Libra leaving door open? Or just being nice?

We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

She's just being a Libra. Nice as always so there's no fault for her that rocked the boat and bridge unburned.

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

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I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

I try to be friendly with all my ex's. Usually theyre so pissed off at me though.... womp womp

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

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I try to be friendly with all my ex's. Usually theyre so pissed off at me though.... womp womp

Yeah after me dropping the presents off and her calling me beyond pissed about it kinda really threw me for a loop and I was defientally hurt about it. On Christmas Eve I asked if I could have the dog for the day on Christmas, told me she’s dropping him off at her parents before work and she’ll let me know(I kinda answer then) Christmas morning texted me saying maybe next time, and later that night texted me again saying sorry you didn’t get to see him.

She’s definitely done some stuff to really piss me off, I’d forgive her still I know tho..

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

I still wonder if maybe she’ll come back?? I thought she kind of was starting too with the whole following me to gym and going out to dinner deal, but giving her and her parents presents ruined all that. Just trying to stay distant for now and give her her space

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

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hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

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She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

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I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

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Never let a anyone push you into doing something you are not ready to do - Taurus are normally pretty solid and stable people. My guy is a Libra and I have to stay solid and not let his air make me swirl. Do what you do and if the block doesn't fit the round hole then fuck it. It's got to work for us Taurus or not. Simple.

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

I still wonder if maybe she’ll come back?? I thought she kind of was starting too with the whole following me to gym and going out to dinner deal, but giving her and her parents presents ruined all that. Just trying to stay distant for now and give her her space

I think it's a good idea to give each other space. When a relationship ends there is a reason for that and it rarely works the second time. Leave her alone. You were nice leaving the gifts and how would you have known that they were going to gift the same thing. She didn't appreciate it which shows how she feels about you. Let her be.

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I’m giving her the space but it’s kinda hard with her going to the same gym and our schedules lining for our time to do so being the same. My mail is still going to her house too, she ended up texting me the next day after the present thing to say “I was very upset with you, but thanks. It was a nice gesture”

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

Never let a anyone push you into doing something you are not ready to do - Taurus are normally pretty solid and stable people. My guy is a Libra and I have to stay solid and not let his air make me swirl. Do what you do and if the block doesn't fit the round hole then fuck it. It's got to work for us Taurus or not. Simple.

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That’s the thing too, I was totally ready. I was gonna propose before the first break up, then second time around I was gonna do it again on a NYC trip we had planned for the middle of this month. She called up my ex best friend to ask him if she’s wasting her time on me because she wasn’t sure if I was gonna propose or not. Like wtf I bought you $ 1.5k rose gold necklace and $ 500 rose gold earrings to have matching jewelry for the ring I was gonna get you..twice now..

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

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Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

Never let a anyone push you into doing something you are not ready to do - Taurus are normally pretty solid and stable people. My guy is a Libra and I have to stay solid and not let his air make me swirl. Do what you do and if the block doesn't fit the round hole then fuck it. It's got to work for us Taurus or not. Simple.

That’s the thing too, I was totally ready. I was gonna propose before the first break up, then second time around I was gonna do it again on a NYC trip we had planned for the middle of this month. She called up my ex best friend to ask him if she’s wasting her time on me because she wasn’t sure if I was gonna propose or not. Like wtf I bought you $ 1.5k rose gold necklace and $ 500 rose gold earrings to have matching jewelry for the ring I was gonna get you..twice now..

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people should not be pushed into anything - any good normal woman would love to be spoiled by your gifts and not push for more - you are dodging a bullet and should feel lucky. Do you think she would be different if you got married ? that's a firm NO

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

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huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

Also having read many of the comments saying "don't be pushed into marriage"- I agree wholeheartedly. If you are not ready, you are not ready. Marriage should not be entered into lightly. But if you did want to propose (as you said) and brought the ring, and if your intention to marry her remains, you need to communicate that. But I would think hard before you do anything else.

