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saying ‘I Love You’?

Why is this word makes people lose their shit and run up the hills?

When you are in relashionships with someone it means you DO love them!

Not ‘let’s het married tomorrow’ love.

Just love them. For those amazing qualities they possess for which you having relashionships with them!

Strangely when someone says ‘good morning,love’ - it’s ok and doesn’t seems like a big deal!

But saying ‘I love you’ as an every day thing - breaking relashionships because one party freaking out and run.

How dumb you supposed to be to understand if they said I love you and you aren’t ready to marry them - NO ONE can MAKE you! Just be happy that you are loved!

People are so stupid!!! Lol
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Posted by Ellygant
I think it’s a Pluto Scorp problem tbh. I don’t notice as much pressure and weight being on loving or liking in sag Pluto or libra Pluto.

I’ve had a dude stop seeing me because I told him I liked him. Not even love. Just like. Lol.

About a year later, he found out I was seeing two other people when I had been talking to him. He became offended and asked why would I do that if I said I had liked him, and obviously I was lying.

‘Well, I liked them too. 🤷🏼‍♀️‘

The look on his face was pretty priceless.
LMAO!!! Priceless!!! 👍👍👍
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.

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Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
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Because most of the time it would be a lie....? According to a study, most people only fall in love once in their lifetime.

One of the things I asked my Gem when he broke up with me was: "You said you loved me. Repeatedly over the years. Was it a lie?" This is because "I love you" is often (mis)interpreted as a step forward, a promise for a committed relationship, a "done deal". If the relationship dissolves, the dumpee is allowed to question the sincerity/ integrity/ reliability/ character of the dumper...which doesn't bode well with masculine pride.

"I love you" often means one of these: "I like you"; "You made me feel satisfied/happy/proud/relieved"; "I'm mirroring you"; "I feel a spark at the moment"; "I'm horny"; "I care for you". I agree it should be said more often in established relationships.

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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
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Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
People very different views as to what love means. So you think you love him after 2 weeks? Or lust him. Lol
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Ok. You forgot to say ‘it’s a serious question’ lol

I do love him. The reason is because he is the first man who were able to free me from love pains...completely! Like his actions made me feel at peace with myself and cut ties with. Scorpio and I didn’t think it was possible!

So I love him! For his wonderful qualities. For paying attention to me. He just texted me that he is flying back home and can’t wait to see me. I am overwhelmed with attention and all!

Do I love him to be with him? I don’t know!

Not at the time! Very possible if he isn’t some hidden sociopath or jerk that pretending to be normal...

It’s just 3 weeks!!!

And no, I will never forget him. As my savior! Same as I will never forget Scorpio as my wake up call and a person who returned me to life.

Love is a wonderful thing and it comes in different forms! None of which is bad...

...except when @twinkledtoe up my ass!

Lmao!
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Those 3 words are serious and if I said it, feel honored but the second you play games on me.. I can take back just as fast and make it seem like I never did.




Exactly!!! It happens after years of relashionships and it’s not a death sentence like people treating it!
Yeah I can become quite cold to a person I love with all my heart if they hurt me
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Oh! Yeah!!! 😡
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.
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Noooo...we were texting. And kept texting after. He just understood what I said.

He always calls me ‘love’ so I could ask ‘do you love me?’ But I didn’t because I know! better...

Lol
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.
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You are poor woman! I really feel for you.

Honestly...more and more day by day...
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.



Noooo...we were texting. And kept texting after. He just understood what I said.

He always calls me ‘love’ so I could ask ‘do you love me?’ But I didn’t because I know! better...

Lol

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Yeah texting on the PHONE. He sent you the Lol/laugh emoji to end the conversation.

He’s thinking ‘why is this bitch catching feelings’.
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
People very different views as to what love means. So you think you love him after 2 weeks? Or lust him. Lol
Ok. You forgot to say ‘it’s a serious question’ lol

I do love him. The reason is because he is the first man who were able to free me from love pains...completely! Like his actions made me feel at peace with myself and cut ties with. Scorpio and I didn’t think it was possible!

So I love him! For his wonderful qualities. For paying attention to me. He just texted me that he is flying back home and can’t wait to see me. I am overwhelmed with attention and all!

Do I love him to be with him? I don’t know!

Not at the time! Very possible if he isn’t some hidden sociopath or jerk that pretending to be normal...

It’s just 3 weeks!!!

And no, I will never forget him. As my savior! Same as I will never forget Scorpio as my wake up call and a person who returned me to life.

Love is a wonderful thing and it comes in different forms! None of which is bad...

...except when @twinkledtoe up my ass!

Lmao!
Well some people think about those words on a much deeper level. That’s why it’s such a big deal. I am not one to throw around those words nor is a my boyfriend. It is a big fucking deal when you say them. Like I want to be committed to you, maybe even your my last love in life. Not I’m grateful to you for saving me.

