounds like awkward, familiar heavenliness...click to expand
I have thought about that but, my problem is that I'm not good at receiving gift or favors, I'm more used to doing them for others.
my cap moon doesn't help either, if I get something I feel I need to reciprocate somehow, guess I am screw ‾\_(ツ)_/‾
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Jules-llPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
This is all true. We notice your likes and cater to them. The problem is finding someone to do the same for us. Almost impossible I think. Maybe we need to date another Virgo Venus? I've not tried this, but it sounds like awkward, familiar heavenliness...
My sons dad is aqua venus with Virgo mars... he actually is more thoughtful than I am. Look for a Virgo mars lol ( I also have venus in Virgo)
Anytime he goes to the store he will bring something back for me, he won’t even ask if I’m hungry he will automatically grab me a meal if he’s getting something for himself. He would buy me stuff all th time without me asking, like he bought me wireless ear buds when I started back at the gym just because he thought they would be better than the old school ones that I had. He is the most thoughtful person I’ve ever been with, definitely set the bar high
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Aqua Venus, Virgo Mars approved 👍🏼
Posted by BasorexiaJust imagine... virgo venus + aqua venus.
The most entertaining thing to watch.
Virgo gets all demonstrative mushy lovey dovey.
Are you still around? Would love to hear your reasoning. I mean. I think I get it, but...
Posted by EndlessPosted by Jules-llPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
This is all true. We notice your likes and cater to them. The problem is finding someone to do the same for us. Almost impossible I think. Maybe we need to date another Virgo Venus? I've not tried this, but it sounds like awkward, familiar heavenliness...
I have thought about that but, my problem is that I'm not good at receiving gift or favors, I'm more used to doing them for others.
my cap moon doesn't help either, if I get something I feel I need to reciprocate somehow, guess I am screw ‾\_(ツ)_/‾
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Posted by Mactavish_RPosted by BasorexiaJust imagine... virgo venus + aqua venus.
The most entertaining thing to watch.
Virgo gets all demonstrative mushy lovey dovey.
I am an Aqua Venus who dated a Scorpio Sun/Taurus Moon/Virgo Venus for almost a year....
Just don't ask!
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Personally, I think it works very well. Dunno if that’d be the case if I weren’t also a Virgo stellium, but I am, so suck it. 😋
Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by Jules-llPosted by Ocelot009Posted by SeaLionY'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!
Virgo in Venus people would be one of those people who remember all your allergies and various issues. They'll make sure to make you a coffee but substitute it with soy or almond milk if your lactose intolerant lol
This is all true. We notice your likes and cater to them. The problem is finding someone to do the same for us. Almost impossible I think. Maybe we need to date another Virgo Venus? I've not tried this, but it sounds like awkward, familiar heavenliness...
My sons dad is aqua venus with Virgo mars... he actually is more thoughtful than I am. Look for a Virgo mars lol ( I also have venus in Virgo)
Anytime he goes to the store he will bring something back for me, he won’t even ask if I’m hungry he will automatically grab me a meal if he’s getting something for himself. He would buy me stuff all th time without me asking, like he bought me wireless ear buds when I started back at the gym just because he thought they would be better than the old school ones that I had. He is the most thoughtful person I’ve ever been with, definitely set the bar high
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I remember one time we were shopping, and he offered to go get a coffee for me. Nice, right? He came back with a coffee with cream in it. I don't drink milk, haven't had milk in my coffee for a long time. My dad didn't understand why I got so upset with him. He said "it's just coffee". But to me it was so much more than that. It was that we had been together for many years, and he didn't notice how I take my coffee. These are the little things I would like someone to pay attention to. It would mean more to me than any big, grand gesture. I give it to my significant other, it would be nice to get in return...
Didn’t mean to jump on ya but I’d like your input pls? 🥺
Should i send my virgo stellium crush (August 28) a cute bday voice note?
