@VenusStar
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What makes guys approach one girl and not the other when they are both
Why Men Prefer Certain Body Types Over Others
Men may prefer specific body types due to cultural influences, personal attractions, or subconscious preferences. Despite both women being equally attractive, factors like body shape and individual taste can influence approach behavior. Understanding these preferences involves considering societal standards and personal biases that shape attraction.
they do? I don't.
It's how approachable they make themselves. If they are both attractive, and one smiles at me, and the other doesn't, guess who I am going to go up to?
Posted by VenusStar
equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.Isn't Adele fat?
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my husband says both are too chubby, not obese of course.
and i'm like, even kardashian??
says it's too unproportionate. not in the least attractive to him. lol talk about critical eye. *smh* maybe that's the virgo part.
Charlize theron 12th house leo, taurus mars.
that's what he believes is lovely.
so, OP, every man has different tastes. lol
wow images are not showing today!!
Posted by VenusStar
equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.Isn't Adele fat?
Rein...she lost weight. She is more rubanesque now...
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cancer venus and cancer mars men /taurus venus/mars likes rubenesque bodies (according to astrology)
Posted by VenusStar
equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.Isn't Adele fat?
my husband says both are too chubby, not obese of course.
and i'm like, even kardashian??
says it's too unproportionate. not in the least attractive to him. lol talk about critical eye. *smh* maybe that's the virgo part.
I'd talk to Kardashian if I were single.
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wel at least you're one of the many men that think she's attractive. 😛
Posted by VenusStar
equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.Isn't Adele fat?
my husband says both are too chubby, not obese of course.
and i'm like, even kardashian??
says it's too unproportionate. not in the least attractive to him. lol talk about critical eye. *smh* maybe that's the virgo part.
i dont think your husband knows which kardashian kourtney is. probably not the op either if she is comparing her to adele...
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oh yeah, youre right. he doesn't keep up with the kardasians, but he has seen kim alot because when he goes on his email or news, he sees her alot featured, like when she did that photo stint with the butt going out and the champagne glass on her butt?? he was like wtf is that?? lol
i think everybody in the planet who has email sees the news headlines and they are on there ALOT!!!!
Posted by VenusStar
equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.
They aren't equally attractive. Hence why he approached one over the other...
Different strokes for different folks, and so on and so on, shooby dooby dooby...
My boyfriend approached me on a day I was sporting my Invader Zim Gir hoodie. He said the ears made me irresistable. *shrug* So many complex people with complex quirks, preferences, and wants at complex times.
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Men I've talked to about this have usually cited approachability.
I've been approached when I've been in a bad mood and not smiling at all but every time that happened the guy was quite creepy. And that's been quite rare. Usually I'm approached when I'm in a neutral mood or happy and the guy usually won't be creepy.
There will be stretches of time when I'm approached often, and stretches when I'm not at all. My mood is part of the reason, I think, but sometimes I'm not sure why it happens in a patterned way like that. Sometimes during the approach-often phase I will get overwhelmed and not want to leave my house for a few days because it's hard to handle the attention.
Posted by tiziani
I've never been one to approach women so I can't talk abour the initialBut long term, Adele has no real character that I see. She just sings and that's it.
Whereas Kourtneys vibe is very attractive.
So they always approach you?
Yeah or the more common scenario being nothing happens at all.
Two passing ships in the night (violins here)
But any relationship I had they approached me.
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When I did online dating ~10 years ago, I had a significantly higher success rate with compatibility, for friendship at the very least, when I initiated contact with men than the other way around.
My body type is super thick. So i attract taurus, sag, sag venus, taurus venus, cancer, and some venus aries.
Men like what they like.
Posted by deedee85
OK....I get approached by men.... a lot. I consider myself attractive but far from being the prettiest girl in the room and I don't dress or act like a hooker. I have been told that I have a good energy so I'm going to assume that it makes me more approachable.
You have that, "she looks like she'd fuck me" vibe.
Posted by VenusStar
equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.
Personality, OP. Same with men. I'll choose a not-so-good in the face dude over a handsome and buff man, if the first one has the charisma and persobality I am attracted to.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
i have the ultimate bytch face. men always tell me to smile.
so do i, its kinda weird cus you can totally go from like bitch face to approachable and pretty in a split second.. its like a different person.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
i have the ultimate bytch face. men always tell me to smile.so do i, its kinda weird cus you can totally go from like bitch face to approachable and pretty in a split second.. its like a different person.
its kind of stupid to judge a person by their facial expressions
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its instinctual
Posted by lisabethur8
Charlize theron 12th house leo, taurus mars.that's what he believes is lovely.
so, OP, every man has different tastes. lol
Ahhh - yee-aaahh.