Sometimes people say it as a habit when you’ve been together a long time. The words are empty, they mean nothing! Especially when you don’t act like it anymore. Fuck that! Don’t tell me you love me unless it’s deep. And sending stupid love songs.., ugh reminds me of a Leo trying to get attention 😡

So don’t tell me what to think & how to be!!!!! Bahaha I will do & react how I want. 😂😂

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You free to react how you want but if you expressing your feelings - I’ll calm you down and you’ll be fine...
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.



Noooo...we were texting. And kept texting after. He just understood what I said.

He always calls me ‘love’ so I could ask ‘do you love me?’ But I didn’t because I know! better...

Lol


Yeah texting on the PHONE. He sent you the Lol/laugh emoji to end the conversation.

He’s thinking ‘why is this bitch catching feelings’.
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How really bitter are you!!!

Darn!

I am sorry you are so...screwed up...
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.



Noooo...we were texting. And kept texting after. He just understood what I said.

He always calls me ‘love’ so I could ask ‘do you love me?’ But I didn’t because I know! better...

Lol


Yeah texting on the PHONE. He sent you the Lol/laugh emoji to end the conversation.

He’s thinking ‘why is this bitch catching feelings’.
How really bitter are you!!!

Darn!

I am sorry you are so...screwed up...
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What’s so scary about saying I love you?

1. Your married

2. You met him 14 days ago

3. He’s just fucking you, not dating you.



You asked, I answered.
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
Awkward laugh to get you off the phone. Ouch.



Noooo...we were texting. And kept texting after. He just understood what I said.

He always calls me ‘love’ so I could ask ‘do you love me?’ But I didn’t because I know! better...

Lol


Yeah texting on the PHONE. He sent you the Lol/laugh emoji to end the conversation.

He’s thinking ‘why is this bitch catching feelings’.
How really bitter are you!!!

Darn!

I am sorry you are so...screwed up...

What’s so scary about saying I love you?

1. Your married

2. You met him 14 days ago

3. He’s just fucking you, not dating you.



You asked, I answered.
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You could just never minded but you couldn’t! I still have it!!! 👍
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
People very different views as to what love means. So you think you love him after 2 weeks? Or lust him. Lol
Ok. You forgot to say ‘it’s a serious question’ lol

I do love him. The reason is because he is the first man who were able to free me from love pains...completely! Like his actions made me feel at peace with myself and cut ties with. Scorpio and I didn’t think it was possible!

So I love him! For his wonderful qualities. For paying attention to me. He just texted me that he is flying back home and can’t wait to see me. I am overwhelmed with attention and all!

Do I love him to be with him? I don’t know!

Not at the time! Very possible if he isn’t some hidden sociopath or jerk that pretending to be normal...

It’s just 3 weeks!!!

And no, I will never forget him. As my savior! Same as I will never forget Scorpio as my wake up call and a person who returned me to life.

Love is a wonderful thing and it comes in different forms! None of which is bad...

...except when @twinkledtoe up my ass!

Lmao!
Well some people think about those words on a much deeper level. That’s why it’s such a big deal. I am not one to throw around those words nor is a my boyfriend. It is a big fucking deal when you say them. Like I want to be committed to you, maybe even your my last love in life. Not I’m grateful to you for saving me.

Sometimes people say it as a habit when you’ve been together a long time. The words are empty, they mean nothing! Especially when you don’t act like it anymore. Fuck that! Don’t tell me you love me unless it’s deep. And sending stupid love songs.., ugh reminds me of a Leo trying to get attention 😡

So don’t tell me what to think & how to be!!!!! Bahaha I will do & react how I want. 😂😂


Hmmm although I don't have my Venus in Cap, I agree with you.

Yeah, don't tell me you love me unless it's deep. True that!
Haha! 😍 You want to know it’s real, not something someone just says and isn’t going to fight for you, be there for you.
Right! If it's just for the sake of saying it, I would say fuck that shit.

Tell me it's real, show me it's fucking real!
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Like...I really fucking love you!!!

Like that— 😂
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
People very different views as to what love means. So you think you love him after 2 weeks? Or lust him. Lol
Ok. You forgot to say ‘it’s a serious question’ lol

I do love him. The reason is because he is the first man who were able to free me from love pains...completely! Like his actions made me feel at peace with myself and cut ties with. Scorpio and I didn’t think it was possible!

So I love him! For his wonderful qualities. For paying attention to me. He just texted me that he is flying back home and can’t wait to see me. I am overwhelmed with attention and all!

Do I love him to be with him? I don’t know!

Not at the time! Very possible if he isn’t some hidden sociopath or jerk that pretending to be normal...

It’s just 3 weeks!!!

