Virgo & Virgo - Too Much Harmony??

Susan Miller: Virgo & Virgo. This sounds like a law firm or a new ad agency.

I had a bad case of puppy love with a Virgo Girl way back in high school. I'm pretty sure we would have married if the situation had allowed it. But I have to wonder how it would've turned out...

I imagine we would have been content with each other, but is that enough? Would V&V come to resemble a business partnership rather than a romantic partnership?

What do you Virgs think?

everyone just loves bashin us virgo men. lol. can we get some support plzz??

Strings: I think two mature Virgos could suit each other rather interestingly.

I don't.

I think familiarity might breed contempt - over time.

I know the astrologers say that Virgo is the Sign most likely to pair up with another Virgo, but I really have to wonder at the long-term happiness of a V+V couple...

Virgo07: everyone just loves bashin us virgo men.

They trash what they cannot understand, much less appreciate.

As for V+V: Look at the way StringsAttached and I spar on DXP...

Can anyone imagine YEARS of that contention?

Yeah, the sex would be Earth-Shattering, but at what cost??

That's what I loved about my Taurus Chick way back when: No-nonsense fucking, day in and day out...

She never tried to understand me, and that was the best way to have me.

I can just imagine a Virgo Woman: What's he thinking? Does he really like the way I move my hips? Should I thrust up now, or wait until he grinds?

Egad!

That's the difference between my Scorpio and a Virgo Woman: She moves when & where she wants to... then, challenges me to keep pace with her rhythm...

satori: I thought that Virgos appreciated women who have strong minds of their own...

I do. But a Virgo Woman would have the inside track into the way I think, and I could see that causing rancor.

Between Dyarstrabe, Evan_Kahn and Branh, I could not imagine a more intellectually arrogant group.

So... you have a limited imagination - is that our fault?

I suppose you'll blame us for being educated and well-read, too...

I'm a Scorpio and I can't stand your know-it-all talk and latent sexism.

Your opinion. My Scorpio Wife likes the fact that I know things, and can do things that make our lives run smoother. Sexism? I've been called many things over the years, but "sexist" ain't one of them...

I crave to know what it would be like between me and a Virgal... time and time again I have stated this.

It baffles me, what interests them?

What interests me? Intelligent & great conversation, laughter, wit, mystery, deeply emotional, caring, giving, non-player attitude, still courts in many ways, white hot sex both mentally and physically - open mindedness in this category please.

Virgo woman here. Never experienced contention nor contempt on any long term basis and I've had relationships with several Virgo men. The short term ones never got past 2 dates and both parties were in agreement it would not work...

As for wondering how I should thrust my hips, whether I slam like a door in the wind or what he's thinking...? Some women might need to get over any insecurities and just enjoy themselves. Sex is fun! Enjoy it and always be safe! 😄

Virgogotme...care to elaborate on the highlights of the Virgo Male, Scorpio Female sexual... seduction, foreplay, interaction and general dynamic from your perspective?

I am sure Dy can describe this as well as he fits this criteria.

Tondeala
What interests me? Intelligent & great conversation, laughter, wit, mystery, deeply emotional, caring, giving, non-player attitude, still courts in many ways, white hot sex both mentally and physically - open mindedness in this category please.

Well the "Deeply emotional and Non-player attitude" must be really important.
I have all the other qualities and many more in spades.

tonda,

Both Signs instinctively know that the sexual connection is the clearest & strongest for Scorpio & Virgo - great "chemistry" is cliche, but true in this case...

Scorpio has the native passion & creativity, and Virgo has the stamina & drive to please...

No complaints from this VirGuy!

Posted by Virgo07
everyone just loves bashin us virgo men. lol. can we get some support plzz??

Bashin Virgo men? Dude, go to the Gemini boards!!

Then Cajun I'd say give a Virgirl a try. I think it's just a matter of balancing emotional maturity with all of the qualities we find (or at least I find) important. I will be prejudice and say SEX matters, short term and LONG! I think relationships and intimacy wither and die without it regularly. 😢

Cajun: I crave to know what it would be like between me and a Virgal...

I was about 17 when I was head-over-heels in love with my VirGirl. At times, it's like having a female pal version of yourself (but, with boobies!). You don't have to stop and explain what you mean all the time. She gets your jokes, and you get hers. It can be very playful, even when you're both being serious...

As for sex: We never went all the way (dammit!), but we had some very passionate make-out sessions, where we'd kiss for hours - gave each other chapped lips more than once! She knows what you like, and she likes similar things, and it builds & builds until it's white hot...

Whew!