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oh yay~lol the photos are showing. It didnt show before. 😄
Posted by Crabra
It's how approachable they make themselves. If they are both attractive, and one smiles at me, and the other doesn't, guess who I am going to go up to?
+1
It's all about who looks more approachable.
Posted by deedee85
OK....I get approached by men.... a lot. I consider myself attractive but far from being the prettiest girl in the room and I don't dress or act like a hooker. I have been told that I have a good energy so I'm going to assume that it makes me more approachable.You have that, "she looks like she'd fuck me" vibe.
Hahaha its funny that you say that. I always get told that I have "f" me eyes.
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they tell me I have the "she looks like she'd fuck me and slit my throat after eyes" but it doesn't stop em.
Posted by lisabethur8
Charlize theron 12th house leo, taurus mars.that's what he believes is lovely.
so, OP, every man has different tastes. lol
I've never been into South African women... and she's no exception.
Besides, who would want Sean Penn's leftovers?
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apparently she didnt want him. they aren't together anymore. It's so private for them as celebrities, no one knew...unless you go to Wikipedia. Someone at the celeb.com columns must update at Wikipedia to find out on these folks.
i guess Sean Penn is one of those Bad boys. Even Madonna and him couldnt make it.
Posted by lisabethur8
i guess Sean Penn is one of those Bad boys. Even Madonna and him couldnt make it.Most of his high-profile exes have been fire signs. Maybe he needs to work on a Cancer...
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that'll tame him.
*rubs hands together and makes a wish that he finds one* lol
Posted by lisabethur8
i guess Sean Penn is one of those Bad boys. Even Madonna and him couldnt make it.Most of his high-profile exes have been fire signs. Maybe he needs to work on a Cancer...
that'll tame him.
*rubs hands together and makes a wish that he finds one* lol
yuck, no!
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lol well you are married, Arielle.
not YOU specifically.
another cancer sun lady...with leo in her planets....because he likes leo suns.
So, let me get this straight ... you're an adult, and actually have to be told this information?
Are you really THAT thick?
Or, if I were to read further, would I find out that this is really about you being butt hurt, in where a guy chose a different than you, so you are so puny that you have resorted to comparing to make a competition.
"What makes guys approach one girl and not the other when they are both equally attractive?"
Whichever one has the beer.
Posted by tiziani
I've never been one to approach women so I can't talk abour the initialBut long term, Adele has no real character that I see. She just sings and that's it.
Whereas Kourtneys vibe is very attractive.
Did you just admit to fancying an Aries—?
Never thought I'd see the day😛
LOL I made the same mistake as everyone though, I thought we were talking about Khloe, the Cancer.. Kourtney is attractive but she comes off a little jaded. I get why though.
Awh man.. 😛
I can see that though.. Gemini moon connection and all that
Damn, I didn't even realise the Moon placement. That actually makes sense now why she's so tight with Scott. And just saw Lord Disick is an Sun opp Moon, full moon child - true to stereotype lol
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So what's the full moon child stereotype?
Posted by tiziani
I've never been one to approach women so I can't talk abour the initialBut long term, Adele has no real character that I see. She just sings and that's it.
Whereas Kourtneys vibe is very attractive.
Did you just admit to fancying an Aries—?
Never thought I'd see the day😛
LOL I made the same mistake as everyone though, I thought we were talking about Khloe, the Cancer.. Kourtney is attractive but she comes off a little jaded. I get why though.
Awh man.. 😛
I can see that though.. Gemini moon connection and all that
Damn, I didn't even realise the Moon placement. That actually makes sense now why she's so tight with Scott. And just saw Lord Disick is an Sun opp Moon, full moon child - true to stereotype lol
So what's the full moon child stereotype?
Split personalities like night and day.
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I don't know, I'm going to have consult my other personality to confirm but I don't know if I agree. 😄 thanks for the super quick answer!
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equally attractive. Body types are different. One is Adele curvy and the other is kourtney kardashian curvy. But the majority of the men favor the Adele type. I'm curious.