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

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Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

Never let a anyone push you into doing something you are not ready to do - Taurus are normally pretty solid and stable people. My guy is a Libra and I have to stay solid and not let his air make me swirl. Do what you do and if the block doesn't fit the round hole then fuck it. It's got to work for us Taurus or not. Simple.

That’s the thing too, I was totally ready. I was gonna propose before the first break up, then second time around I was gonna do it again on a NYC trip we had planned for the middle of this month. She called up my ex best friend to ask him if she’s wasting her time on me because she wasn’t sure if I was gonna propose or not. Like wtf I bought you $ 1.5k rose gold necklace and $ 500 rose gold earrings to have matching jewelry for the ring I was gonna get you..twice now..

people should not be pushed into anything - any good normal woman would love to be spoiled by your gifts and not push for more - you are dodging a bullet and should feel lucky. Do you think she would be different if you got married ? that's a firm NO

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I’ve gone pretty far out my way for her and she’s defientally done some on her part, basically to just do it to say she did it IMO (type to hold the door open for an elderly couple, for the praise of holding the door open) she’d always say if we got married how much easier things would be too🙄

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

Never let a anyone push you into doing something you are not ready to do - Taurus are normally pretty solid and stable people. My guy is a Libra and I have to stay solid and not let his air make me swirl. Do what you do and if the block doesn't fit the round hole then fuck it. It's got to work for us Taurus or not. Simple.

That’s the thing too, I was totally ready. I was gonna propose before the first break up, then second time around I was gonna do it again on a NYC trip we had planned for the middle of this month. She called up my ex best friend to ask him if she’s wasting her time on me because she wasn’t sure if I was gonna propose or not. Like wtf I bought you $ 1.5k rose gold necklace and $ 500 rose gold earrings to have matching jewelry for the ring I was gonna get you..twice now..

people should not be pushed into anything - any good normal woman would love to be spoiled by your gifts and not push for more - you are dodging a bullet and should feel lucky. Do you think she would be different if you got married ? that's a firm NO

I’ve gone pretty far out my way for her and she’s defientally done some on her part, basically to just do it to say she did it IMO (type to hold the door open for an elderly couple, for the praise of holding the door open) she’d always say if we got married how much easier things would be too🙄

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marriage makes things harder not easier and

it's "definitely".

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

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yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

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We broke up for the second time like a month ago, lived together for two years and this year split for like 6 months and got back together for almost another 5, I was holding some resentments and had some personal problems going on, showed love to her but didn’t do my best, told her I didn’t exactly realize how bad I was doing for the last month maybe 2 and kinda threw the break up out there and she ended up doing it a week later. Tried telling her I was gonna make the changes and put the full blown effort in again, she told me I’m the perfect guy in her eyes, doesn’t want me to disconnect from her life, and that I can store the boat and a few other things at her place till spring. Said “but I’m not saying when spring time rolls around we’re gonna fall in love again and date again” she had her ex over with a couple other friends a week after the break up

She talked me into joining a specific gym saying she was going to another but every time I’ve showed up now she’s going to this one? Approached me one night we hung out a little ended up getting dinner thought things were looking up, dropped Christmas presents off at her and her parents house last week (already bought and not returnable, puzzle pictures of family members of theirs) she called me pissed cause saying that’s what she got them and so did her dad to her mom and now I ruined their gifts and she’s gone totally cold. Not sure what to think at all.

