virgo bearing child help!!!!

Hello everyone I'm new to the board and been skimming through the post about aries men. I'm a virgo as you must know by now and I'm dating a aries guy. I have been on and off for about 3 1/2 years with him. I have been through the hot and cold stages with my aries. We started off dating while he was still with a female that was pregnant by him. We ended up getting alot closer and moving in together and he broke it off with her due to problems. After moving in together I wasn't sure he had left her alone, so I ended up asking him to leave and move out. Then I moved away for about 6 months. He still had my cellphone # and he called out of the blue and we hooked up and have been friends again ever since. We haven't been as exclusive again as before. I started dating others and had been in other relationships and he has been with his baby mom I guess since then. He came back around wanting to chase again and I kind of showed him I really wasn't that interested anymore. He tried and tried and finally I let him in a little more. He has always been the really sweet and romantic type that takes me out to dinner,around his mom,dad,brothers,friends and daughter.He says he loves me but I can't trust that because I feel he still deals with the scorpio who is the mother of his daughter, but you wouldn't beleive since we been back on with one another I got pregnant with his child. He knows and says he happy but I'm pissed due to his inconsistency through out the years. He shows support but I don't want to fall victim to given in totally to be hurt again like before, so i sabotage it by telling him I've been hanging out with my ex and don't want to be in a relationship with him. Of course I havent heard from him in a month and he shows up one day out of the blue behind me on my way to work on the interstate. I'm lost, I want to be with him and raise our child together but a part of me feels he's not ready because of his dealings with the other baby's mother. In which I don't have any real proof....... someone help!!! sorry so long

If he has a child with her shes always going to be in the picture whether you like it or not.If he did completely cut off her and his child he'd be nothing more than a sperm doner and dead beat which you won't want.If theres no proof hes probably not doing anything sexually,plus was living with you,etc.Scorps are possesive so I think you would know by now if it was going on between those two.

However at the same time....I might not trust him since you two started by cheating on someone else and this could be viewed as a lesson to you to avoid being "the other woman" in the future if he still is with her😉