I'm not a libra and I have a question, I believe every characteristics of Libra originate from balance, whether beauty or peace... But I don't know what's Libra's common narcissism(or self love?) gotta do with balance...or harmony...please enlighten me!
Geminis have a need to be right , aquas have God complex but libras are narcissistic?
I think libras aren't very likable. We can be of course but libras can be self absorbed without realizing it. However if you call us on it politely, I feel we are the most receptive to constructve criticism.
I have limited experience with each sign (mom is Gemini, dad and brother Libra, friends and dated a couple aquas and gems )
I like to look my best and can be self conscious. Is that narcissistic? I suppose that requires some self love or even just a reluctance for people to think poorly of me but I imagine most people would avoid that if they could.
I can be self absorbed but I do my best not to indulge it.
Haha, I mean, it is something that Librans get accused of a lot, along with being superficial. I disagree with the assessment I think they’re a lot more complicated than they let on...
The way that I understand it is that Libra is the only inanimate object in the zodiac, and they sort of do everything they can to avoid human error. They judge and justify every action according to this idealised view of how the world should work and pretend not to indulge in ugliness and pettiness. I’m not saying they don’t but that is the image they are determined to uphold as best they can. And I think that when someone has the courage of their convictions and a justification for their every action it can come across as arrogance when it is simply the self-possession and confidence that comes from a considered position in life.
Libra is also painfully aware of other people no matter what it looks like, and is constantly balancing out the energy of others. What you see of libra is only ever in relation to you, so I would suggest a louder person will see Librans as quiet (trying to balance out energy) and a quiet person will see them as louder (probably trying to help you feel comfortable)
And their love of beauty is not strictly narcissism but an appreciation for what imagery can communicate with others. They are the relational sign. Art speaks volumes and helps people relate to others in the most unique way. And caring what people think about your appearance is only another way of valuing other people and their opinions as much as your own.
Obviously any sign can be narcissistic if they’re unevolved, aries can be me first at all cost, taurus can think only of their own consumption, gemini and aquarius can both be completely convinced of their own opinions being better than anyone else’s, Leo can be utterly dependant on the spotlight and sagittarius on their own journey and forward progression, the water signs can be obsessed with their own emotions to the detriment of others, Virgo can pick holes in everyone else convinced that their opinion is everything.... and yes, Librans can be narcissists as well.
But let’s give people the benefit of the doubt, I’m sure they can’t all be bad! 😂
My ex was super narcissistic, blame shifted all the time. Probably the best manipulator I’ve ever met. Super disrespectful especially if she didn’t get her way and would let you know and put you down if you weren’t giving her what she wanted. A lot more this is just a glimpse. I believe she got a lot of it from her father