My point in starting this thread was trying to predict V+V after 20 years or so together. I feel that outsiders looking in would think: How boring! They are such homebodies, and keep to themselves so much! Would the two V's be happy? I'm pretty certain they would be. But, I also think there'd be a tendency to get too comfortable, and possibly stagnate...

I think the Signs need each other. Our differences don't necessarily "balance out" - they challenge us. Change makes us grow. Shit! Look at me: Three years ago, I was a content middle-aged Virgo bachelor. Now, I'm a happily married dude with a stay-at-home wife and twin babies - an amazing amount of change for a Virgo (or any Earth Sign guy). And yet, I'm the happiest I've been in many years. My life has a whole new focus & purpose - all because a Scorpio chick saw potential in me...

Can two Virgos be happy together? Sure. It would be like paradise. But if Adam & Eve hadn't gotten kicked out of Eden, there'd be no civilization - there's no incentive to improve Paradise...

That sounds like a great experience to have Dyarstrasse, thanks for sharing! 🙂

I think Virgo men are perfect. They understand, no one else does. That goes for sex too. They don't play around, no funny business but not too heavy either, not too rough and not too light, ah, absolute perfection. Yet when it came to marrying and living in, he chose a nice Scorpio and I a Taurus. Our partners don't understand us at all, so we can stay private. There's no staying private around each other because we are complete open books to each other. We both need a lot of alone time because that's how Virgos are. So what would the point be in being together if we were constantly trying to be alone? With the other signs you can have alone time even when you are together... but it is the lonely kind of alone time. Luckily I have my Virgos to be with, even though they are far away. They are the most important thing in life to me, because they prove I'm a member of the human race. I have a dream of that Virgo Paradise. But maybe it is not for this world.

Athena

I knew two Virgos who worked together and they hated each other.

virgogotme: you answered your own question!

Yes, and that happens way too often!

Not too many Virgos on DXP these days...

Strings: ...cut 'em dry and that's when it hits 'em!

I've advised you ladies to get tough with VirGuy for years now - but, only if you believe he truly cares for you. We can think too much, and can easily think ourselves out of a relationship, and that kind of jolt can make us take action...

If he doesn't respond to your ultimatum, then there was nothing there...

Strings: or he simply wasn't man enough...

Or, Virgo Women have high expectations for men...

Speaking from experience. Y'all are no easier to date than we are. But, like us VGs, well worth the effort...

V+V is tough to get started - we can nit-pick each other to death, and find a zillion reasons why it'll never work. And all those excuses make perfect sense...

And I still contend that V+V romance could morph into something resembling a business partnership. Satisfying, but static. Gets the job done, but there's more to life than a paycheck...

Try to imagine: DY & Strings as a couple in the Real World...

First few years: Debate about who loads the dishwasher correctly; torrid sex; more debate about the dishwasher; torrid sex; more debate about the dishwasher; torrid sex ~~

Remaining years: Strings loads the top rack, and DY loads the bottom rack of the dishwasher. Sex every week night after The O'Reilly Factor. House-cleaning every Saturday. Church and family visits on Sunday. The only changing variable: Seasonal clothing items...

Strings: Deb's been punishing Dy lately . . .

Nice diversion, but wrong...

But, I doubt that many VirGuys have the fond memories of VirGirl that I have - and will carry with me to the grave...

When I started working at my current location, there was an older Virgo female that I worked with on occasion, and it's like we immediately recognized each other - we agreed on so many things, and got along so well, and I think if circumstances had been different, we would've taken the relationship beyond work...

The irony is, it probably would've wound up looking like work when we were home alone...

he's gettin' his spar back on with Strings.

I have to. Scorps don't spar - conquest is their sole objective... global annihilation is their hobby!

I've had a relationship with a Virguy. The conversations alone turn me on. His intelligence was another turn on. The way he didn't bragg and the way he wanted to please me. WOOOOOOOOOW! Not just in the sack either. By the way I don't try to figure out which way I'm going to move my hips. I like to please but I know what I want. LMAO!

The only reason it didn't work out, was bad timing. Who knows maybe one! 😉

Great isn't it?! 🙂

I kicked with another Virgo my b-day was 14th hers was on the 11th.....BEST SEX I'VE EVER HAD...WE COULD GO FOR DAYS ON END...but the constant nitpicking did her in......

I Love the Intellectual conversations with another virgo also... Very interesting and entertaining & always has a bow head at the end...

Yep Pandy! I like digging! LOL

sorry did not read anything except the initial post

no point thinking about what cannot be. if there is a can be and you have time to think about it, then you should be making the efforts to make it a reality. but you have more life experience than us