And no, I will never forget him. As my savior! Same as I will never forget Scorpio as my wake up call and a person who returned me to life.

Love is a wonderful thing and it comes in different forms! None of which is bad...

...except when @twinkledtoe up my ass!

Lmao!
Well some people think about those words on a much deeper level. That’s why it’s such a big deal. I am not one to throw around those words nor is a my boyfriend. It is a big fucking deal when you say them. Like I want to be committed to you, maybe even your my last love in life. Not I’m grateful to you for saving me.

Sometimes people say it as a habit when you’ve been together a long time. The words are empty, they mean nothing! Especially when you don’t act like it anymore. Fuck that! Don’t tell me you love me unless it’s deep. And sending stupid love songs.., ugh reminds me of a Leo trying to get attention 😡

So don’t tell me what to think & how to be!!!!! Bahaha I will do & react how I want. 😂😂


Hmmm although I don't have my Venus in Cap, I agree with you.

Yeah, don't tell me you love me unless it's deep. True that!
Haha! 😍 You want to know it’s real, not something someone just says and isn’t going to fight for you, be there for you.
Right! If it's just for the sake of saying it, I would say fuck that shit.

Tell me it's real, show me it's fucking real!
Like...I really fucking love you!!!

Like that— 😂
It must comes with an action.

Something like, I fucking love you while fucking me. 😆

Oey, stop trying to bring my evil twin out.

I'm a good girl.
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It’s should be like ‘I love...to fuck you good girl’...
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.

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Surely, actions speak louder than words always!!!
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It happens because people have been extremely hurt by people who supposedly loved them. So some people the words mean a lot to, and others just say them like they are nothing.
Drama! So much frigging drama!!! Oy!
No drama. Why is it such a big deal to say you love someone? Actions mean more anyway. You don’t really need the words to know.


Exactly! But people view it as the end of the life as they knew it!

I sent Cancer a song. My fav love song late at night. He said it’s lovely but let’s take it slow...

I said...you mean we aren’t getting married tomorrow? Ok...I’ll wait until next week...he laughed and that was it!

He got it! Because he isn’t paranoid idiot!

Others? Very paranoid...
People very different views as to what love means. So you think you love him after 2 weeks? Or lust him. Lol
Ok. You forgot to say ‘it’s a serious question’ lol

I do love him. The reason is because he is the first man who were able to free me from love pains...completely! Like his actions made me feel at peace with myself and cut ties with. Scorpio and I didn’t think it was possible!

So I love him! For his wonderful qualities. For paying attention to me. He just texted me that he is flying back home and can’t wait to see me. I am overwhelmed with attention and all!

Do I love him to be with him? I don’t know!

Not at the time! Very possible if he isn’t some hidden sociopath or jerk that pretending to be normal...

It’s just 3 weeks!!!

And no, I will never forget him. As my savior! Same as I will never forget Scorpio as my wake up call and a person who returned me to life.

Love is a wonderful thing and it comes in different forms! None of which is bad...

...except when @twinkledtoe up my ass!

Lmao!
Well some people think about those words on a much deeper level. That’s why it’s such a big deal. I am not one to throw around those words nor is a my boyfriend. It is a big fucking deal when you say them. Like I want to be committed to you, maybe even your my last love in life. Not I’m grateful to you for saving me.

Sometimes people say it as a habit when you’ve been together a long time. The words are empty, they mean nothing! Especially when you don’t act like it anymore. Fuck that! Don’t tell me you love me unless it’s deep. And sending stupid love songs.., ugh reminds me of a Leo trying to get attention 😡

So don’t tell me what to think & how to be!!!!! Bahaha I will do & react how I want. 😂😂


Hmmm although I don't have my Venus in Cap, I agree with you.

Yeah, don't tell me you love me unless it's deep. True that!
Haha! 😍 You want to know it’s real, not something someone just says and isn’t going to fight for you, be there for you.
Right! If it's just for the sake of saying it, I would say fuck that shit.

Tell me it's real, show me it's fucking real!
Like...I really fucking love you!!!

Like that— 😂
It must comes with an action.

Something like, I fucking love you while fucking me. 😆

Oey, stop trying to bring my evil twin out.

I'm a good girl.
It’s should be like ‘I love...to fuck you good girl’...
NO! That's lust.

You don't understand! Urghhh
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I said it to my cap and he didn't say it back. That's y I put cap on back burner.....
You say it not because you want it back!

Just because you feel like saying it!!!

WTF wrong with you people— 😡
That's not the point.

Ther point is in the reaction.
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Fuck reaction! It’s your ego! Fuck it!
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I said it to my cap and he didn't say it back. That's y I put cap on back burner.....
You say it not because you want it back!

Just because you feel like saying it!!!

WTF wrong with you people— 😡
That's not the point.

Ther point is in the reaction.
Fuck reaction! It’s your ego! Fuck it!