At first I was thinking there was defientally a chance cause she basically told she didn’t want to break up but did it anyway because of some honestly really stupid reasons, but the whole boat thing at her place and don’t disconnect and you can see the dog when you want and her showing up and wanting to get dinner? I don’t know if the doors open or I’m on a back burner or if she’s just being a nice person??

she's just killing time Dude, she's not a keeper because she's not in the right head space to settle down and stop acting like she's still in high school

She graduated college beginning of last year and told me “it’s crazy, like I’m done with with school, I feel like my life has always been this high school phase” she defientally does some immature shit. But she was begging for a ring basically for the longest time, mad that I didn’t do it yet. Her mom would try and convince me to all the time also, bascailly just flat out tell me I need to really

Never let a anyone push you into doing something you are not ready to do - Taurus are normally pretty solid and stable people. My guy is a Libra and I have to stay solid and not let his air make me swirl. Do what you do and if the block doesn't fit the round hole then fuck it. It's got to work for us Taurus or not. Simple.

That’s the thing too, I was totally ready. I was gonna propose before the first break up, then second time around I was gonna do it again on a NYC trip we had planned for the middle of this month. She called up my ex best friend to ask him if she’s wasting her time on me because she wasn’t sure if I was gonna propose or not. Like wtf I bought you $ 1.5k rose gold necklace and $ 500 rose gold earrings to have matching jewelry for the ring I was gonna get you..twice now..

people should not be pushed into anything - any good normal woman would love to be spoiled by your gifts and not push for more - you are dodging a bullet and should feel lucky. Do you think she would be different if you got married ? that's a firm NO

I’ve gone pretty far out my way for her and she’s defientally done some on her part, basically to just do it to say she did it IMO (type to hold the door open for an elderly couple, for the praise of holding the door open) she’d always say if we got married how much easier things would be too🙄

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marriage doesn't make thing easier - it takes work to make a good marriage and not just doing small good deeds for the praise

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

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She takes everyone’s advice to heart she can’t make her own decisions practically. And I feel like everything is basically persuading her to get rid of me and I’m over here like uhh it’s not actually like that? Why don’t you listen to me?? And I’m hoping I’ll have another shot but this would be round three now and who knows what she’s feeling or thinking at this point with all the shit that’s happened.. I’m really wondering if she’ll try and come back a little at some point?

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

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IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

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that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

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WTF does her mom have to do with anything - JFC some people are just way wanting too much control over shit lol this is my opinion of course lol I would have told her to fuck the hell out of my business

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

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Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

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Stop blaming this on her mom. Pussy move.

You argued and refused to make time to resolve it. I’m sure there are other reasons aside from the ones you’ve said as to why she broke up with you.

Takes 2 to tango. Take accountability if you want to change like you kept promising her.

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

WTF does her mom have to do with anything - JFC some people are just way wanting too much control over shit lol this is my opinion of course lol I would have told her to fuck the hell out of my business

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Her mom loved to try and basically be “the one looking in” and trying to tell the both of us what to do, she hated it and told me not to listen to her basically but at the end of the day would run to her for advice

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

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never and I don't expect her too and I sure as hell am never going to see her again and that is ok by me - I asked her several times to get together halfway between us to discuss / hash things out and establish a better friendship for the future but she refused to do it

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

WTF does her mom have to do with anything - JFC some people are just way wanting too much control over shit lol this is my opinion of course lol I would have told her to fuck the hell out of my business

Her mom loved to try and basically be “the one looking in” and trying to tell the both of us what to do, she hated it and told me not to listen to her basically but at the end of the day would run to her for advice

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not a good thing IMHO

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

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Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

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hahaha - every attempt she made at an apology she ended with "but what is the big deal" - you don't apologize and then negate it by saying I'm sorry - geez, but what is the big deal ... weak azz shyte

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

Stop blaming this on her mom. Pussy move.

You argued and refused to make time to resolve it. I’m sure there are other reasons aside from the ones you’ve said as to why she broke up with you.

Takes 2 to tango. Take accountability if you want to change like you kept promising her.

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Yeah her moms one thing, there was other things going on that was my fault and I tried explaing that to her during our last talk before everything became final. Spilled my heart out and explained I didn’t realize I was hurting her and that I was gonna change, since the break up I’ve followed through with everything and I’ve made some serious changes in myself, but it’s not like it was seriously all that hard, me and her had been thru worst

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

Stop blaming this on her mom. Pussy move.

