Should I do this or nah

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by EtherealTraveler on Monday, February 4, 2019 and has 4 replies.

Hi everyone I'm back

So tldr I want to do my last antic for 2019 by sending a valentine's day card to a girl who I knew for 2.5 years now (She's the Libra sun Cap moon chick). As far as I know, she is actually scared of me since the incident 2.5 years ago where she thought I stalked her (I did not, but she was under the impression) and was in fear (her mom helped her rejected me anyways, she's homoflexible though so meh). Despite so, my mind is still wavering around the possibility of doing one of my last antics before I leave high school, which is to send her a valentine's day card with a red rose saying cheesy stuff and kind stuff idk ending off with me asking her out for prom.

To clarify I was pranked 2 years in a row before that and people were sending me cards saying "I love you ET blah blah" in her name and in her close friend's name so I feel like its somewhat justified here since its just a prank. But with our history I'm also a bit concerned about the public backlash since as my friend analysed, there is a chance of her either slandering me again or everyone sees me as petty or w/e for pulling out a crappy prank card like this for petty reasons idk.

Her friends kinda ship me and her together for the giggles at one point so there's also that

Help plz

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Posted by nanobot

Doesn't seem like a good idea if she is truly frightened of you and felt like you stalked her, and her mother didn't want you two to be together (I assume her and her mother are close in context of this thread). Especially if you failed to clear up the misunderstanding with her that long ago. Let sleeping dogs lie bruh

she's gay anyways so

and her mom is a teacher so I guess its natural for her to be anti dating (she once indirectly hinted and called my classmate a thot)