I met him on an amazing date abroad in Sg. Went so amazing. Virtual 2nd date was terrible. Then we kinda ghosted each other. Oh yea, also i commented on his post (He posted something about not being goodlooking like he said he would be. Which I think is a lie. Tongue) and i left comment knowing it would go well. Blame it on my aqua merc. *Clown Emoji Haha and def got ghosted. Sometimes he looks at my stories. But I miss him. I don't want to date him... but I would love to get to know him.
Hmm should I still send him a voice message?
Posted by Ocelot009One thing Is that a lot of Virgo Venus cues can be missed or taken advantage of. I feel like if you aren’t keen or you feel we are distant that might suggest we are cold - when In fact we probably just shy, neurotic and too caught up analyzing/ overanalysing. Virgo Venus folks know they overanalyse lol. Like I think my Virgo Venus is too reluctant to go all in so it has to assess the situation; can I be with this person, will there be a lot of conflict? Are they reliable?
One I will say we aim to please, if you were to compare Virgo Venus/ mars to anything. It would be Amazon Prime; we’ll do the deed and ask how was. like after your package got delivered. Was the order correct? Did you like it? What things could we improve on? Was it in time? Lol
Posted by PiscesGoddess19Didn’t mean to jump on ya but I’d like your input pls? 🥺
Should i send my virgo stellium crush (August 28) a cute bday voice note?
I met him on an amazing date abroad in Sg. Went so amazing. Virtual 2nd date was terrible. Then we kinda ghosted each other. Oh yea, also i commented on his post (He posted something about not being goodlooking like he said he would be. Which I think is a lie. Tongue) and i left comment knowing it would go well. Blame it on my aqua merc. *Clown Emoji Haha and def got ghosted. Sometimes he looks at my stories. But I miss him. I don't want to date him... but I would love to get to know him.
Hmm should I still send him a voice message?
Posted by Ocelot009One thing Is that a lot of Virgo Venus cues can be missed or taken advantage of. I feel like if you aren’t keen or you feel we are distant that might suggest we are cold - when In fact we probably just shy, neurotic and too caught up analyzing/ overanalysing. Virgo Venus folks know they overanalyse lol. Like I think my Virgo Venus is too reluctant to go all in so it has to assess the situation; can I be with this person, will there be a lot of conflict? Are they reliable?
One I will say we aim to please, if you were to compare Virgo Venus/ mars to anything. It would be Amazon Prime; we’ll do the deed and ask how was. like after your package got delivered. Was the order correct? Did you like it? What things could we improve on? Was it in time? Lol
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Are you still over thinking about this?
Posted by PiscesGoddess19Didn’t mean to jump on ya but I’d like your input pls? 🥺
Should i send my virgo stellium crush (August 28) a cute bday voice note?
I met him on an amazing date abroad in Sg. Went so amazing. Virtual 2nd date was terrible. Then we kinda ghosted each other. Oh yea, also i commented on his post (He posted something about not being goodlooking like he said he would be. Which I think is a lie. Tongue) and i left comment knowing it would go well. Blame it on my aqua merc. *Clown Emoji Haha and def got ghosted. Sometimes he looks at my stories. But I miss him. I don't want to date him... but I would love to get to know him.
Hmm should I still send him a voice message?
Posted by Ocelot009One thing Is that a lot of Virgo Venus cues can be missed or taken advantage of. I feel like if you aren’t keen or you feel we are distant that might suggest we are cold - when In fact we probably just shy, neurotic and too caught up analyzing/ overanalysing. Virgo Venus folks know they overanalyse lol. Like I think my Virgo Venus is too reluctant to go all in so it has to assess the situation; can I be with this person, will there be a lot of conflict? Are they reliable?
One I will say we aim to please, if you were to compare Virgo Venus/ mars to anything. It would be Amazon Prime; we’ll do the deed and ask how was. like after your package got delivered. Was the order correct? Did you like it? What things could we improve on? Was it in time? Lol
Are you still over thinking about this?
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Y'all are hilarious. How do you love? Give me the detz!!!