You argued and refused to make time to resolve it. I’m sure there are other reasons aside from the ones you’ve said as to why she broke up with you.

Takes 2 to tango. Take accountability if you want to change like you kept promising her.

Yeah her moms one thing, there was other things going on that was my fault and I tried explaing that to her during our last talk before everything became final. Spilled my heart out and explained I didn’t realize I was hurting her and that I was gonna change, since the break up I’ve followed through with everything and I’ve made some serious changes in myself, but it’s not like it was seriously all that hard, me and her had been thru worst

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Blaming your relationship problems on her mom while you bitch and moan to internet strangers really reads as ‘serious change’ 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

hahaha - every attempt she made at an apology she ended with "but what is the big deal" - you don't apologize and then negate it by saying I'm sorry - geez, but what is the big deal ... weak azz shyte

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Yeah that’s basically my ex, it’s like pulling teeth to get an apology. Couldn’t take responsibility for her actions and would justify any wrong doing of hers

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either

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life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

Stop blaming this on her mom. Pussy move.

You argued and refused to make time to resolve it. I’m sure there are other reasons aside from the ones you’ve said as to why she broke up with you.

Takes 2 to tango. Take accountability if you want to change like you kept promising her.

Yeah her moms one thing, there was other things going on that was my fault and I tried explaing that to her during our last talk before everything became final. Spilled my heart out and explained I didn’t realize I was hurting her and that I was gonna change, since the break up I’ve followed through with everything and I’ve made some serious changes in myself, but it’s not like it was seriously all that hard, me and her had been thru worst

Blaming your relationship problems on her mom while you bitch and moan to internet strangers really reads as ‘serious change’ 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

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I’m really not blaming it on her mom, I’m just saying her mom played a part in what happened. And I posted this for peoples thoughts and advice because I want to rekindle things with her

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

hahaha - every attempt she made at an apology she ended with "but what is the big deal" - you don't apologize and then negate it by saying I'm sorry - geez, but what is the big deal ... weak azz shyte

Yeah that’s basically my ex, it’s like pulling teeth to get an apology. Couldn’t take responsibility for her actions and would justify any wrong doing of hers

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that's why people do not meet and get married within a short period of time - it takes time, work, and mistakes on both sides to gel over a long period of time to see if you are truly compatible enough to spend your life together

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either

life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men

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You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either

life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men

You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her

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well it's either to make you jealous which is not a good move, or he can marry her and take that headache off your hands which I think is best - sorry - I don't wish you pain but she sounds like a freaking pain in the azz to me cause I lived same for a long time and I'm partial to that kind of cray cray

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

hahaha - every attempt she made at an apology she ended with "but what is the big deal" - you don't apologize and then negate it by saying I'm sorry - geez, but what is the big deal ... weak azz shyte

Yeah that’s basically my ex, it’s like pulling teeth to get an apology. Couldn’t take responsibility for her actions and would justify any wrong doing of hers

that's why people do not meet and get married within a short period of time - it takes time, work, and mistakes on both sides to gel over a long period of time to see if you are truly compatible enough to spend your life together

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Exactly! I kinda put a timeline on us (maybe shouldn’t have but I felt it was fine to do) of basically dating for 2 years so that we could go through all that shit and get it all figured out and once that two years hit almost to the date she ended it. And kinda held it against me that I wanted to wait?..

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I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

Well, does she? Deserve better I mean.

IMO no, I was always there for her, always loved on her, always a support even this second time around and I was holding some resentments I still put in the effort (not as much as I probably should have) her mom kept telling me to propose to her and that she wanted me too. I think her mom just got pissed at one point cause we started fighting after thanksgiving and she probably thought I wasn’t gonna do it and just said fuck it

Stop blaming this on her mom. Pussy move.

