Shy guys asked to be Dom in bed, would this scare you?

Tell me your thoughts!

My guy says he likes lovemaking to be gentle, but I love it rough and have asked him to do some risqué things in our future endeavors, he has agreed. But i've yet to see him since that talk, could he be scared/intimidated?

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
In my experiences it's usually the seemingly "shy" low key men that turn into animals in the bedroom and tend to like to dominate in bed. That's probably why I'm so attracted to the strong silent type.

Oh, but I got off track from the question lol. Yes in your case (to me) it sounds like he is possibly intimidated by you. Cure that with tons of positive reinforcement and letting him know exactly how you like something. Example: If you like him to nibble on your neck, tell him. When he does it tell him how good it feels and how much he is turning you on. Just keep giving positive and constructive feedback and he'll be out of his shell in no time! 😉

He's not shy shy, he has tons of friends, can be the life of the party, but he admitted that he was still shy around me. Awww lol! And yes, omg he's an animal in bed, he makes me see fireworks!!!!

I believe you are right that perhaps he's intimidated by this task, he doesn't want to disappoint me, but he won't I know it. I will give him time and lots of positive reinforcement when it happens. I am blown away that he would do what I ask, because it is quite freaky lol! Nobody would believe I love that kind of stuff because i'm so innocent looking. 😉