Waiting for the call........................

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affaires
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OK, so I went out with some friends on Sunday night and I met a nice libran man. He was 'out with the boys'. We spent a couple of hours chatting etc. I was having a great night, he a little quieter but def showed signs of physical attraction. Anyway we live on the same route home, we shared a cab and I basically said I wasn't gonna do the horizontal with him - he was fine, it was my call he said. I said he could come in anyway and he did, we had a drink and chatted, he spent the night but no sex, little kissing cuddling etc. I slept, he didn't, I think he was kinda randy, but I held my ground. I said he could 'come back' - meaning u know, another time and he said 'I would love to'. In the morning we got up had coffee and I gave him my number on a piece of paper and he left. That was monday morning, its now Thursday lunch - do you think he'll call? When? Whats the rule you men follow these days? Im so out of touch with this!!
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Alana
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The rule is affairs is you never ever ring the guy...you let him get back to you, which he will if he thinks that you are a challenge...(which you were) - you kissed and cuddled which most guys like....they know they are half way there!!!!...but half way is not good enough.....he will want to taste the whole:-) so I've a feeling that yes, he will call you in the not too distant future...and again the golden rule...sorry not availalbe just now, call me tomoro, etc. and we can plan something....you'll have him eating out of the paw of your hand!!!:-)

Alana x



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Been going through the same darn irritating situation. Well, all I can say is just let the guy be. If and when he calls, you'll have a better idea about him. I made the mistake with trying to be a little fair with the calling thing. Like if it had been a little while, I'd just give a ring for a friendly chat. You know what happened? The guy got lazy with the calling because he knew the longer it went before he contacted me, I'd call him. Bad girl and foolish! This was the only guy I ever did this with. Now I've lost him because I haven't spoken to him for a few months. However, I'm positive it was him calling me in the middle of the night earlier in September. None of my other friends would be so rude. Haven't heard from him since. Anyway, the point I'm making is not to call the guy. Let him call you but don't be too available which again was another mistake of mine with this particular guy. I've learnt a big lesson. Just make sure you don't give into him too quickly. All the best.