You argued and refused to make time to resolve it. I’m sure there are other reasons aside from the ones you’ve said as to why she broke up with you.

Takes 2 to tango. Take accountability if you want to change like you kept promising her.

Yeah her moms one thing, there was other things going on that was my fault and I tried explaing that to her during our last talk before everything became final. Spilled my heart out and explained I didn’t realize I was hurting her and that I was gonna change, since the break up I’ve followed through with everything and I’ve made some serious changes in myself, but it’s not like it was seriously all that hard, me and her had been thru worst

Blaming your relationship problems on her mom while you bitch and moan to internet strangers really reads as ‘serious change’ 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I’m really not blaming it on her mom, I’m just saying her mom played a part in what happened. And I posted this for peoples thoughts and advice because I want to rekindle things with her

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either

life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men

You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her

well it's either to make you jealous which is not a good move, or he can marry her and take that headache off your hands which I think is best - sorry - I don't wish you pain but she sounds like a freaking pain in the azz to me cause I lived same for a long time and I'm partial to that kind of cray cray

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She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I fuckin did multiples of times..

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Ask her I’m getting that’s what she wants. You to ask. Libra as shifty as they are, can and always will be, emotionally honest.

Honesty is so attractive.

I half assed lies about smoking weed two or three times and ended up coming clean on it, she’s forever held it over me. Doesn’t care about what or that I owned up to it, to her I lied to her face and she hated it. Happened like the first year/beginning of second

hearing you talk about her brings back nightmares of my very long best friend relationship - almost 40 years - yeah I'm old AF - she had her list stored up and when I said anything, she's rattle off this list of shit that happened and I thought was over years before and they weren't even a big deal but she made them a big deal. Who the Fuck does that - right ? She would bring up stuff from the past but twist it to make her sound like such the victim. Twisted. I finally ended the agony when she interfered in my marriage. I finally stood my ground and said no. Prior to that I had always somehow forgiven her. Now she can live with her delusions and I don't have to be a part of it. I'm free and day'm it feels good.

I lived in total confusion of always wondering “am I doing it to her? Or she doing it to me? I feel like she’s doing it to me, saying I’m doing it to her but she expects me to do something big to make it right? Wtf is going on here?” Couldn’t ever figure my head out on the shit. She is a MASTER at mind games

Yes, that is what I went through for a very long time - you know she is doing it to you because you are not doing anything to her - she seems to be always looking for the next drama fest - my ex bff was - TWISTED - that was my word for her - she twisted everything - I felt like I was being sucked into a tornado and I had to get out and stay out of all that air - I'm much better on solid ground. Now that I have a Libra male in my life, it's quite different. He's not like that. He doesn't drag me into drama and stress. He's got a Taurus Moon though which helps. What is her Moon?

Sounds very much the same, was your ex bff a libra?? Her ex bff doesn’t want anything to do with her anymore because of the shit she put her through and her other ex bff was basically the same but has recently been hanging out again. I believe her moon is Capricorn

yes I mentioned that above - my moon is in Capricorn as well and I'm a Taurus ... her and I had a lot of really good times and I supported her always but she did me dirty after all that time - of course claiming it was my fault lol

Has she ever came back to apologize or try and be friends again or anything??

hahaha - every attempt she made at an apology she ended with "but what is the big deal" - you don't apologize and then negate it by saying I'm sorry - geez, but what is the big deal ... weak azz shyte

Yeah that’s basically my ex, it’s like pulling teeth to get an apology. Couldn’t take responsibility for her actions and would justify any wrong doing of hers

that's why people do not meet and get married within a short period of time - it takes time, work, and mistakes on both sides to gel over a long period of time to see if you are truly compatible enough to spend your life together

Exactly! I kinda put a timeline on us (maybe shouldn’t have but I felt it was fine to do) of basically dating for 2 years so that we could go through all that shit and get it all figured out and once that two years hit almost to the date she ended it. And kinda held it against me that I wanted to wait?..