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The fact that I didn't feel that reaction might save me years of hurt in the future. Then yes Fuck his reaction lol. Stroke my ego as much as a man's ego wants to be stroked. (which is much more).
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I said it to my cap and he didn't say it back. That's y I put cap on back burner.....
You say it not because you want it back!

Just because you feel like saying it!!!

WTF wrong with you people— 😡
That's not the point.

Ther point is in the reaction.
Fuck reaction! It’s your ego! Fuck it!


The fact that I didn't feel that reaction might save me years of hurt in the future. Then yes Fuck his reaction lol. Stroke my ego as much as a man's ego wants to be stroked. (which is much more).

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This is where is the problem!

I’ll donor if you do it...

I’ll suck if you lick!

Why is it supposed to be like that?
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With those three words comes a lot of pressure.
What pressure? Blood pressure? What?

You are all mushy and soft and you saying it and you listen to your voice...it’s SO sexy!!!

maybe she meant pressure for the other side who doesn't feel it yet or whatever. i thought the topic is about it.

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Topic is about I am saying it because I feel like it! Not because I need him to say it back!

He heard me...now he knows...

Lol I had so much fun saying it to a scorp and his replies were ‘I know’ but his face...

Until one call he said hello my love...and I said you do love me don’t you...and he said I know...lmao! That was priceless.

And then in person ‘may I ask a stupid question?’

Him: YES! I LOVE YOU!!’

Me: no you don’t

Him: ok I don’t!

Me: why did you say it?

Him: because you told me

Me: why do you listen to me?

Him: because I fucking love you and I am tired. And I want to sleep...

Me: great! Now I am confused...may I ask...

Him: shut ta fuck up would you—

Lmao - it was really too much fun!

😂💦💦😂
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With those three words comes a lot of pressure.
What pressure? Blood pressure? What?

You are all mushy and soft and you saying it and you listen to your voice...it’s SO sexy!!!

maybe she meant pressure for the other side who doesn't feel it yet or whatever. i thought the topic is about it.


Topic is about I am saying it because I feel like it! Not because I need him to say it back!

He heard me...now he knows...

Lol I had so much fun saying it to a scorp and his replies were ‘I know’ but his face...

Until one call he said hello my love...and I said you do love me don’t you...and he said I know...lmao! That was priceless.

And then in person ‘may I ask a stupid question?’

Him: YES! I LOVE YOU!!’

Me: no you don’t

Him: ok I don’t!

Me: why did you say it?

Him: because you told me

Me: why do you listen to me?

Him: because I fucking love you and I am tired. And I want to sleep...

Me: great! Now I am confused...may I ask...

Him: shut ta fuck up would you—

Lmao - it was really too much fun!

😂💦💦😂

cool. but your example is hardly an example of love. you are not sharing your life. love comes after significant amount of time being partnered up with someone. you are not partners and by your posts you will never be. you are lovers in love, who share small amount of time and space. love is not about fainting, trembling or whatever sensation you feel, it's more about willing, decision, to be one person together, sharing problems, handling each other weaknesses. in your case you share an experience of failed marriage with other people.

so kudos to you for saying love you cause you feel like it, while having a back up life, lover and new men in prospect or you already poured that vodka. i mean i'm not judging, i'm not in puberty to say it's easy. it's very hard. but just be clear with yourself.

i will so regret for this post!



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We just got too deep into something that wasn’t OP!

I was saying that don’t be afraid to tell your partner you love them!

That’s all!

Don’t wait for them sayungbit back because they’ve heard you...

It left a print!

Also when they say it to you - it’s not a marriage proposal. It’s expression of feelings at the moment.

‘I LOVE YOU’ is a statement that doesn’t kill anyone or anything! It’s a beautiful info on how I am feeling about you at this very moment...

When man asked me WHY do we have to talk about it when it was already established - I always say because people change. Life change. Feelings change. And TODAY I want to know if yoU STILL

love me.

And trust me - it never failed. To be OPEN! And speak out your mind! And say it one more time - it’s just amazing!!!
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Most of the time I feel like if a woman is stupid enough to fall in love with me she makes really bad life choices, or has no idea what love even is in the first place.

It's happened to me a few times within the first few weeks, and always during sex. They tell me they love me for the first time during sex, and I can already see how bad I've blinded them from reality. But I do them a favor and keep myself from the same illusion they see and get far away from them if possible.
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Most of the time I feel like if a woman is stupid enough to fall in love with me she makes really bad life choices, or has no idea what love even is in the first place.

It's happened to me a few times within the first few weeks, and always during sex. They tell me they love me for the first time during sex, and I can already see how bad I've blinded them from reality. But I do them a favor and keep myself from the same illusion they see and get far away from them if possible.
Oh boy! What a drama King!