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good for you - that sounds pretty solid to me - so stop letting her tell you that you are the one that has done all the wrong - of course you wanted to wait because of her behavior your subconscious was sending you subliminal red flags and good thing it was or you would have made a big mistake

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This is something we Libras suffer from- we are not good at letting go. We want to hold on to opportunities, afraid of completely severing ties (unless we are really really really done with you), and as LibraSupreme said, we don't burn the bridges. Unfortunately, the impact of our actions on others are this- you are unsure of the status of your relationship and just overall uncertainty. As a Taurus, you can push her for clear answers. Communicate with her openly. Show her kindness. And most importantly, ask yourself if this is what you want. You need to have a conversation to find out what is going on. Perhaps you have found this in your 2yrs with your Libra is that we like to talk things out. That might be a good starting point. I hope things work out (somewhat) for you

Yeah she likes to talk things out forsure.. we had a pretty big fight and she wanted to talk things out then, I told her tomorrow cause it was late and we both were pissed so I wanted us to both calm down. Next 4 days we tried talking and schedules made it hard and she got upset that we didn’t really have time. Basically made the decision and next day we went to dinner and I had my last shot, she didn’t listen to understand anything I was saying and started asking questions about things I had basically just answered. Told me she watched the break up and it was like our situation and that she felt we needed to end things because that’s what they did in the movie🙄 and I’m 90% sure her mom told her she deserves better cause I hadn’t put a ring on it yet

huh sounds like something I would do too (listen to my mum/friends and let that influence my decision). Thankfully I have matured and now would take advice from friends but will not act on it. Sounds like in light of the recent events, she is questioning the longevity of your relationship and most importantly your true intentions towards her. Combined with the fact that the circumstances of the movie is matching yours is confirming the accuracy of her decision to break up even further in her mind. If you truly think you want to be with her in the long run, next time you get to have "the talk", emphasise that you see yourselves together. Libras are romantic at heart, so tell her you see your future in her. But also give her space, otherwise she will feel suffocated by all these conflicting emotions. It's a balancing act my friend, and if you truly want her you have to tread firmly (when reaffirming your love) but also lightly (by saying that she can have time to think but you are here for her).

that sounds good but it seems to me that she is very immature - unlike you who has matured ...

Yeah she has her immaturity’s for sure, and I’m guilty of my wrong doings. The last month we were together I kinda became a little bit of a bag of shit but tried explaining to her I didn’t realize I was being that way and that I’m doing everything in my power to get all the negative shit out my head and turn things around. She just said next girl will get the perfect guy if you follow thru with it, well I wasn’t joking and I’ve followed thru with it all. Not like it was some devesting relationship ending shit either

life is about learning and growing into better people - that's great but it's just a part of life and people make mistakes even at my age - you are right, that's not a deal breaker - ok so she made you aware of some bad behavior or something and you fixed it - good for you - I would bet that if you mentioned one of her flaws she would be pizzed and not even try to fix it lol - and it sounds like she is trying to stuff you back into the "just friends" category - I'm sure to ease her mind that it's ok now for her to go out with other men

You’re exactly right she’d get upset and then it’d be my fault for pointing out a flaw. And after the first week she had her ex over at her house with some other friends and it’s just like really? I think she’s talking to him again and everything I’ve heard about this dude is that he’s just the biggest price of shit around and has cheated in every relationship of his including on her

well it's either to make you jealous which is not a good move, or he can marry her and take that headache off your hands which I think is best - sorry - I don't wish you pain but she sounds like a freaking pain in the azz to me cause I lived same for a long time and I'm partial to that kind of cray cray

She went on a few dates the first break up and told me she only did it because she know it would get around to me and make me mad because she wanted me to just show up with the answers. Which I fuckin did multiples of times..

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you are not dealing with a mature woman, she is still a spoiled child